Abantwana kufuneka babe nendawo yabo ukuze ngale ndlela ubenze ukuba balwe kancinci. Ukwenza oku, inyathelo lokuqala kukwenza indawo zokuphumla ezizodwa ekhaya. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngaphandle kwemizamo yakho emihle, ukuvalelwa wedwa kuthetha ukuba abantwana baya kudinwa. Ungabanika abantwana izithuba zabo zamaxesha apho bafuna nje ikhefu.
Nokuba kumakhaya amancinci, usenokufumana indlela yokwenza indawo eyodwa yomntwana ngamnye. Ukuba abantwana bakho banamagumbi abo, yenza indawo yokuphumla ekoneni.
Iindawo zokuphumla ezizimeleyo
Ukuba uhlala kwigumbi elinye, inokuba yindawo ecaleni kwesinxibo okanye phambi kwebhedi. Banokuba segumbini lakho lokulala okanye phantsi kwetafile yasekhitshini. Injongo kukuqinisekisa ukuba yindawo ekhuselekileyo, yeyomntwana omnye kuphela nokuba iyafikeleleka nanini na xa badinga ikhefu. Ukuba unezinto zokuthambisa (ii-cushion, izilwanyana ezifakiweyo, iingubo), nokuba ngcono!
Xa abantwana bakho beqala ukukhathazeka omnye nomnye, bakhumbuze ngeendawo zabo zokuphumla. Khumbula, sisiqabu esifanelekileyo, hayi ixesha lokulinda. Sukuthumela abantwana bakho apho xa benomsindo, kunokuba ubuze ngobumnene ukuba bangathanda ikhefu. Ungathetha into efana nale: "Ubonakala ukhathazekile okwangoku, uyafuna ukuthatha i-teddy bear yakho kwaye uphumle kwindawo yakho ekhethekileyo ude uzive wonwabile?"
Inkqubo nganye yexesha labazali nabantwana
Ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zomntwana wakho zokuqwalaselwa kunye nokunxibelelana kuya kunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo phakathi kwabantakwenu kwaye ubavumele ukuba baphathe ngcono uxinzelelo noxinzelelo. Ingqwalaselo abayifunayo kuwe ngoku ibandakanya ukuhoya ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nokuqwalaselwa ngokweemvakalelo.
Ukuba unomntwana ofuna ukhathalelo oluninzi, yenza iibhloko zexesha kubantwana abadala xa umntwana ephumle. Ukuba abantwana bakho badala, cwangcisa iibhloko zexesha kunye nomntwana omnye xa abanye abantwana bethatha inxaxheba kwizinto abazithandayo. Umntwana omnye ubukele umboniso ngelixa udlala umdlalo nomnye. Yiba nomntwana atye izimuncumuncu ngelixa efundela enye incwadi. Kulungile ukuba nichitha nje imizuzu embalwa kunye okoko umntwana ngamnye enexesha lokuba yedwa nabazali bakhe.