Iintsana azidingi kufundiswa ukutya, ukuhamba, okanye ukulala, kuba zingafunda ukukwenza ngaphandle koncedo; Mhlawumbi ungatya kunye nomntwana wakho ukugcina indlela icephe eligcinwe ngayo, okanye ukumisela iinkqubo zangokuhlwa eziqhuba ukulala, okanye uyithathe ngezandla ngelixa ithatha amanyathelo ayo okuqala ... Kodwa inkululeko iza iyodwa, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ide isibambe singalindelanga, njengoko ndisitsho, xa oomama nootata sele bezokwazi yonke into malunga nobuntwana, lixesha lokuba bashiye ikhaya 😉; Kodwa masingangxami, kuba ngoku siza kuthetha ngamanyathelo ayo okuqala.
Ukuba ujonga ngokusondeleyo, iincoko phakathi kwabazali babantwana abakwiminyaka efanayo zizele ziimpawu, kodwa kuninzi lwabo abalinganiswa abaphambili ngabo bancinci baye babuguqula ubomi bethu bajonge ezantsi, kwaye abasenza sibuze yonke into ebesiyiyo ngaphambili. Ke ukuba sithetha malunga nokuba baqale nini kwaye baqala nini ukuhamba siya kubaleka nomama oqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakhe uthathe amanyathelo okuqala eyedwa kwiinyanga ezili-9, kunye notata othi intombi yakhe ayivumanga de kube li-15.. Zombini ezi meko ziqhelekile, nangona sithelekisa ukuba kusoloko kukho umntu othile osengxakini, kodwa ayiyiyo impazamo kulindelo lwabantu abadala?
Ukuhamba okuyi-gerund.
Inqanaba lokukhula komntwana kungekudala okanye kamva, kodwa phakathi kokufumana amandla ngasemva, ukuphucula ibhalansi yamalungu, ukwenza iingqondo zabo kunye nokoyisa uloyiko lwabo ... Iingcali ziyavuma ukuba ayinamsebenzi ukuba kwiinyanga ezili-12, 13, 14, 15 umntwana akahambi, enyanisweni kude kube ziinyanga ezili-18 xa uvavanyo olucokisekileyo lukhuthazwa kwimeko apho umntwana engahambi. Kwezi meko kunokubakho i-psychomotor okanye ingxaki yophuhliso; Kukho intetho yeengxaki zesondlo njengezizathu, umzekelo, ubuyazi loo nto ianemia inokuchaphazela izakhono zengqondo?
Ekufumaneni izakhono zemoto zikho iinjongo zokufezekisa, kodwa ngaphandle kokubeka ixesha elibekiweyo, okanye ukuziva ukoyiswa, kwaye kunjalo, ngaphandle kokubeka uxinzelelo kwiintsana. Umzekelo, kuqhelekile ukuba ngeenyanga ezili-10 bayakhasa, ukuze nge-12 bavuke kwaye beme kwindawo yokuma, baqale ukuhamba phakathi kweenyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwezili-15 ... Emva kwethutyana baya kuba nakho ukubuyela umva .
Yintoni le ingafundiswanga ukuhamba?
Ewe, icacile, ixhomekeke kuphuhliso lomntu ngamnye, Into onokuyenza kukuphendula kwimiqondiso kwaye umenze abone ukuba uyavuya kuba emdala. Ukuba uyayiqaphela loo nto kufuneka ukhase, unganyanzelisi ukuyityala ukuze ikwazi ukuhamba, ukuba ifuna ukubambelela ukuba 'ime' qinisekisa ukuba ikufuphi nefenitshala okanye izinto ezikhuselekileyo abanokukwenza oko, oko kukuthi, ukuba zinobunzima obaneleyo ukuba zingafuduki ngokutyhala komntwana Ukuba uhamba kodwa engaziva ekhuselekile, mncede.
Musa ukukruquka, xa athe wawa, woyika ukuhamba; Unomonde omninzi kwaye uhlale kwisimo sakho senkxaso, kodwa ngaphandle kokumnyanzela ukuba ahambe ngamanqanaba ophuhliso. Iya kuba lula kakhulu, kwaye uyakuyonwabela ngakumbi.
Sele ehamba! Ngoku lixesha lokuba ufunde okungakumbi malunga nokuthintela ukulimala.
Ukuba xa behleli, abakhasayo okanye abakhasayo bekufuneka nirhubuluze nijikeleze indlu ukufumana izinto ezinokubangela ukwenzakala okanye iingozi (iiplagi, iintambo, izinto ezincinci), Ngoku lixesha lokuba ucinge ngokukhusela izinyuko ukuze zingakwazi ukwehla okanye ukunyuka de zibe zikulungele ngokwenene.. Kuya kufuneka ulungiselele ukuhlala ulumkile xa bethatha amanyathelo abo okuqala bodwa, kuba ukusuka kolunye usuku ukuya kolandelayo bathatha isantya esikhulu kwaye ukuba usesitratweni kukho umngcipheko wetrafikhi okanye ulahlekelwe ngumbono womntu ' encinci '.
Xa behamba, bafikelela kwiindawo ezininzi kunye namathuba okuba baya kwenza ukonyuka kobubi, umzekelo ukuthatha izinto ezincinci kwiitafile nokuzifihla (izitshixo, i-USB, njl. Njl.), Ukuvula nokuvala iingcango (banokunyathela kwiminwe yabo. ) ... Ekugqibeleni, imalunga nokulindela ukuhamba kwabo, kunye nokucinga ukuba ukongeza ekubeni ngumququzeleli, uya kuba ngumgcini..
Ingcebiso yethu kukuba uthathe umoya kwaye wonwabele umntwana wakho nokuba leliphi ixesha lokukhula kwakhe, ukuba akahambi okwangoku kungafuneka umthwale ngakumbi ezandleni zakho, ukuba umi nkqo kwaye unomdla kakhulu ekuthatheni amanyathelo, kuya kufuneka chitha ixesha ugoba ngaphambili ukumbamba, xa eqonda ukuba uyayeka ahambe ngaphandle koncedo, uyakuhamba 'uphambene' umsukele. Ndiyaphinda, yonwabele! Kwaye ulibale ngokuthelekisa, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukukhula kamva kwabantwana akunanto yakwenza nokuqala kwabo ukuhamba xa babeselusana.
Imifanekiso - UGustavo Devito, Indwangu yeChhe