Uninzi lwenu sele luseholideyini, kwaye abanye sele bezoqala: Ukuba unamantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe, into ebalulekileyo lixesha lasimahla onokwabelana ngalo, ngaphandle kwee-ajenda, iincwadi, ngaphandle kwe-alamu kwi-smartphone, ngaphandle kweefowuni ezivela kubalingane bakho, okanye ukukhawuleza okanye iishedyuli ..., ngaphandle kwezinto ezininzi ezikubophelela kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla, kwaye nangona ngamanye amaxesha zinika ukhuseleko, akunjalo ukuba bahlala benkululeko kunye nokuzithemba. Kungenxa yoko le nto ixesha lekhefu lixesha lakho: thatha ithuba lokuphumla, uncume kwaye unikezele ekubeni wena nabantwana bakho.
Nokuba awuthabathi luhambo, uza konwaba kuba kuzo zonke iidolophu okanye izixeko, zininzi izihlandlo zokuba nexesha elimnandi: i-cinema yasehlotyeni, imibhiyozo yesanta, ipuli yokuqubha okanye ulwandle (khumbula ukuba kuya kufuneka ujonge ukuhlamba kwabantwana), uhambo oluya elwandle olusondeleyo, ukuvulwa kweziko loluntu, apho kuya kubakho imisebenzi yawo wonke umntu . Kwaye ukuba uza kutyelela iindawo ezintsha, eSpain okanye phesheya, uya kunika abantwana ingqokelela yeemvakalelo kunye nolwazi abangakwaziyo ukufumana. Ukuhamba nabantwana kulula kunokuba kubonakala ngathi kukuqala nje, kodwa silungiselele isikhokelo sokukunceda kancinci.
Ingcebiso zangaphambili.
Ukulungiselela uhambo.
Sebenzisa ingqiqo kwaye usebenzise xa usenza izicwangciso: Umzekelo, ukuba uhambo lude, kufuneka ufumane indlela yokuba umntwana enze inxenye yalo ngelixa elele, kuba xa beziintsana okanye besebancinci kakhulu, omncinci ophumlileyo kwaye osebenzayo unokukhathazeka kakhulu (kubo nakuwe), ngelixa kufuneka uqhubeke nokukhathazeka ngokuqhuba, ungenise amaxwebhu, ucela imoto eqeshisayo, njl. Musa ukulibala ukuba ithiyori, uhambo lokuzonwabisa ngokuyinxenye luphumla kwaye luyonwabele: Sebenzisa umonde wakho kwaye uzame ukuziqhelanisa nezinto ezinokubakho, kunye neyona nto ufuna ukuyenza. Usenokuba nemincili malunga nokuhlala amava amaninzi kwelinye ilizwe okanye isixeko, kodwa inyani yahlukile, kwaye akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokonwabela imeko yesikwere esinemithombo, endaweni yokhenketho olukhokelwayo kwiinqaba zekomkhulu. Cinga ngeminyaka yabantwana bakho, kunye nezinto abanokukwazi ukuzinyamezela.
Nokuba unexesha elincinci lokulungiselela uhambo, Sebenzisa zonke izibonelelo ezandleni zakho, kwaye ube nencwadana yokubhala nepeni efanelekileyo, ukubhala phantsi yonke into oyifunayoamaphepha asemthethweni eBhunga lesiXeko, iBhodi yabakhenkethi, iimephu zikaGoogle, iwebhusayithi yenkampani yemetro, izibonelelo zenkcubeko, iivawutsha zosapho ukufikelela kwiindawo ofuna ukuzityelela. Iiwebhusayithi zabahambi ezinezimvo malunga ne-gastronomy, indawo yokuhlala, njl njl. Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ofuna ukuzikhangela, nakumaphepha ahlukeneyo, bhala phantsi yonke imikhombandlela oyifunayo kohambo. Usebenzisa enye incwadana yokubhala encinci okanye usetyenziso lweselfowuni, bhala zonke iinombolo zomnxeba / iidilesi oya kuzifuna (ihotele, imyuziyam, imeko zikaxakeka, iziko lempilo,…) kunye neemeko zonyango kwilizwe oya kulo. Kuya kufuneka ubonelele nangokunikezelwa kwemali, ukuba leyo uyiphetheyo iyaphela (Thetha kwibhanki yakho okanye ebhankini yokonga kuba kule mihla ungahlawula iinkonzo ezininzi nge-smartphone yakho, kwaye kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba bayayinikezela na inkonzo kwamanye amazwe).
Thatha ithuba lokwabelana nenxalenye yemibuzo yakho nabantwana: umzekelo, baya kuthanda ukubona imifanekiso yepaki yamanzi, okanye bafumane i-dessert eqhelekileyo, baya kuthanda ukubona igalari yezithombe yendlu oyikhethileyo kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke bayakuchukunyiswa "ukwehla kwinqanaba lesitalato" enkosi kwiiMephu.
Siyaphi?
Iintsapho ezininzi (ukuba azikho) zithanda ukuhamba phakathi kukaJuni noSeptemba, ukongeza kwinto yokuba sihlala sinendawo yokuphumla, amaqondo obushushu (kwiNtla yeIkhweyitha) amnandi ngakumbi. Ngaphandle koko siyaluthanda ulwandle. Kodwa kukwakho abo bakhetha izixeko zikazwelonke okanye zangaphandle, nkqu nabo bangoyikiyo ukuya phesheya, kwaye sikhetha iYurophu ukuba ihambe nabantwana.Nangona iUnited States, iCanada kunye nezinye iidolophu zaseAsia nazo zinomtsalane. Akukho buhlobo phakathi kwekamva kunye nentlalontle, kuba ixhomekeke kukhetho lomntu ngamnye; Ukongeza, ukoyisa ucalucalulo kukwabanceda abantwana bakhule njengabantu.
Abantwana bakho banokuziqhelanisa kakuhle, ungothuka ... Awuyi kubasa kwindawo engakhuselekanga, kodwa awunakuzikhawulela ngenxa yokuba andikuthandi ukuhamba nabantwana abancinci. Amava amatsha afunyanwa kuphela ngokuhamba kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Ulibale ngesihloko esithi "indawo yabantwana", kuba baya konwaba kwaye bafunde ngakumbi ukuba ungazama ukubasa naphi na, kunye nemeko yokuhlengahlengisa imisebenzi yosapho kuyo nayiphi na into efunwa ngabantwana. Kuyanceda kakhulu ukuba bazibhokoxe kwiincoko nakwizithethe zesinye isixeko.
Kwelinye icala, ukunxibelelana neNdalo kuluncedo kakhulu, ngesizathu kukho indawo yabahambi abakhetha iindawo zasemaphandleni, iiPaki zeSizwe, iindawo zokulala ezintabeni. Indlela yokuphila yangaphambili kamama notata iya kukwenza imeko kakhulu, ungayeki.
Ixesha lokupakisha.
Kulula xa abantwana bebandakanywa kumalungiselelo: ungathenga iibhegi zokuhamba ezincinci, ukuze ibe ngabo abakhetha kwaye bagcine iimpahla zabo, iimpahla zokudada, izinto zokuthambisa, izinto zokudlala, izinto zabo (iisongo, iiglasi zelanga, iingxowa zohambo). Unokwenza uluhlu ngokudibeneyo, kwaye kuya kuba lula kubo ukugcwalisa ityesi. Inqanaba lokuzibandakanya kunye noxanduva luxhomekeke kubudala, kwaye kuya kusoloko kuya kufuneka ujonge umxholo ngokwakho. Ungalibali i-sunscreen, into egxotha iingcongconi, i-nit xa zibamba iintwala kunye nezinto zokuthintela ukungonwabi xa imozulu itshintsha (umzekelo, idyasi yemvula okanye ikhati).
Nonke kufuneka nize nezihlangu ezibini, kunye nezihlangu zerabha ukuba nihlamba, iitawuli zephuli, iminqwazi, ihempe yokukhusela ilanga. Kananjalo kuya kufuneka ukuba uqokelele oobhaka kunye nokutya okulula kuhambo, kunye neebhotile zamanzi.
Uza kujikeleza njani?
Uhamba njani? Cinga ngentuthuzelo yomntu wonke, ngomnqweno wakho wokuqhuba iiyure ezininzi, zoqoqosho lwakho. Isithuthi sosapho sikhululekile kwaye uloliwe umnandi kakhulu (nangona kufuneka uphathe iisutikheyisi). Inqwelomoya ikushiya ngokuqhwanyaza kweliso (okanye phantse) kwindawo ekuyiwa kuyo, nangona yonke le nkqubo inzima (ukungena, ukukhwela, ukulinda…); Ukuhamba ngesikhephe kuyonwabisa, kwaye ungalala ekhayeni. Uloliwe unika inkululeko ethe kratya kunenqwelomoya, ukuhamba ngesikhephe ebusuku kunokubangela ukungazithembi ukuba umntwana uhlala ethe qwa kwaye ujonge kwelinye lamazibuko (isetyhula iifestile). Ngemoto, umqhubi uyadinwa kwaye kufuneka ayeke rhoqo emva kweeyure ezimbini, nangona uloliwe engakushiyi kwindawo kanye oya kuyo (hayi inqwelomoya okanye inqanawa), kodwa utshintshisa ezi ndlela zintathu zokugqibela zokuhamba zikuvumela ukuba wazi imeko-bume kumazibuko , izikhululo zeenqwelo moya, amaxesha onyaka.
Ukhetho lweendlela zothutho lukwalungiselelwe imeko yendawo oya kuyo, kuba ungaya ngemoto eSantiago de Compostela, kodwa hayi eToronto. Kufanelekile ukuba xa uthetha ngohambo kunye nabantwana, ubaxelele nokuba kunjani ukuhamba ngesikhepheNditsho nokujonga amabali ayichazayo, okanye iividiyo zikaYouTube.
Kwaye ungaphoswa zizindululo zethu bonisa ukulinda kwizitishi zothutho.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni sifikile.
Ukhethe indawo yokuhlala ngaphambili:
- Amagumbi asezilalini okanye iibhokisi: zilungele iintsapho ezinabantwana. Zindawo ezifanelekileyo zokugcina iinkqubo ezithile zabantwana abancinci, ezinje ngamaxesha okutya kunye nokulala, unokulungiselela isidlo sakusasa nesidlo sangokuhlwa, nokuba uyatya ngaphandle, nokuba upheke esona sidlo siphambili. Uya kuba nenkululeko engakumbi yokuza nokuhamba, kodwa zibandakanya umsebenzi owongezelelweyo kaMama noTata. Imeko yendlu yasemaphandleni ikuvumela ukuba unxibelelane ngokulula ngakumbi nabemi bedolophu namasiko abo.
- Ukumisa amatende: ngokunxibelelana neNdalo, indawo yeenkampu ilungile ukuze uphumle, uhambe ngokukhululekileyo, kwaye wonwabe ngokulula.
- Iihostele neehotele: ukhetho ngalunye lulungelelaniswa neendlela ezahlukeneyo zoqoqosho. Olu hlobo lokuhlala likuvumela ukuba unqamle ngokupheleleyo, ngaphandle kokujongana nayo nayiphi na into ngaphandle kokonwaba kunye nokuphumla ngokupheleleyo.
Qiniseka ukuba neempawu zamagumbi kwaye banendawo yokuhamba ukuba uyayifuna. Buza (nokuba ndibeka kwiwebhu) ukuba isofa yibhedi yesofa, okanye ukuba kukho iibhedi ezi-3 kwigumbi njengoko kubonisiwe. Jonga ixesha lokungena / lokujonga.
Okokugqibela, ukuba unayo umntwana phakathi kweenyanga ezi-0 ukuya kwezingama-36, ulungiselelo kufuneka lube nobunono kwaye luhleleke, kwaye kwiintsuku zokugqibela ngaphambi kohambo (xa umsebenzi wakho uza kuba mkhulu) ukuba umama okanye utata amkhathalele umntwana ixesha elide, Ngelixa ezinye zigqibezela iinkcukacha, iinkqubo kunye nokujonga iisutikheyisi, okanye ukuthenga ukutya kohambo.