Ukuba ukhulelwe kwaye sele unomntwana, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba uya kufunda izifundo zobomi ngokuba ngumzalwana omdala. Izifundo ezifundwa ngokuba ngumzalwana omkhulu zizifundo ezifundwa kuphela ngokuphila la mava. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo kwakudala umntu onovelwano, umntu ozithembayo uyakufunda ukwabelana kuba izinto azihlali zihamba ngendlela umntu afuna ngayo okanye aceba ngayo.
Ezi zifundo zobomi ngokungathandabuzekiyo ziya kumenza abe ngumntu ongcono kwaye uya kuba nakho ukubona ukuba unyana wakho wamazibulo uya kuguquka njani ngendlela ebalaseleyo ngombulelo ngokwabelana ngamava akhe nomntakwabo omncinci okanye abantakwabo abancinci ukuba unokuba ngaphezulu kwesinye. Emva koko Siza kuthetha ngezinye zezifundo zobomi, nangona kunjalo uluhlu lunokude lube lude.
Ityala alisayi kuba lelakhe kuphela
Unyana wakho wamazibulo usenokuba wohlwaywa kaninzi ngenxa ye-antics, kodwa xa unabantakwenu abancinci, iqela losapho liyonyuka kwaye njengoko impumelelo ibhiyozelwa, ityala linokwabelwana ngalo. Uya kufunda ukuhlala inyathelo elinye ngaphambi kokuba izinto zingahambi kakuhle kwaye, Uyakwazi ukufundisa umntakwenu omncinci ukuba akuxelele ukuba yintoni elungileyo kwaye yintoni engekho kakhulu ukuze uphephe isohlwayo sobabini.
Uya kufunda ukubandakanya
Uya kufunda ukufaka umntakwabo omncinci kwimidlalo yabo nangona bebadala nje. Nokuba akanazakhono okanye izakhono ezifanayo nezakhe, uya kuyazi ukuba usapho liqela kwaye uya kumbandakanya kwimisebenzi yakhe ukonwabela ixesha phakathi kwabantakwabo. Ubhuti wakhe Iya kuba ngumhlobo wabo kwaye baya kuyonwabela imidlalo kunye namaxesha okuxakaniseka okukhulu.
Abazalwana baya kuba besondelene rhoqo, xa kufuneka njalo naxa kungenjalo. Kungenxa yoko le nto eya kufunda ukumbandakanya kunxibelelwano nabanye. Uya kufunda izakhono ezintsha ngokwenza oku kwaye uya kuba nakho ukwenza abahlobo abangakumbi.
Nika ingcebiso kwaye ube nefuthe
Ubhuti omdala unefuthe elikhulu kumninawa omncinci. Oku kuyinyani ngokupheleleyo. Abantakwenu abancinci bayakucela abantakwabo abadala kunabo bonke iingcebiso kuwo nawuphi na umcimbi, yiyo loo nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukusebenza phakathi kwabazalwana unxibelelwano oluhle.
Uya kufunda ukumamela abanye, ukuthetha ngokulandelelana, kwaye wonwabele obu buzalwana. Nasebusuku bayakwazi ukuthetha ngaphambi kokuba balale. Uya kufunda ukunika ingcebiso kumninawa wakho ngokucinga ngento elungileyo kuye. Uvelwano ngokungathandabuzekiyo luya kuba luncedo olukhulu kunxibelelwano lwabantakwenu.
Uya kuba nakho ukuzibeka endaweni yomnye
Abazalwa njengamazibulo baya kuba nakho ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zabanye, ngakumbi abantakwabo abancinci. Baza kuqala ukuqonda ezabo iimvakalelo ukuze baqonde ezabanye ngokunjalo. Xa umzalwana ekhathazekile, uza kufunda ukumthuthuzela aze azi ukuba kutheni evakalelwa ngaloo ndlela. Nokuba, Ngobukrelekrele obufanelekileyo beemvakalelo, unokunceda umntwana ukuba afumane isisombululo esifanelekileyo sokungahambi kakuhle kwakhe.
Zinyamekele ngakumbi
Njengokuba abantwana bekhula, baya kunceda kwimisebenzi yasekhaya kwaye kuya kufuneka bafunde ukuzikhathalela. Unokufuna ukufundisa umntwana wakho omdala ukuba apheke ukuze akuncede ngeentsuku ezixakekileyo. Abantakwenu abadala bayimizekelo emayilandelwe ngabo bancinci, ke ukuba ubhuti omkhulu uyapheka, uyacoca kwaye wenza umsebenzi wasekhaya, umninawa omncinci naye.
Kodwa ukongeza ekwenzeni umzalwana omncinci ukuba enze eminye imisebenzi ekhaya xa sele emdala ngokwaneleyo, kukwabangela ukuba umzalwana omdala akwazi ukuzikhathalela. Uya kufunda ukwenza izinto kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, ukuziva wanelisekile ngokwenza umsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle ekhaya.
Uyakoyisa ukukhathazeka
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ufunde ukunyamezela unxunguphalo, kuba oku kuya kuthetha ukuwela kufundo olungenakuzinceda. Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukoyisa ukukhathazeka ukuze bafumane isisombululo esifanelekileyo kwizinto ezibenza bazive bengalunganga.
Unyana wakho wamazibulo kusenokwenzeka ukuba wayekhathazekile amaxesha amaninzi, ngakumbi xa wayenyanzelwa ukuba enze izinto nomntakwabo omncinci xa engenamandla okwenza into, njengokudlala umdlalo webhodi okanye ukwenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla. Kodwa ngale mizuzu, unyana wakho wamazibulo unokufunda ukulawula ukukhathazeka, ukuba nolindelo lokwenyani malunga nemeko kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, ukuthathela ingqalelo iimvakalelo zabo. Uya kufunda ukuba ukukhathazeka akusosigxina kwaye ukuphazamiseka okuninzi akulunganga.
Uya kufunda ukuthetha-thethana
Uya kufunda ukubonisana ngcono kunaye nawuphi na umsebenzi. Uyakwazi ukuba ungazithetha njani izinto hayi ukuze ufumane indlela yakho, kodwa ukuba nelizwi lakho kunye nokuvota kuthathelwe ingqalelo. Uya kunceda ukucacisa izinto kumntakwabo omncinci ukuze kamva azicacise kanjalo. Zininzi iindlela zokuthetha nabantu kwaye iziphumo ziya kuxhomekeka kwindlela othetha ngayo nabo.
Iimpazamo zakho ziya kuba ngootitshala bakho abakhulu
Iimpazamo zezona titshala zibalaseleyo zabantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Ukungachani ayisiyonto imbi, kwaye nokuba kuncinci, ukuba uyazi indlela yokusombulula iimpazamo ngokuchanekileyo. Ngamnye unobuntu bakhe kwaye uya kufunda ukuba udinga indawo yakhe yokufunda nokukhula kwaye kuya kwenzeka okufanayo kumzalwana.
Uya kuba nakho ukumamela, ucebise, Kodwa uya kufunda ngokwenene kumava akho, kwimpumelelo yakho, kodwa nakukusilela kwakho. Oku kuhlala kubandakanya ukuthatha inyathelo ukubuyela umva uye phambili kabini okanye ukumane ukhubeka kwaye uwa emva koko ufunde ukuphakama, uthule ibhulukhwe yakho, kwaye uqhubeke nokuhamba.
Ukuba nomntakwenu yeyona nto intle ebomini babantwana bakho. Baya kuba ngamaqabane obomi, baya kuba nobunzima obungenakutshatyalaliswa kwaye akukho mntu unokufumana phakathi kwabo. Xa abazalwana ababini bethandana kwaye behloniphana, baya kufunda lukhulu omnye komnye, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke, bayakufunda ukuqonda ukuba usapho liqela elimanyeneyo.