Ukuba ungumntu othanda izilwanyana, mhlawumbi ufuna ukuba abantwana bakho bazive benalo uthando olufanayo kubo. Izilwanyana ngabahlobo abakhulu babantu nakweyiphi na iminyaka, kwaye banokuzisa amava amnandi, izifundo kunye nokufunda kuye nabani na ojikeleze bona. Ngelixa abantwana bebancinci, ukukhula ngezilwanyana kubaluleke kakhulu ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi.
Okulandelayo ndifuna ukucacisa ngokweenkcukacha ukuba kutheni ubuhlobo obunokwenziwa ngabantwana bakho kunye nezilwanyana bubaluleke kakhulu kubo bonke. Izilwanyana zingaphezulu kakhulu kwezilwanyana zasekhaya, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo zizidalwa ezisinika okuninzi kwaye uthando lwabo olungenamiqathango lunokubutshintsha ngokupheleleyo ubomi bethu. Kodwa kukuba ukongeza, Ukuze abantwana bakhule kunye nabo yindlela yokuba bakhule ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunokuba bekwenzile ngaphandle kothando olungenamiqathango ecaleni kwabo.
Izizathu zokuba abantwana bakho bakhule benezilwanyana ekhaya
Yandisa uvelwano nemfesane
Abantwana abakhula phakathi kwezilwanyana kunokwenzeka ukuba bakhulise iimpawu ezintle kuba bafunda ukukhathalela into efuna ukuhoywa kunye noxanduva lokugcina bephila kwaye bekhathalelwe. Ngapha koko, izilwanyana zinovelwano kwaye zinovelwano ngothando lwazo nenkathalo… into eziyakuzifundisa abantwana bengenako ukuthetha. Ngele ndlela, Iya kunciphisa ubundlobongela bezilwanyana obusasazeka njengesibetho kuba abazali ngokungakhathali abafundisi imbeko kwizilwanyana.
2. Ukubonelela ngamathuba okwandisa uxanduva lokuphendula
Njengokuba abantwana bekhula befuywa ekhaya, bafunda ukuba noxanduva ngakumbi kuba kufuneka bayazi indlela yokuhoya isilwanyana ukuze sisigcine sisempilweni. Abantwana banokunceda ukutshintsha inkunkuma yekati, bondle iintlanzi, bahambe nenja njengentsapho, baxukuxe inja, bondle iintaka, njl.
3. Yandisa impumelelo yokufunda
Ingabonakala ingaqhelekanga okanye into enye ayinanto yakwenza nenye, kodwa inyani kukuba inento yokwenza nayo. Izifundo zisandula ukupapashwa kwindlela abantwana abaphumelela ngayo ukufunda benemfuyo. Abantwana banokufunda malunga nezinto ezinxulumene nezilwanyana zasekhaya kwaye ke bayakhuthazeka ngokufunda kwaye, banokufunda ngokuthe ngqo kwizilwanyana zasekhaya kuba bangabantu abanomonde abaya kumamela yonke into abayithethayo ngaphandle kokubuza. Ukufundela izilwanyana kunciphisa uxinzelelo.
4. Bakwicala lakho kumaxesha anzima
Ubomi ngokubanzi akusoloko kulula. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka izinto ezimbi kwaye kukho isilwanyana sasekhaya, asinakulibala ukuba isilwanyana sethu siya kuhlala ecaleni kwethu ukusinika uthando olungenamiqathango. Ukuba umntwana wakho uhamba ngamaxesha anzima, unokuqiniseka ukuba isilwanyana siya kuba ecaleni kwakhe kwaye simncede ukuba angaziva elilolo kwanokuba azive ekhululekile emphefumlweni.
Ngamanye amaxesha oko ukwangana okungathethiyo okusuka kwisilwanyana sasekhaya kwenza abantwana bazive bonwabile kwaye uxinzelelo olukhoyo ebomini babo luziva lubuhlungu, Baza kuba nakho nokuziva ukuba bomelele kwaye bomelele ekujonganeni nawo nawuphi na umqobo.
5. Umanyano losapho luyomelela
Ukuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya, umntu okwaziyo ukuthanda lonke usapho kwaye lonke usapho luyikhathalele, luya kuzisa wonke umntu kufutshane kwinqanaba leemvakalelo. Abantwana bayayijonga indlela abaziphethe ngayo izilwanyana zabo, bazithoba njani xa befuna uthando olungenamiqathango, bayaqonda ukuba banoxanduva lwezenzo zabo kwaye nothando olumanyeneyo luya kuzalisa ubukho babo. Ukuba unesilwanyana kusapho, eso silwanyana siya kuba bubutyebi bakho ... kodwa ukuba lusapho olumanyeneyo sele kububutyebi kukodwa.
6. Unendlela yokuphila esebenzayo
Xa kukho isilwanyana ekhaya, kunokubakho indlela yokuphila esebenzayo ngakumbi ngakumbi ukuba isilwanyana siyinja. Izinja zikhuthaza usapho ukuba luphumele ngaphandle ngakumbi kwaye luchithe ixesha elininzi ngaphandle. Izinja kufuneka zikwazi ukuhamba zibaleke yonke imihla. Ukugcina umkhwa olungileyo wokuzilolonga kubaluleke kakhulu ekufundiseni abantwana, Ukongeza, ukuyenza kwinkampani yenja yindlela yokuba abantwana bazive bekhuthazekile.
Ngaphezulu kwako konke, kule mihla yanamhlanje yedijithali, uninzi lwabantwana lulele esofeni ukubukela umabonwakude okanye ukubanjiswa kwizikrini imihla ngemihla. Ukukhuthaza abantwana ukuba baphume nomoya nenja yabo kuya kubanceda bahlakulele umkhwa olungileyo wobomi.
7. Izilwanyana zasekhaya ziyabutshintsha ubomi ... zibe ngcono
Izilwanyana azihlali ixesha elide njengathi, kodwa xa zingena ebomini bethu asinakuphika ukuba iimpembelelo zazo zihlala zilungile kubo bonke abantu. La mava ayimfuneko kubantwana ukuba bakhule beziva bebuthanda ubomi kwaye behlonipha izilwanyana kwaye, kwangaxeshanye, baya kuziva benentlonipho novelwano kubantu.
Ukuba unezilwanyana ekhaya kubalulekile ukuba uqiniseke ukuba ubafundisa kakuhle abantwana bakho malunga nokuhlonipha izilwanyana. Ukuba awunazilwanyana ngenxa yokungabikho komzimba, ukungaphumeleli kwemali okanye nangasiphi na isizathu, kulungile ukuba ubonise abantwana bakho kwizilwanyana kwikhaya labahlobo kunye nosapho ukuze bafumane izibonelelo kwaye bafunde kwiimpawu Ukuba zizilwanyana kuphela ezinako ukufundisa. Ukuze intlonipho yezilwanyana ibe yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ixhaphakile eluntwini, kusezandleni zethu njengabazali ukuyenza ukuba ihlonitshwe ebantwaneni bethu ... ilizwe ngokungathandabuzekiyo liya kuba yindawo engcono yomntu wonke.
Ukuba unezilwanyana ekhaya, ungathandabuzi ukusixelela ngamava akho kunye nendlela abantwana bakho abakhula ngayo kunye nezilwanyana zasekhaya.