Sonke sinabafundisi-ntsapho ebomini bethu abaza kusinceda ukuba sibe ngabantu abangcono kwaye basifundise izinto ezinkulu. Kodwa inyani kukuba abafundisi-ntsapho ababalaseleyo ngabo basezintsatsheni, ootata noomama nkqu noomakhulu nootatomkhulu nabanye oomalume noomakazi. Abantu abasondeleyo kubantwana baya kuba ngootitshala ebominiBaya kuba ngabo bafundisa indlela yokujongana nobomi nakoyena mncinci wendlu.
Kodwa asingobantwana kuphela abafundayo. Ekhaya Ootitshala abakhulu banokuba ngabantwana kwaye abazali bafunda izinto ezinkulu kubo yonke imihla. Amaxesha amaninzi okukhona sikholelwa ukuba siyazi, ubomi buza kwaye busikhumbuza ukuba asisokuze siyeke ukufunda kwaye izifundo zobomi ziya kuhlala zikhona, kwaye xa singoomama nootata iyakuba zizifundo zokubeleka ezisikhumbuza, ukuba yonke imihla yinto entsha yokufunda.
Kodwa kumama sinezifundo kunye nezifundo ezintle ukuba bonke oomama emhlabeni mabaqwalasele kubo ukuze bonwabe ngakumbi ebomini kwaye baqonde izinto ezininzi ezinokuthi zingabonakali namhlanje.
Ukuzalwa kwabantwana bethu ngumzuzu omangalisayo
Ukubeleka ngumzuzu wangasese kunye nolona lusondeleyo phakathi kukamama nomntwana. Ngumzuzu wobomi ongenakuphinda uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde ulwele ngalo mzuzu ngumzuzu ebomini obungenakuphinda uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde nabo unqabile kubo umzuzwana ebomini ongenakuphinda uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde undiya ulis, lixesha elithile ebomini elingenakuphinda liphinde liphinde liphinde liphinde liphindwe Kwaye kufuneka ufunde ukuyonwabela ukuze wenze iinkumbulo ezintle. Ukuba ukuhanjiswa akwanele okanye ukuba kwenziwe ngendlela engeyiyo (okanye ukuba kuvakala kungalunganga) kunokukhokelela kwiimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo ekunzima kakhulu ukuzithwala. Ngale ndlela, kufuneka uqaphele ukuzalwa ofuna ukuba nakho, ukuba ufuna ukukwenza njani kwaye zeziphi izinto ofuna ukuba zenzeke nokuba zeziphi. Cinga ukuba ukuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle, iqela lezonyango liya kwazi ukuba lenzeni maxa onke ukuze likwazi ukusombulula iingxaki kwaye wena nomntwana wakho nikhuselekile.
Ufunda intsingiselo yothando lokwenene
Phambi kokuba ngumama, usenokucinga amaxesha amaninzi malunga nentsingiselo yothando kunye nendlela owakhe waphila ngayo kakhulu, ngesiqhelo xa uthandana. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uziva ubathanda abazali bakho, umakhulu notatomkhulu okanye abantakwenu kodwa awukhe ume ucinga ukuba luhlobo luni lothando olo, uyazi nje ukuba lusapho lwakho kwaye uyabathanda. Kodwa Xa uba ngumama, konke oku kuyatshintsha okanye kuya kuqala ukuba nentsingiselo entsha kuwe.
Nje ukuba ube ngumama, xa uyazi ukuba yintoni ukubamba umntwana wakho ezandleni zakho, uyaqonda yintoni uthando lokwenene kuba uthando phakathi kukamama nomntwana luthando olunyulu nolunyanisekileyo olukhoyo ebusweni bomhlaba. Iya kuba xa uluqonda uthando olwalubonwa ngutatomkhulu nomakhulu wakho kubazali bakho, uthando oluvalelwa ngabazali bakho kuwe nakwabantakwenu (ukuba unabo) kwaye kuya kuba njalo, xa uziva kwaye uyazi ukuba intsingiselo Ilizwi ngenene.ukuthanda.
Ukubeka imida kunye nemithetho ekhaya kuyimfuneko
Kuba abantwana bayazalwa kwaye bapase unyaka wokuqala wobomi, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba abazali baqale ukubeka imithetho kunye nemida ekhaya ... oku kuyimfuneko. Kuyimfuneko ukuba abantwana bafunde ukuba kufuneka bahloniphe uthotho lwemithetho kunye nemida ukuze bakwazi ukuhlala ekhaya, bakhuselwe kwaye bakwazi bazi okulindeleke kubo ngawo onke amaxesha. Imilinganiselo engaguquguqukiyo kunye nemida iyimfuneko kwimfundo yabo bonke abantwana kwikhaya ngalinye emhlabeni, okanye ngaba abantu abayifuni imilinganiselo ukuze bakwazi ukuhlala eluntwini?
Oomama nabo bafuna ukuphumla
Isifundo sokuba ngumama ekumele ukuba bonke oomama basifunde kukuba nathi, sifuna ikhefu kumaxesha ngamaxesha. Sizama ukugubungela yonke into ekhaya, emsebenzini naselusapho kodwa asingabo oomatshini, asinakho ukuphatha yonke into ukuba khange siphumle njengoko kufanelekile.
Kuyinyani ukuba bonke oomama sinomnye "amandla omama" Kuyasinceda ukuba sikwazi ukumelana nobusuku obude bokungalali xa abantwana begula kwaye ngengomso kufuneka siye emsebenzini. Kodwa ukuba asiphumli emva koko… ngekhe siphinde sikwazi ukubakhathalela abantwana bethu kwakhona. Bafanelwe kokona kulungileyo kuthi kwaye yiyo loo nto kufanelekile ukuba nathi siphumle.
Kwangokunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba sifunde ukufumana amaxesha okuphumla emini, nokuba kukwibhafu eshushu yodwa, ngohlobo lokuhamba okanye phambi kwekofu nabahlobo ... Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe ukwenze yonke imihla, kodwa Kuya kufuneka ubeke phambili ikhefu okanye ezimbini phakathi evekini. Ufanelwe lixesha lakho ke shiya utata nomntwana kunye nabantwana okanye umntu ogcina umntwana, okanye umntu omthembileyo ... nokuba ziiyure ezimbalwa.
Ukuba ngumama akuthethi iinkqubo ezingqongqo
Kuyinyani ukuba iindlela zemihla ngemihla ziyafuneka kuzo zonke izindlu ezinabantwana ukuze zisebenze kakuhle. Abantwana baziva bekhuselekile xa imikhwa isekwe kakuhle ekhaya, kodwa ezi zinto zikhona oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka babe njalo yonke imihla yonyaka. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kubumama kukwakho ubhetyebhetye obuthile bemihla ngemihla ukuze ukwazi ukujongana neengxaki. Umzekelo, ukuba utya isidlo sangokuhlwa nge-20.30: XNUMX pm ekhaya yonke imihla kodwa ngolunye usuku sele kuhlwile, ayisosizathu sokuba nomsindo okanye ingxoxo ... wenza iindlela okanye ushiye ezinye ukuya kuyo yonke into.
Into ebalulekileyo malunga neziqhelo kukufumana ibhalansi kunye nokhuseleko ngaphakathi kwekhaya. Abantwana kufuneka bayazi into mabayenze ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye yonke into kufuneka ibe nombutho olungileyo, kodwa kunjalo ... ikwaqwalasele ubhetyebhetye xa kufuneka.
Ukuba ngumama yinkqubo yokufunda engaguquguqukiyo kwaye kungenxa yokuba besithi "abantwana abaze nemiyalelo yemiyalelo", kodwa into efundwa ngoomama kukuba sinethuku, lokuba ukuba siyabamamela kwaye siyithathele ingqalelo. .. emva koko yonke into iya kuba lula kakhulu!