Njengabanye abazali abaninzi, mhlawumbi ufuna ukukhulisa ubukrelekrele ngaphambi kwayo nayiphi na into. Ubukrelekrele kunye nobukrelekrele boMvakalelo kuhlala kufuneka buhambisane ukuze umntwana akhule ngendlela elungeleleneyo kwaye enye indlela yokufezekisa oku kukuwafunda kumabali amancinci kakhulu. Bonke abazali bafuna abantwana abaqaqambileyo, abakrelekrele kwaye yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba ukhethe isikolo esifanelekileyo kwaye ootitshala babe ngabafundisi abanobuchule ... kodwa Imfihlo yemfundo elungileyo kunye nophuhliso oluhle ngalo lonke ixesha (soloko!) iqala ekhaya.
Kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba njengomzali unawo amandla okukhulisa ulwazi lwabantwana bakho ngokwenza into elula njengokwenza iincwadi kunye nokufunda okuyeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini babo. Ndiqinisekile ukuba ezantsi kwakho uyazi ukuba ukufundela abantwana bakho yinto elungileyo kakhulu, kodwa ngaba uyazi ngenene ukuba kutheni kulungile? Ngaba uyazi ukuba zeziphi izibonelelo ezithile zomntwana omncinci okanye umntwana ofunda esikolweni wokufunda kubo yonke imihla? Namhlanje ndifuna ukuthetha nawe ngezibonelelo ezithile ezibonisa ukubaluleka kokufundela abantwana bakho yonke imihla, ngakumbi kwiminyaka emibini ukuya kwemihlanu.
Ukuphucula ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana
Ukufundela abantwana bakho yonke imihla kuya kudala ubudlelwane obunempilo nobusempilweni nabantwana bakho. Njengokuba abantwana bekhula, baya kuqala ukuhamba ngakumbi ukuze bazi imeko-bume kwaye lixesha lokuba uzokuma ecaleni kwakho ukuze ubafundele ibali elimnandi Iya kuba ngumzuzu wesisa kakhulu kuni nobabini eniya kuyonwabela kwaye niyikhumbule ngothando olukhulu. Umntwana uya kuqala ukuziva ukuba umzuzu wokufunda ngumzuzu wokuzola kunye nokuzonwabisa, okunxulumene nothando aluvayo kubazali bakhe ... ke ayisoze ibe yinto edinisayo okanye umsebenzi.
Ukuphucula izakhono zokuthetha
Ukufundela abantwana kubanceda baphucule izakhono zabo zolwimi kwaye baya kufunda isigama ngakumbi. Abantwana abakwiminyaka yasesikolweni bafunda ukubiza amagama kunye nezakhono zolwimi ezibaluleke kakhulu ekusekeni intetho. Ngokumamela amabali, abantwana baya kuba beqinisa izandi ezisisiseko ezenza ulwimi lwabo lweenkobe. Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana unokulithatha ibali kwaye ancwine kwaye ancokole, oku kubaluleke kakhulu njengomsebenzi wangaphambi kokufunda nokubhala. Ngokuthe ngcembe uya kuqala ukuthetha amagama kwaye wandise isigama kunye nokubiza amagama ngokuchanekileyo.
Ukuphucula izakhono zonxibelelwano
Ukufundela abantwana ibali yonke imihla kuya kubanceda babe nezakhono zonxibelelwano ezingcono. Xa uchitha ixesha ufundela abantwana bakho, banokubakho amathuba okuba bazivakalise kwaye banxibelelane ngokufanelekileyo nabanye ngendlela esempilweni. Ngokungqina ukuhlangana phakathi kwabalinganiswa kumabali owafundele wona, angaqala ukudala imeko esempilweni yentlalo engqondweni yakhe. Kungenxa yeso sizathu le nto kufuneka ukhethe amabali ahlengahlengiswe kubudala kunye nenqanaba lokukhula labantwana bakho.
Uphucula umyalelo wolwimi
Ukufunda ulwimi kubalulekile ukumisela unxibelelwano oluhle nabanye. Ukufunda ebantwaneni bekusoloko kunxulumene nokuqonda okungcono okusisiseko kolwimi xa befika kubudala bokuhamba isikolo apho olu lwazi lufundiswa khona. Kodwa esemncinci kubalulekile ukuqonda okuhle kunye nokuqala komyalelo wolwimi lwenkobe.
Ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono zokuqiqa
Xa ufundela abantwana bakho yonke imihla uya kuba ubanceda ukuba baphucule indlela abacinga ngayo. Baza kuba nakho ukuqala ukuqonda izinto ezingaqondakaliyo, basebenzise ingqiqo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi babo, ukuze bakwazi ukuqonda unobangela kunye nesiphumo kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, ukusebenzisa isigqibo esifanelekileyo. Njengokuba abantwana bakho abancinci beqala ukunxibelelanisa iimeko ezisencwadini kunye nezinto ezinokwenzeka kubomi bokwenyani (kwilizwe labo), baya konwaba ngakumbi ukuva kwaye babelane ngamabali amaninzi.
Ukuphucula ukugxila kunye noqeqesho
Ukugxininisa kunye nokuziphatha kuyasetyenzwa nabantwana xa kufundwa amabali kubo yonke imihla. Abantwana abancinci banokuhlala bamamele ibali, kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha baya kufunda ukuhlala ukuze baxabise imovie okanye umdlalo. Kunye nokuqonda kokufunda, kukho uqeqesho enkosi ekuphuculeni ixesha lokujonga kunye nenkumbulo, into eya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo ihambe kakuhle xa beqala ulwazi olungaphezulu kwesikolo.
Ukugqwesa kwizifundo
Esinye sezibonelelo eziphambili zokufunda kubantwana abasafundayo nakwisikolo sabasaqala isikolo kukuba banokuba nokufumana ubuchule obungcono kunye nolwazelelo lokufunda ngokubanzi. Uphononongo lubonisa ukuba abafundi abasesichengeni sokufunda ngaphambi kokuya esikolweni banamathuba okuphumelela kwezinye iinkalo zemfundo esesikweni. Kuyimfuneko ukuqonda amagama namabinzana kwaye ukwazi ukucacisa nokuthetha izinto ukuze uqonde imathematics, isayensi okanye nayiphi na enye imbono yentlalo eya kwaziswa kubo kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi.
Ukucinga ngamava amatsha
Xa umntwana efundwa amabali kwindawo emnandi, ukongeza ekuziva ngathi ngamava afanelekileyo, uya kuba nakho ukulandela umsonto webali evakalelwa kukuba uyakuqonda okwenzekayo. Yintoni egqithisile, Ukuba umntwana uphila ngamava oxinzelelo, mhlawumbi ibali elilungileyo elinento yokwenza nokwenzekileyo kuya kubanceda bafumane iindlela zokulwa. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana unovalo kuba kufuneka aqale kwisikolo esitsha, ukumfundela ibali elijongana noxinzelelo kwiimeko ezintsha kuya kuba yimpumelelo.
Kumnandi ukufunda
Ukuba konke oku kuye kwabonakala ngathi zizizathu ezimbalwa zokuba kulungile ukuba ufundele abantwana bakho yonke imihla, enye enye esele ndiyikhankanyile ngasentla kodwa ongayilibali yile: ukubaluleka kokuba ukufunda komntwana kube yinto ehlekisayo. A) Ewe, Ukwabelana ngamaxesha amnandi apho ukufunda kungoyena mntu uphambili, umntwana uya kufunda ukuziva ukuba ukufunda kuyinto elungileyo kwaye uya kuba nakho, ekuhambeni kwexesha, ukukhetha iincwadi kwimidlalo yevidiyo, umabonwakude okanye ezinye iindlela ezingalunganga zokuzonwabisa.
Ngaba sele uyayazi incwadi oza kuyifundela abantwana bakho ngokuhlwanje?
Esinjani ukuba nempumelelo isikhundla uMaría José! Ukufunda kuqinisa ubudlelwane bosapho, kuphucula ukuqonda kunye nokuthetha, kwaye kukonwabisa kakhulu. Ekhaya sifundele abantwana iminyaka emininzi, nokuba sele befunda ngokuqonda nangokutyibilika, ngamava awodwa angenakulibaleka.
Kule minyaka ibonisa, sisiphi isaziso! kodwa ndikhetha ukungabalisi ngaphezulu, kwaye ngamnye ufumanisa izibonelelo zokufunda kwiintombi / koonyana babo.
Enkosi ngokunika ezi ngcebiso koomama nootata babantwana abancinci, ndiqinisekile ukuba ziyakubanceda kakhulu.
Molo Macarena! Enkosi kakhulu ngegalelo lakho, kwaye ndicinga ukuba kulungile kakhulu ukuba ungaxeleli okuninzi ... kubalulekile ukuba abazali bayifumanise nabantwana babo! Izibonelelo zokufundela abantwana ziyamangalisa! Ukubulisa 🙂