Xa umntwana wesibini elindelwe, phantse ngokungenakuphepheka, ukukhulelwa kuthelekiswa nokwokuqala okanye ukukhuliswa okwenzeke kwiiveki zokuqala zomntwana wokuqala kunye nabo baya kuba ngabesibini. Inyani yile yokuba xa kulindeleke umntwana wesibini, izinto azizukufana nakowokuqala, kuba sele inde indlela kwaye amava angaphambili anokukunceda ufunde ukuphucula izinto.
Ngoku ukuba ulindele umntwana wakho wesibini, ngekhe wazi ukuba uthando alusahlulwa, kodwa luyanda kwaye xa unabantwana bakho phambi kwakho, uyakuyazi loo nto. Kodwa Inyani yile yokuba ukuba ngumzali akuyi kufana nomntwana wakho wesibini kuba kuya kubakho izinto eziza kutshintsha kwaye uya kwenza ngokwahlukileyo. Ukuba sele unomntwana wesibini, uya kuba sele uyiqondile into endiza kukucacisela yona ngokulandelayo, kwaye ukuba ulindile, ungaphoswa yinto eza kwenzeka.
Awuyi kukhathalela kangako malunga neempahla
Ngomntwana wakho wokuqala, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ubunengqokelela yempahla ekhabhathini yakho, yezo mpahla zintle, iilokhwe ezithandekayo, iimpahla ezifanayo, iingubo eziboshwe ngesandla… kwaye usebenzise isiqingatha sayo yonke loo nto. Ufundile ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba nezinto ezingako, kuba iintsana zikhula ngokukhawuleza. Mhlawumbi ngaphambi kokuba uhlambe iimpahla zakho ngesandla okanye ngesicoci esikhethekileyo kwiintsana emva koko uhlengahlengise iimpahla ngokwexesha nangobungakanani ... kwaye uqonde ukuba uchithe ixesha elingakanani koku.
Ngomntwana wakho wesibini, uyakufuna ukuba anxibe kakuhle kodwa kwangaxeshanye awuyi kuba nexhala loku-odola iimpahla okanye nokuba ziya kudibana. Uya kuzama ukunqanda ukuthenga iimpahla ezininzi kuba uyazi ukuba kukuchitha ixesha nemali kwaye uya kuzama ukuphinda usebenzise zonke iimpahla ezinokubakho kumntwana wakho wokuqala. Kananjalo uyakuqonda ukuba okoko usebenzisa isepha encinci, iimpahla zomntwana wakho zinokuhlanjwa kunye nentsapho yonke yokuhlamba iimpahla - ukuba nje abanangxaki zolusu.
Awoyiki kangako kwimicimbi yezempilo
Abasetyhini abaninzi, ngakumbi oomama abatsha, baba zii-hypochondriacs zizonke. Ngequbuliso bayaqonda ukuba umhlaba uzele ziintsholongwane, ulindele ukosulela usana lwabo oluxabisekileyo nolungenakuzikhusela. Mhlawumbi kunye nosana lwakho lokuqala ubilise iibhotile kunye neepacifiers mihla le, ucoca izinto zokudlala ngokusula yonke imihla, zonke iiplagi zigqunyiwe kwaye yonke into icocekile ibisoyikisa. Awuzange uvumele nabani na ukuba achukumise umntwana wakho engakhange ahlambe izandla zakhe kuqala ... Ukuba umntu uthimla okanye ukhohlela umntwana wakho, ubuze ngobubele ukuba ungaphindi uyenze kuba usana lwakho lusenokugula ngenxa yabo.
Kodwa ngomntwana wakho wesibini izinto ziqala ukuba bhetyebhetye. Ngelixa kuyinyani ukuba kufuneka ulumke ujikeleze iintsholongwane, awudingi ukuba uzikhathaze ngayo nayo. Ucoceko olufanelekileyo lubalulekile kodwa ngaphandle kokuthabatheka.
Imigangatho yakho yokucoca izakutshintsha
Awuyi kuyiqonda ekuqaleni kodwa iya kwenzeka. Imigangatho yakho yokucoca iya kutshintsha. Ngokuqinisekileyo xa wawungumama okokuqala wakwazi ukugcina indlu yakho icocekile, uququzelela yonke into ukuze yonke into ibonakale ... nangona uphele uphelile. Xa usana lwesibini luza kubakho, kungathatha iintsuku ezininzi ngaphambi kokuba ukhulule i-dishwasher okanye ulonge iimpahla. Ukucoca kuya kwenzeka ukuba ukwenze kube kanye ngeveki okanye kwiiveki ezimbini ... kwaye awuyi kuba nangqondo kangako. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhlale phantsi ukuze uphumle kwaye abantwana bakho bachithe ixesha lakho kunye nawe kunokuba uchithe ixesha elininzi uzicoca kwaye uzidinisa. Kancinci kancinci uya kuba nombutho ongaphezulu kodwa awuyi kubeka ucoceko ngaphambi kokuba uphile. Iphelile ngonaphakade.
Awuyi kumamela yonke into oyifundayo
Ngomntwana wakho wokuqala mhlawumbi ufunda kwaye ufunda ulwazi oluninzi ukuze ube nokubhalwa kakuhle ngayo yonke into. Kodwa ngomntwana wakho wesibini, usenokuba uqaphele ukuba amava ngawona anokukunceda-kunye nolwazi-ukuqonda ukukhuliswa kweentsana nabantwana ... kwaye iimvakalelo zakho zinokuthetha ngako nazo.
Awuyi kuthatha iifoto ezininzi
Ngomntwana wakho wokuqala kunokwenzeka ukuba uneefolda kunye neefolda kwikhompyuter yakho ezinemifanekiso ephantse yemihla ngemihla yayo yonke into ayenzileyo: ukutya ii-cookies, ukulala, amanyathelo okuqala okanye amazinyo akhe. Endaweni yoko, Ngomntwana wakho wesibini, uya kwazi ukuba zeziphi iifoto ofuna ukuzithatha kwaye zeziphi ezingeyomfuneko kuba zilahlekile. Mhlawumbi awunazo iifoto ezininzi kwaye ungakhathazeki ngokuba naye kumawaka emifanekiso kwifowuni yakho okanye kwiLaptop, kuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe kukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nabantwana bakho ababini.
Uyeke ukuba ngumama wehelikopta
Yaphela loo nto. Uyazi ukuba akuyomfuneko kwaye ukuba nzulu baya kuzisa iingxaki kuphuhliso lwabo. Utyekelo lokuba ngumama wehelikopta okanye ukukhusela ngokugqithisileyo luqala ukucotha. Ukuba nomntwana wakho wokuqala ukhathazekile ngayo yonke into ayenzileyo, nokuba uyatya na okanye hayi, nokuba ulele ngaphezulu okanye kancinci okanye ukuba umthungo awenzileyo ubuyinto yesiqhelo kwaye yanele ... yintoni elungileyo ukukhathazeka ixesha elide kangaka?
Xa umntwana wakho wesibini ezelwe i-propeller yehelikopta yakho iya kwaphulwa. Ngomntwana wakho wokuqala mhlawumbi ujonge ezinzulwini zobusuku ukuba ebephefumla ... nosana lwakho lwesibini akuyomfuneko, uyazi ukuba kulungile. Ngomntwana wakho wesibini, unokufumanisa ukuba uyazithemba ngakumbi kwaye uyazi nendlela yokwenza izinto ukuze zihambe kakuhle okanye kakuhle. Ngoku, izinto ezisandul 'ukuzalwa azoyikisi kuwe. Awuyi kuva uxinzelelo kwaye awuzukujonga ukuba umntwana wakho uphefumla yonke imizuzu engama-20.
Nazi izinto oza kuzenza ngokwahlukileyo ngomntwana wakho wesibini kunowokuqala. Mhlawumbi, ukuba sele unaye umntwana wakho wesibini, uqaphele ezinye izinto otshintshileyo, uza kusixelela?