Abantwana banokuba nokuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesondo ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, Kodwa kuyakufuneka ukuba ngaphambi kokuba wothuke wazise malunga nokukhula kwabantwana ngokobudala babo. Ngale ndlela, unokuziqhelanisa nokuziphatha okufana nenkwenkwana eneminyaka emi-4 ubudala echukumisa ipenisi yakhe njengokuhlola okanye ukukuhlazisa ngezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezinjengonyana wakho oneminyaka eli-14 ubudala othathe isigqibo sokuhamba ze ejikeleze indlu.
Zininzi izizathu ezinokubakho zokuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesondo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana babonisa indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo kuba nje Abaqondi ukuba ayifanelekanga kwaye bafuna ukukhokelwa ngumntu omdala ukuze bazi ukuba yintoni echanekileyo nengafanelekanga. Nangona kunjalo, inokuba luphawu lwengxaki ebaluleke ngakumbi kwaye kule meko, amanyathelo afanelekileyo kufuneka athathwe ukuze umntwana abe nokulinganisela okuhle ngokweemvakalelo kwakhona.
Abantwana ababonakaliswe kwimixholo yesondo kunokwenzeka ukuba babonakalise isimilo esingafanelekanga kucingelwa ukuba kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha isimilo sokuziphatha sisibonakaliso sesilumkiso sokuba umntwana usenokuba waxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, kule meko kuye kufuneke ukuba kwenziwe uphando de ingcambu yengxaki ifumaneke emva koko, aphumeze onke amanyathelo afanelekileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, ayizizo zonke iindlela zokuziphatha ngokwesondo ezingumphumo wokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo. Abantwana abonakaliswe kumabonwakude okanye kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya engafanelekanga ukukhula banokuqala ukwenza izinto ezinjengokwabelana ngesondo. Abantwana banokuvezwa kwimifanekiso eqingqiweyo kwi-intanethi okanye ngelixa bencokola nabo.
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bavezwa yimixholo yesondo evela kwabo bafunda nabo. Abantwana abadala ebhasini okanye esikolweni banokuxela iziqhulo ezingafanelekanga okanye abantwana bangamamela oontanga babo baxoxe ngomsebenzi wobugcisa abawubonileyo.