Inkcubeko yethu yasentshona ikuthanda kakhulu ukubhiyozela imihla yokuzalwa yabantwana ukusukela oko besiza ehlabathini. Ukubhiyozela ubomi kuhlala kuthetha uvuyo, ukuhlangana kwakhona kunye nobudlelwane beminqweno emihle ukuze loo nkwenkwe okanye intombazana ikhule ijikelezwe luthando kunye nempilo enhle.
Namhlanje, kunanini na ngaphambili, kukho ishishini elijikeleze imibhiyozo yokuzalwa kwaye abazali akufuneki babhenele kubugcisa ukuze banakekele umbutho kunye nokuhombisa iqela liphela. Phakathi kwezicelo kunye neevenkile sinemibono kunye neemveliso esinazo. Ngoko ke, ukuba usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana wakho lusondele, sikushiya ezinye Iingcamango zokuhombisa itafile yomhla wokuzalwa womntwana wakho.
Indlela yokuhlobisa itafile yokuzalwa komntwana wam?
Xa unyana okanye intombi yethu sele ineminyaka ethile kwaye inomdla othile, kunokuba lula ngathi ukuhlobisa yonke into, itafile kunye nepati yonke. Ngaba uyayithanda iMarvel, uyayithanda iDisney, ngaba ungumntu othanda i-anime? Emva koko umntu ukhangela izinto kunye nemihombiso kwaye yiyo. Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa eselusana? Kwaye ukuba akajiki nto kwaye akukho nto ingaphantsi konyaka?
Mhlawumbi ezinye iibhaluni kunye nomqondiso wokuxhoma zizisombululo ezilungileyo, kodwa ke ukugxininiswa kwethu kugxininise kwitafile yokuzalwa, apho siza kuthatha phantse zonke iifoto ezibalulekileyo zesiganeko. Ngaphakathi kwakhe siya kuzifumana sicula ingoma ethi "Happy Birthday", sicima amakhandlela, sisika ikeyiki kwaye sifota nezinye izalamane. Ngoko, ewe, itafile ayinakushiywa ngaphandle kokuhlobisa. Nazi ezinye imibono indlela yokuhombisa itafile yokuzalwa.
Akukhathaliseki ukuba ngalo mhla wokuqala wokuzalwa ucwangcisa itheko elikhulu okanye umbhiyozo osondele ngakumbi, phakathi kosapho kunye nabahlobo, kukho iindlela ezithandekayo zokuhombisa itafile yosuku lokuzalwa.
Usuku lokuzalwa olonwabisayo akufuneki luhambisane ne-hype, ungayigcina yonke ilula, inemibala kwaye imnandi ngaxeshanye. Umntwana akayi kuthabatha imihlobiso emikhulu (iibhaluni kuyo yonke indawo, iimpawu eziqaqambileyo), ngoko sinokulinganisela imihlobiso.
- Imibala yokuqala: obomvu, omthubi kunye nobhlowu yimibala ephambili. Unokuzisebenzisa kwimihlobiso yokuzalwa kwaye iya kuba yindlela elula nethe ngqo yokukhanyisa indlu kunye netafile ngokukodwa. Ilaphu letafile leplastiki elilahliweyo liyinto elungileyo, kumbala wokuqala oneebhaluni zeminye imibala ephambili ebotshelelwe emilenzeni okanye ezitulweni. Ungasebenzisa iphepha lale mibala elibhalwe igama lomntwana, unobumba omnye kwiphepha ngalinye, umzekelo ngokuxhoma phezu komnyango okanye etafileni ngokwayo. Kwaye unokudibanisa konke oku ngeeglasi, iipleyiti kunye ne-napkins.
- Imibala yexesha lonyaka: Olunye uhlobo olulula kakhulu lomhlobiso womhla wokuzalwa kukugqoka indlu kunye netafile ngemibala yexesha, uhlala uqwalasela ixesha lonyaka apho ukuzalwa kwenzeka khona. Uyakwazi ukuhombisa igumbi okanye itafile ngemibala ephambili: ebomvu, etyheli okanye e-orenji ukuba kusekwindla, imibala ye-neon engaphezulu ukuba kusentwasahlobo nasehlotyeni, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ukuba kusebusika.
- Izilwanyana: Amadada ahlala emnandi kwaye unokuyihombisa itafile yomhla wokuzalwa womntwana wakho ngamadada: ilaphu letafile elimthubi, iipleyiti, i-napkins kunye neeglasi ezithengwa kwi-intanethi, oonodoli abenza ingxolo. Kwaye ukuba unemali encinci ungathenga amadada erabha amaninzi kwaye uwafake kumhombiso. Kwaye banokuba sisikhumbuzo sondwendwe. Unokwenza okufanayo ngeedinosaurs.
- Iibhaluni: iibhaluni ziklasiki zamkelekile kakhulu. Itshiphu kwaye imnandi. Ukuba awunazo izilwanyana zasekhaya ke zingcono kakhulu. Unokwenza i-arch ukuba ijinga phezu kwetafile, unokuyihombisa itafile yonke ngeebhaluni okanye wenze ichibi elincinci elizele iibhaluni apho umntwana wakho okanye abanye abantwana banokudlala okwethutyana. Iibhaluni ezivela kuyo yonke indawo!
- imihombiso eyenziwe ngezandla: Besitshilo kwasekuqaleni ukuba namhlanje yonke into iyafumaneka kwi-intanethi nasezivenkileni, kodwa singakwazi nokwenza imihombiso ngokwethu okanye neendwendwe. Ukuba kukho abantwana abaninzi, ngamanye amaxesha abahlobo bethu banabantwana kwaye kukho abantwana kuyo yonke indawo, sinokubeka iphepha elingenanto kunye nokuphawula, iipensile kunye neekhrayoni ukuze bonwabe. Phakathi kwezi zihombiso ezenziwe ngesandla unokongeza izixhobo zomculo: i-maracas, imigqomo ...
- Beka i- ilaphu letafile eluhlaza Ukulinganisa ingca, iikomityi ezilahlwayo ziya kusasazwa ziluhlaza kuyo, apho iintyatyambo ezinemibala ziya kuncanyathiselwa (ezinye iikomityi sele zinoyilo oluprintiweyo) I napkins kufuneka ibe yimibala enemibala kwaye iintyatyambo ezinemibala zinokongezwa kwiipleyiti.
- Ngaphezulu kwe ilaphu elityheli, beka iipleyiti ezimhlophe kunye neglasi eneenkwenkwezi kunye neenkumba zaselwandle, ungashiya umgca oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kwitheyibhile, apho unokufaka khona imizobo yeenqanawa kunye neenqanawa, ngokulinganisa unxweme. Ngesi sizathu, iiglasi zinokuhambisa imicu emile kwesambrela.
- Ngaphezulu kwe ilaphu letafile elimhlophe, zoba iimbovane, amabhabhathane okanye ezinye izinambuzane ezihlekisayo kwaye ucacise indlela abayenzileyo ukuya apho ngomgca omachaphaza amnyama. Lo msebenzi unokwenziwa kuphela emacaleni okanye kwitheyibhile yonke. Ukuba ukhetha iimbovane, iiglasi zihle kakhulu zibomvu ngamachaphaza amnyama amnyama (okanye amabala amnyama amnyama).
Ngokuqinisekileyo, le mihlobiso yetafile kufuneka ihambelane nelo gumbi ngokubanzi, ngaphandle koko liya kuba libi kakhulu, lingadityaniswanga kakuhle. Ngenxa yesi sizathu kucetyiswa khetha isihloko esithile kwaye ukusuka apho wenze umboniso wezimvo.
Okokugqibela, ukuba awunguye utitshala wesikolo sabantwana abancinane, ungakhathazeki, ungagcina iskimu sombala weklasi, blue okanye pink, okanye ukhethe umnyama kwaye wongeze eminye imibala, sebenzisa iibhaluni ezinkulu kuphela kwaye ukuba zidada ngcono, ukuba unako yezilwanyana nazo zongeza kwaye ukuba sele zinento ethandwayo (incwadi, into yokudlala, i-motifs yendawo efana neenkwenkwezi kunye neeplanethi), unokuhlala udibanisa kwi-hombiso ukuze yiva itafile yomhla wokuzalwa iyindawo engeyiyo yasemzini kodwa ikufutshane.
Kwaye kungekhona kumntwana, kodwa kwiindwendwe, sinako ukurekhoda unyaka wethu wokuqala njengabazali. Njani? Kwikona sinokuxhoma okanye ukuncamathisela ezinye iifoto zolo hambo lufutshane kodwa oluqatha oluziinyanga zokuqala zomntu: ukuzalwa, iikilos zabo zokuqala, indlela abathatha ngayo ibele okanye ibhotile, ifoto ethile belele, enye ikhala... olu hlobo lwezinto.