Umama ngumama kwaye wahlukile kwaye akanakuphindwa. Umama usinika uthando olungenamiqathango ukusukela oko singena emhlabeni kwaye oko akuhlawulwa ngemali. Kodwa ukongeza ekunikezeleni ngothando olungenamiqathango, uya kusifundisa izifundo ezininzi ebomini bethu, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, baya kusinceda sizenze njengabantu abalungeleleneyo.
Umama okhathalela abantwana bakhe kwaye obakhathaleleyo intlalo-ntle yabo, uya kuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bakhe banempilo entle emzimbeni, kodwa banempilo entle yeemvakalelo kwaye bayakwazi ukuzimela ngokwabo eluntwini kuba kuye kwafuneka ndiphile. Oomama abalumkileyo nabamangalisayo banokukunika izifundo ezithile, nezifundo oza kuthi ngokungazenzisiyo uzise kubantwana bakho. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi eminye imizekelo? Ungalahli iinkcukacha ...
Izinto zokufunda kumama wakho
Ungayiphatha njani inenekazi
Andithethi kumkhathalela okanye ukumkhusela… Umfazi uyayazi indlela yokuzikhusela. Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba afunde ukumvulela, uyazi indlela yokwenza yedwa. Sithetha ukukuphatha ngesidima nentlonipho. Ukusuka koontanga ukuya koontanga. Ukusuka kuwe ukuya kuwe. Umfazi ungumntu nje ngendoda kwaye indoda ibuthathaka nje ngomfazi. Kulula oko. Oomama bafundisa ukuba 'ukunyanga inenekazi' kumalunga nokugcina ubudlelwane obuthe tyaba. Kananjalo, sikhumbula ukuba ngaphandle kwabafazi ehlabathini, ngekhe kubekho bomi bomntu. Zombini izini zibalasele kwaye ziyimfuneko kwiintlobo zethu ... kwaye ngenxa yeso sizathu, kufuneka ziphathwe ngokulinganayo, ngaphandle kokwahlulahlula.
Ixabiso lomonde
Ukuba ujonga emva ebuntwaneni bakho uyakuqonda ukuba umama wakho wayenomonde omkhulu kuyo yonke into awayezenzela yona kunye nawe, bantwana bakhe. Tantrums, uvukelo, iimpikiswano, ukufuna ukumakisha isazisi esingakhange senziwe ... Oomama baphefumle kakhulu kwaye ngokunzulu kakhulu kubo bonke ubunyama. Kodwa umama ufundisa umonde kuba umonde yeyona nto iphambili ebantwini. Uqaphele ukuba umonde wakhe, ukongeza ekubeni sisilumko, wakubonisa ukuba ukukhawuleza okanye ukuba nomsindo akunakulunga kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu (hayi eyakho impilo).
Amaxabiso
Umntu ongumama ngabantu abanobubele abakhokela abantwana babo kubo bonke ubomi, kodwa, oomama bangumzekelo kunye nemodeli yokufunda amaxabiso abalulekileyo ebomini. Njengokuba abantu bekhula, oomama bafundisa yonke into ngobuhlobo, iinkolelo, uluntu ... Abantwana bayazi ukuba ezi zinto zixabisa ntoni na ngoomama abayithethayo okanye abayenzayo yonke imihla. Kamva, ebudaleni, abantu bakhetha ezona bacinga ukuba zezona zilungileyo, nangona uninzi lwamaxabiso luhlala luhleli kubuntu babo.
Unganikezeli
Ukuzimisela kuyafuneka kulo naliphi na icandelo lobomi. Lo mama uyayazi. Uyazi ukuba kufuneka ulwe ukufezekisa iinjongo, ukuze usapho lusebenze kwaye lukhulise abantwana, kubalulekile ukuba oomama bazimisele kwaye bangaze banikezele. Kwaye yile nto baya kuyithumela kubantwana babo yonke imihla. Oomama kuye kwafuneka bancame izinto ezininzi kodwa kuye kwafuneka bazame ukuzimisela. Umama wakho ngulo uza kukuxelela: Ewe ungayenza, kuya kufuneka uyenze ngokwenene!
Ubuhle bokwenene
Ubuhle bokwenyani abukho ngaphandle kwabantu. Njengokuba umabonwakude kunye ne-Intanethi zizama ukwenza ukuba ukholelwe ukuba ngaphandle yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu ebantwini, umama wakho ukhona ukukubonisa ukuba ayinyani. Umntu ojonga kuphela ngaphandle uya kugqiba ekubeni ngumntu ongonwabanga ngonaphakade.
Makeup ayenzi ukuba umfazi abe mhle kwaye izihlunu ayizizo zonke izinto ezisendodeni. Ubuhle obubaluleke kakhulu kwaye obunokukwenza wonwabe bubuhle bangaphakathi.
Yibalikroti
Ukuba nesibindi kuyafundwa kwaye akukho lula ukuba kuko. Ukuze ube nesibindi kufuneka uqonde ixabiso lobomi, uqonde ukuba kuphela sinamandla okukhetha ukutshintsha izinto. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, nokuba uyafuna, awungekhe ngenxa yokuba izinto eziguquguqukayo zangaphandle, ukwamkela oku kukwangomeleleyo. Uloyiko luqhelekile ebantwini kwaye ukoyika ayingobugwala, kufuneka uyazi indlela yokwenza ... Nangona uloyiko luzama ukusikhubaza
umthwalo
Oomama banamhlanje bayakwazi ukuthwala umthwalo wekhaya emagxeni abo kwaye bawudibanise nomsebenzi, umsebenzi, ixesha labo kunye nokukhathalela nokukhulisa abantwana. Ukongeza kuyo yonke le nto, umama ufundisa noxanduva kubantwana bakhe: uyakukufundisa ukwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya, umsebenzi wasekhaya, ukugcina ixesha nokuba noxanduva lwezenzo zakho. Akukho nto!
Ukuzikhathalela
Umama wakho angathanda ukukufaka kwiqamza leglasi ukuze kungabikho nto inokuze yenzeke kuwe kwaye abengumntu oya kukugcina unaphakade. Kodwa akunakwenzeka kwaye ukongeza, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuzikhathalela kwaye uzikhathalele ukuze ukhule njengomntu obalulekileyo kuluntu lwethu.
Oomama bafundisa abantwana babo ukuhlamba, ukunxiba nokuzicoca. Kodwa akukho mntu ukuxelelayo yindlela oomama abafundisa ngayo eyona ntsingiselo yokuzikhathalela. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukhathalele impilo yomzimba kunye neemvakalelo ukuze ube sempilweni kwaye ngenxa yeso sizathu, umama uya kukuchazela ukuba kufuneka uphumle iiyure eziyimfuneko, ukuba utye kakuhle kwaye uya kukucacisa kwaye akukhokele kuwo nawuphi na umendo oko kuthetha intlalo-ntle yakho.
Ezi zezinye zeendlela zokuba wonke umama obathandayo abantwana bakhe uya kubafundisa ubomi babo bonke. Kodwa umama akafundisi nje izinto xa usemncinci, nokuba usendleleni ngexesha lokuphila kwabantu abadala, umama wakho uya kuba ecaleni kwakho ukukukhapha kuyo yonke into oyifunayo. Kuba umama ungumama ukusukela ekuzalweni kwakho kude kube ngunaphakade.