Ukuba unyana okanye intombi ukujika i-13 kufana nokuwela umyinge wobuntwana ngaphambi kokufikisa kwaye ungene ngokupheleleyo ebusheni. Uninzi lwabazali lubeka izandla zabo entloko becinga ukuba liza kuba lixesha elinzima kakhulu kwaye yonke into izakuba zizinto ezimbi. Nantsi inyani kunye nenyaniso enesiqingatha: Iya kuba lixesha elinzima kakhulu kodwa ayizukuba zizinto ezimbi zonke, kude nayo!
Kodwa enye into eqinisekileyo kukuba bonke abazali bayothuka bakufikelela kweli nqanaba kubantwana babo. Kodwa nangona kubonakala ngathi izolo xa eqala ukuthetha, yenaizinto ziqala ukuvela. Ukuba uziva uxinezelekile kuba unyana okanye intombi yakho sele ineminyaka eli-13 ubudala, ngaba uyafuna ukwazi izinto ezintle ngako konke oku?
- Uya kwazi umculo omtsha enkosi kwizinto ezithandwa ngumntwana wakho.
- Unomgxeki wefashoni ekhaya kwaye bakuxelele ezona mpahla ubukeka ungcono kuzo.
- Kwakhona unomgxeki ekhitshini oqhele ukuba nobubele kakhulu ekugxekeni kwakhe. Ukutya kwakho kuhlala kunencasa, yeyona ilungileyo kwihlabathi kwaye ngoku uqala ukuyazi.
- Unguthetha-thethwano olubi. Ubungazi ukuba ungathetha kangaka.
- Uqala ukuba nembono entsha kwihlabathi nakwilogic.
- Unempilo engcono enkosi kwinto yokuba unyana wakho akwenze ukuba uhambe ngakumbi yonke imihla. Ukukukhapha xa usiya kwimisebenzi yangaphandle, uye kuthenga, njl.
- Iya kuhlala ikhona into kwitekhnoloji onokuyifundiswa ngumntwana wakho.
- Usebenza ngokungaqhelekanga kulwimi olungathethi ntetho. Ukuba awuzange ufunde naziphi na iincwadi, ungaqala ukuqonda izinto phantse ngokufihlakeleyo: ukumbakraza iingcango, ukugcuma, ukukrala, ukuwela iingalo, njl.
- Nangona icelomngeni kuwe yonke imihla, nayo