Ukuba unomntwana onesifo sokudakumba, kusenokwenzeka ukuba sele udlulile kuthethwano oluninzi neengcali zengqondo kunye nomntwana. Ngentembelo yakho yonke, ubeke umntwana wakho ezandleni zakhe ukuba azame ukuphucula imvakalelo phambi kwesi sigulo sibuhlungu nesiyingozi sengqondo: uxinzelelo. Ngokwenyani, Oku kuyimfuneko kwaye umntu onesifo sokudakumba kufuneka aye kothethwano nengcali kwezengqondo okanye ngengqondo (kuxhomekeke kubukhali).
Ukongeza koku, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana onesifo sokudakumba unokuncediswa ekhaya. Ukuba uziva ukuba akukho nto unokuyenza ekhaya, uyaphazama! Uncedo losapho lubalulekile kuzo zonke iimeko, ke ukusukela ngoku kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo onke la manqaku ukukhathalela umntwana wakho ngoxinzelelo.
Imfesane novelwano
Kubalulekile ukuba uthethe nomntwana wakho ngeemvakalelo zakhe ngovelwano novelwano. Ukuhambahamba, ukudlala imidlalo yebhodi, okanye ukudlala into ayithandayo kunye naye kunokuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba aphumle kwaye aveze iimvakalelo zakhe kakuhle. Buza umntwana wakho imibuzo efuna iimpendulo ezivulekileyo ngaphaya kwe-ewe elula okanye 'hayi'. Ngale ndlela unokuba neencoko ezinentsingiselo ngakumbi.
Ungaze umgwebe ukuba uziva engafuni kuthetha okanye ukuba unyanisekile okanye uvulekile nawe. Ukuba uyamgweba okanye uyamgxeka, baya kukusondela kwaye soze banyaniseke ngenxa yokoyika ukugxekwa kwakho. Ukuba namaxesha okuthula kwiincoko akufuneki kube yingxaki, ucinga ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uqhubekise iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakho ngexesha enikunye ngalo.
Ukuphumla kunye nemisebenzi yokulwa noxinzelelo
Kubantwana abancinci kukho iindlela ezilula zokuba ubancede baphumle. Unokunika amathuba okudlala abathanda ukuzoba, ukudlala ngentlama yokudlala, isanti, njl. Kubalulekile ukuba ucinge ngezinto umntwana wakho anomdla kuzo ngokukodwa kwaye kufanelekile ngokweminyaka.
Kubalulekile ukuba kule mi sebenzi ubeke ixesha lescreen ecaleni. Ixesha lobuchwephesha kufuneka linqunyelwe kodwa izikrini aziyi kumnceda umntwana wakho ukuba angabi noxinzelelo, endaweni yoko, ngokuchaseneyo. Isenokuba yindawo ekubakhusela kuyo ukuba bavule ngakumbi malunga neemvakalelo zabo kunye neemvakalelo zabo.
Nciphisa ixesha lesikrini
Ukuthatha ingqalelo kwinqanaba langaphambili, kubalulekile ukuba ulilinganisele ixesha lescreen somntwana wakho (umabonwakude, iselfowuni, ithebhulethi, ikhompyuter, imidlalo yevidiyo, njl. Nasiphi na isixhobo se-elektroniki esibonakala sithintela unxibelelwano lobuso nomntwana bomntwana wakho kufuneka sincitshiswe. Abantwana abanamanqanaba aphezulu exesha lesikrini basemngciphekweni omkhulu woxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
Kungcono ubonelele ngeminye imisebenzi yokutshintsha ixesha lescreen, njengokunyuka, ukwenza imisebenzi yobugcisa, ukuzoba, ukwakha, ukukhwela ibhayisekile kunye / okanye ukudlala ngaphandle, njl. Abanye abantwana banokuxhomekeka kakhulu kwixesha labo lesikrini njengomthombo wokuzonwabisa Banokufuna ukuba uthathe inxaxheba kwezinye izinto ezizezabo ukuze ubandakanyeke kwimisebenzi.
Akuncedi nganto ukuxelela umntwana wakho ngoxinzelelo: 'phuma uye kudlala'. Ukuba akanabahlobo okanye uqhele ukuhlala phantsi kwaye adlale imidlalo yevidiyo yonke imihla emva kwesikolo, akenzi nje le nto uyicelayo. Ufuna ukuba ndiyenze naye. Phuma nomntwana wakho nihambe kwindalo okanye Mthabathe ayokubukela imovie kwimovie okanye athathe inxaxheba kwezinye izinto.
Nceda umntwana wakho kwiingxaki ezinzima
Umntwana wakho ufuna uncedo lwakho lokwahlulahlula umsebenzi wesikolo ube sisiqwengana, esilawulekayo ngakumbi. Abantwana abanedepression bahlala bekunzima ukuthatha iingxaki kunye nemisebenzi emikhulu kwaye bayifumane ingaphaya kwamandla abo. Bancede ngokwahlula umsebenzi Incinci, imisebenzi elawulekayo iya kunceda ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kwakho xa beqonda imisebenzi emincinci.
Imisebenzi emincinci yemisebenzi ikhokelela kwimisebenzi emikhulu eyenziweyo ekuhambeni kwexesha. Yinkqubo ekuhambeni kwexesha, efuna umonde kunye nokuzimisela ukuphucula. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka umenzele izinto umntwana wakho, kufuneka umfundise ukuba ayenze. Mncede aqonde ukuba le nto ayibonayo inkulu kangaka inokudilizwa iye kwezinye izinto ezincinci. ukuqala ukujongana nayo.
Ikhaya elinomoya ofudumeleyo nolungileyo
Ukunciphisa okanye ukuphelisa izimo zengqondo ezingalunganga, ulwimi kunye neencoko ezingalunganga. Kulumkele nokuphakamisa ilizwi lakho, indlela yokuziphatha enengcwangu, kunye nalo naluphi na uhlobo lobundlobongela emzimbeni ekhaya.
Yenza ikhaya lakho libe yindawo ekhuselekileyo yomntwana wakho endaweni yomoya osoloko uguquguqukayo (ngamagama, iimvakalelo, okanye ngokwasemzimbeni). Yenze indawo ezolileyo eyenza umntwana wakho azive ekhuselekile, engqondweni, ngokweemvakalelo nangokomzimba.
Jonga icala eliqaqambileyo kwaye ukhuthaze iimvakalelo zakho ezilungileyo
Chaza ezona zinto zintle kwiimeko kunezinto ezimbi. Bancede babone icala eliqaqambileyo layo nayiphi na imeko. Kufuneka ube ngumzekelo obonayo izinto ezintle ebomini xa uthetha, ngamazwi akho nakwizenzo zakho. Melana nomnqweno wokuvakalisa iingcinga zakho ezimbi xa zithi qatha engqondweni. njengoko umntwana wakho enokutyisa iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye afunde kumazwi akho.
Ngokufanayo, kubalulekile ukuba uncede umntwana wakho athethe ngendlela avakalelwa ngayo kwaye uzihloniphe ezi mvakalelo. Mamela into abayithethayo kuwe ngomonde kwaye uthathe onke amazwi abo ngokungathí sina. Sukuzithoba okanye unciphise iimvakalelo zabo. Bonakalisa uvelwano nemfesane xa evakalisa indlela avakalelwa ngayo kuwe. Mncede asebenzise 'Ndiva' uqinisekiso xa evakalisa iimvakalelo zakhe.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba uzinike ixesha emini, yonke imihla, lokuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nomntwana wakho. Isenokuba lixesha elinomda, kodwa kuya kufuneka ubuncinci ibe yimizuzu engama-20 ngosuku ekugxilwe ngokupheleleyo nomntwana wakho, ishiya iselfowuni kunye nawo nawuphi na omnye umsebenzi okanye isiphazamiso ecaleni ecaleni ngokupheleleyo.
Umntwana wakho uyakudinga ukuba ube ngumzekelo olungileyo, ukuze umfundise ukuba aphile impilo esemzimbeni nasengqondweni. Thetha ngawo nawuphi na umxholo ngaphandle koloyiko, ngokuphandle. Phambi kwawo nawuphi na umqobo, soloko ujonga izisombululo ... umntwana wakho ukufuna ngakumbi kunangaphambili.