Ukutyeba kakhulu yinto embi kakhulu eluntwini, kodwa eyona nto imbi kukuba ayingoba bantu badala kuphela abatyeba kakhulu.. Nabantwana benza njalo. Kodwa umahluko kukuba abantwana abayiqondi ingozi eza nokutyeba nokutyeba kakhulu, luxanduva noxanduva lwabazali babo lokuba abantwana bakwazi ukugcina impilo entle yomzimba ebavumela ukuba baphile ngaphandle kokulinganisa ngaphezulu.
Kubonakala ngathi obu bomi banamhlanje benza ukuba abantwana bahlale phantsi ngakumbi kwaye batyebe ngakumbi. Ubomi obugcwele izikrini (umabonwakude, iikhompyuter, iipilisi, iifowuni eziphathwayo ...) kubonakala ngathi kunyanzela abantwana ukuba bachithe iiyure ezininzi behleli, beqhawula kwinyani, kwihlabathi elibangqongileyo kunye nokubaluleka kokuhamba. Ukongeza, ukufunxwa ngumabonwakude kunokubangela ukuba batye ngokungalinganiyo.
Kungenxa yakho konke oku ukuba abazali badlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu kwisondlo kunye nokukhula komzimba kwabantwana. Banoxanduva lokufundisa abantwana babo malunga nokutya okusempilweni, ngokutya ngendlela elungileyo kwaye abantwana bafunda (ngomzekelo kwaye bangaze banyanzeliswe) ukuba nolwalamano oluhle kunye nokutya okunesondlo nokunempilo, okufana nemifuno neziqhamo.
Ukongeza koku, kuyimfuneko ukukhuthaza imithambo yomzimba kwiinkqubo zemihla ngemihla zabantwana. Amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana ngokuzenzekelayo bafuna ukutshisa iikhalori, kufuneka bahambe, badlale kwaye bonwabe. Ke ngoko, kuyimfuneko ukukhuthaza imisebenzi noontanga babo okanye njengentsapho ekhuthaza le ntshukumo isempilweni yokuphuhla komzimba kunye nokuphucula impilo yabo iyonke (ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo). Beka ukutya okungenamsoco ecaleni Kukwabalulekile ukuba abantwana baqhele uhlobo olusempilweni lokutya.