Ngamanye amaxesha sonke siyayidinga into esenza sizive sikhuselekile. Isinika amandla ongezelelweyo ukoyisa iimeko ekunzima kuthi mihla le. Kukho abo bane-keychain yethamsanqa, ipendenti okanye iisokisi ezithile. Inyani yile yokuba sinoluvo lokuba ukuba loo nto ihamba nathi, akukho nto inokungahambi kakuhle.
Oku kukukhanya nje kwesidingo sokuncamathisela ukuba umntwana ngamnye uziva xa eqala ukufumanisa umhlaba. Akazithembanga, ufuna ukuba shushu kwaye sikhuselwe, kwaye xa engenako ukukufumana ezandleni zakhe, ujonge kuthi "umntu oza kungena endaweni yakhe" oba yeyona nto ayithandayo.
Kutheni umntwana wakho efuna into yokudlala ayithandayo
Unyana wakho kwasekuzalweni kwakhe, Ukujongana neemvakalelo ezintsha kunye nemiceli mngeni yonke imihla, kuba yile nto ukukhula kubandakanya. Oku kuthetha ukuba ifuna inkxaso yakho kunye nokhuseleko lokuba oko kuthetha ntoni. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko apho ungeke uhambe nabo. Into yokudlala abayithandayo yile nto ibanika olo khuseleko ongenakubanika lona ngelo xesha. Kukutshintsha inani uncamathiselo kwinto. Oku kubanika uvakalelo oluthuthuzelayo oludluliselwa leli nani. Ngokwenene luhlobo lokutshintsha endaweni yakho, into ebenza bazive bekhuselekile, njengawe.
Kungenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuqhotyoshelwa kwisilwanyana esincinciweyo ukuba ahambe naye ukuya kulala okanye ngengubo. Nangona eneneni eyona nto yokudlala ayithandayo inokuba yiyo nantoni na esuka kunodoli othambileyo ukuya kwibhayisikile enamavili amathathu. Nokuba yeyiphi na into yokudlala, into ebalulekileyo yimvakalelo emnandi ekunika yona. Kungenxa yokuba uziva ukuba le nto ngunodoli onokukhanya okanye isibane esimkhusela ebumnyameni, okanye ngenxa yokuba uyonwabisa ngokudlala. Yonyana wakho luluvo oluluncedo, olumnceda ekukhuleni kwakhe.
Ungaziva ixesha elingakanani kwesi sidingo sokuncamathisela kule nto?
Kuya kuxhomekeka kuphuhliso lomntwana wakho, akukho namnye unokuqikelela ukuba umntwana wakho uyakuyibeka nini le nto yokudlala ecaleni. Inokuhlala inentsingiselo kuye. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngubani ongakhumbuliyo ukuba unodoli wabo wokuqala, okanye ibhola ayithandayo, yayiyeyiphi?
Inyani yile yokuba yinto yokudlala leyo ayinalo ixabiso elikhulu kwinto eyiyo, ukuba akunjalo into emele umntwana wakho. Oko kuthetha ukuba uyakudinga ukuba ube uziva ngathi uyaqhubeka ukukuzisela uxolo oludingayo lokujongana nemiceli mngeni yakho.
Into yokudlala inokuqhekeka xa kudlalwa. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyilungise amaxesha ngamaxesha njengoko kufuneka ade umntwana wakho akulungele ukuhamba kuye. Nokuba awunakho ukuyilungisa ekugqibeleni, uyakuxabisa ukuzama.
Ungaze unike umntwana wakho into yokudlala ayithandayo, okanye umxelele ukuba mdala kakhulu ukuba angayifumana. Ukuba uyayenza, ngekhe uyihloniphe indlela abavakalelwa ngayo, ngakumbi izinga lokukhula kwabo. Uya kuthatha isigqibo xa sele elungele ukuyinika, ayilahle, okanye ayigcine njengememori yobuntwana eyonwabileyo. Sithetha ngento ebaluleke kakhulu emntwaneni wakho, ukuyidlala kungabenzakalisa iimvakalelo zabo.
Ukukwazi ukugcina into yokudlala oyithandayo
Nje ukuba umntwana wakho abeke loo nto yokudlala ecaleni, yibeke ecaleni xa kunokwenzeka. Njengoko besitshilo ekuqaleni, sonke sifuna ukhuseleko ukuze sijongane nemiceli mngeni yobomi. Kulula kakhulu ukujongana nabo ukuba ngenye imini, xa sijonga ekhabhathini, sifumanisa ukuba loo teddy simgone ngobusuku obumnyama.
Nokuba sibadala kangakanani, ngaphakathi siyaqhubeka nokukhula. Siyaqhubeka nokoyika iimvakalelo ezintsha, siyaqhubeka nokufunda izinto kwaye sijongane nemiceli mngeni. Ngaphakathi sisengabantwanaNokuba asisadlali ngala bhola, okanye sikhwele ibhayisikile enamavili amathathu endala. Ngokuqinisekileyo sine-amulet, i-pendant, i-keychain, ipeni, esinceda ukuba sisayine amaxwebhu abalulekileyo. Wonke umntu sisafuna ukukhuselwa Ebomini bethu. Ukuqonda oku, asizukuphosa isilwanyana sakhe esifakiweyo, ingubo yakhe, nkqu naloo bhayisekile inamavili mathathu isoloko isenza sikhubeke. Siyazi ukuba ngenye imini amaxhala akho aya kuphela kwiimemori zento yokudlala yakwenza wonwabe njengomntwana.