Yintoni onokuyenza ukuze abantwana bakho babandakanyeke kwimisebenzi yasekhaya?

Bakhona abazali abakhalazayo kuba abantwana babo bengazibandakanyi kwimisebenzi yasekhaya kwaye bacinga ukuba xa bengayenzi loo nto kungenxa yokuba besonqena nangenxa yokungakhathali. Kodwa akukho nto inokuqhubeka nenyaniso, ukuba abantwana ababandakanyeki kwimisebenzi yasekhaya akusiyo impazamo yabo ... Kungenxa yemfundo abayifumeneyo, ngoko ngabazali abamele batshintshe imbono yabo.

Xa abantwana befunda ukuba abanye banokubenzela izinto, basuka baphelelwe ngumdla wokuzenzela izinto. kwaye bakhangela izizathu zokungakwenzi oko. Olunye uphononongo lufumanise ukuba i-74% yabazali inika ingxelo yokuba abantwana babo abadli ngokuba negalelo kumsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya ngaphandle kokuba bacelwe ngokucacileyo. Kwaye umyinge wamashumi amahlanu ekhulwini (50%) wabazali bathi bachitha ixesha elininzi bexambulisana nabantwana babo ngomsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya kangangokuba baye badinwe baze bagqibele ngokuwenza ngokwabo.

Kubazali abaninzi, kusenokubonakala kulula ukuzenzela imisebenzi yasekhaya kunokuba bachithe ixesha namandla besenza abantwana babo. Ukuba ungomnye waba bazali, ngoko qhubeka ufunda kuba abantwana kufuneka basebenzisane kwimisebenzi yasekhaya, kwaye kungekhona nje ngokuzibophelela, kodwa kuba kubanceda baphuhlise ngokuchanekileyo.

Sebenzisa imisebenzi ukufundisa izakhono zokuphila imihla ngemihla

Xa abantwana besenza imisetyenzana yasekhaya, bafunda imbopheleleko yokuzenzela izinto yaye baya kukwazi ukuva ulwaneliseko lokuzenzela izinto. Baya kufunda ukuba ubomi bufuna umsebenzi nomgudu nokuba izinto azifikelelwa zizodwa.

Ebantwaneni, imisebenzi yasekhaya ifanele ibe ngaphezu kokunceda abazali babo ekwenzeni imisebenzi yasekhaya kuphela. Zizifundo ezisisiseko zobomi kunye nezakhono. Xa ulayisha i-dishwasher okanye uhlamba izitya, xa ubeka umatshini wokuhlamba okanye uthabatha impahla ... Abantwana baya kufunda indlela ihlabathi elisebenza ngayo. Sukuthatha elo thuba lokufunda ukuze uzigcinele imizuzu embalwa. 

Yenza imisebenzi yasekhaya iqikeleleke kwaye ibe yesiqhelo.

Ukuze abantwana bamkele imisebenzi yasekhaya ngokuzithandela, kufuneka bayidibanise kubomi babo, oko kukuthi, kufuneka babekho kwiindlela zesiqhelo. Ngokomzekelo, veki nganye beka ixesha lokuba intsapho yonke yenze umsebenzi wasekhaya, ngokomzekelo, ngeMigqibelo kusasa ngentsimbi yesi-9 ukusa kweye-11.

Ngale ndlela, Uya kuphepha ukulwa xa kusenziwa imisebenzi okanye lithuba likabani na lokuyenza. Ukuba nentsapho yonke yenza umsebenzi wasekhaya kukwanceda ekuphuculeni inkuthazo, abantwana bakho baya kwazi ukuba ngentsasa yangoMgqibelo zinikezelwe kumsebenzi wasekhaya. Nangona ukuba awunalo ixesha loku, unokwenza itshathi yomsebenzi kwaye uyibeke ekhitshini efrijini, ukuze wonke umntu azi ukuba kufuneka enze ntoni kwaye xa kufuneka ayenze.

Babele abantwana bakho imisebenzi ngokobudala babo

Musa ukulindela ukuba abantwana bakho benze imisebenzi yasekhaya abangakwaziyo ukuyenza, kuba baya kudana baze bangafuni kuyenza kwakhona becinga ukuba abanakuyenza. Kubalulekile ukuba uyithathele ingqalelo iminyaka yomntwana wakho ukuze wazi oko anokukwenza noko ufanele ukulinda de kudlule ixesha elingakumbi.

Apha ngezantsi siza kukunika amacebiso athile ukuze uqalise ukwabela abantwana bakho imisebenzi ngokobudala babo. Kodwa khumbula ukuba, ukuze uqalise kuya kufuneka umncede kwaye umkhokele ukuze akwazi ukufunda oko afanele akwenze nendlela afanele akwenze ngayo. Emva koko, ngokuthe ngcembe, ngokuthe ngcembe uyalurhoxisa uncedo ade akwazi ukuwenza ngokwakhe loo msebenzi.

Iingcebiso zomsebenzi wasekhaya

• Iminyaka ye-4 kunye ne-5: Hlela iikawusi, beka izinto zokudlala, nceda ukuseta itafile, ukulungelelanisa iimagazini.
• Iminyaka ye-6 kunye ne-7: Ukuthatha inja uhambo kunye noMama noTata, bakhuphe umatshini wokuhlamba izitya, benze isidlo sasemini, belungisa ibhedi.
• Iminyaka ye-8 kunye ne-9: Cwangcisa itafile, ulayishe i-dishwasher, ucoce indlu yokuhlambela, uncede ekhitshini, utshayela kwaye uhlambe isilwanyana.
• Iminyaka ye-10 kunye ne-11: Ukubeka ukutya kwi-pantry, ukulayisha kunye nokukhulula i-dishwasher, ukutshayela kunye nokuguqa phantsi, uthuli, ukwenza igumbi lakho lokulala, ukukhupha inkunkuma.
• Iminyaka ye-12 kunye ne-13: Yenza yonke into yokuhlamba impahla, wenze ukutya okulula, uhlambulule ishawa kunye nendlu yangasese, wenze igumbi lakho lokulala, utshayela kwaye uhlambe phantsi, ucoce uthuli.

Umsebenzi wendlu kunye negumbi lakho lokulala

Ukucoca igumbi lokulala kufuneka libe yimbopheleleko ukusuka xa bebancinci kakhulu. Uya kufumana ingqiqo eninzi kuye ukuba acoce indawo yakhe yobuqu. Yindlela yokufundisa abantwana ukuzimela nokuzikhathalela, oku kuya kubanika uxanduva kunye nokuzazi, ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba okuphuculweyo. Imivuzo yoku icacile: Umntwana wakho uya kukwazi ukuchitha ixesha kwigumbi lokulala elicocekileyo apho yonke into igcinwa kwaye kulula kakhulu ukuyifumana. 

Jikelezisa imisebenzi yasekhaya

Ngaphandle kokucoca igumbi lokulala, xa wonke umntu kufuneka azinakekele, yinto efanelekileyo yokuseka inkqubo yokujikeleza yemisebenzi yasekhaya ukwenza imisebenzi emininzi ngezihlandlo ezahlukeneyo. Ungayenza kwikhalenda yemisebenzi oya kuyitshintsha veki nganye okanye ulungiselele iileta ezinemisebenzi yasekhaya kwaye uvumele abantwana bakhethe eminye veki nganye.

Ngolunye uhlobo, Kungumbono omhle ukujikelezisa imisebenzi yasekhaya ukuze bangasoloko besenza okufanayo kwaye babe namava okufunda abanzi. Abantwana baya kufunda ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya engakumbi yaye nawe uya kukwazi ukuphepha izityholo zomkhethe. Bamele baqonde ukuba kuya kubakho amaxesha apho kuya kufuneka benze imisebenzi abayithandayo ngakumbi ngamanye amaxesha, eminye imisebenzi abasenokuyithanda kancinane. Kodwa ngenye indlela okanye enye, baya kuhlala bezenza.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ukuba imisebenzi yasekhaya iyimbopheleleko emele izaliseke ekhaya ngumntu wonke ohlala kunye kwaye ngaloo ndlela afumane imvisiswano. Abantwana mabakhuthazwe ukuba benze njalo ngokutshintshiselana ngemali okanye ngembuyekezo yezinto eziphathekayo, kuba ngoko zonke iinqobo ezixutyushwayo ziya kunyamalala ngequbuliso.