Ewe kunjalo. Isigaba esirhubuluzayo sibalulekile. Kwenzeka malunga neenyanga ezisi-8. Kukho amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe angaze adlule kwinqanaba lokurhubuluza. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngokubaluleka kwe- ukukhasa, kwenzelwa ntoni kwaye kutheni kungafuneki sinyanzele umntwana ukuba aphakame, kodwa makazilungelelanise.
Ukuqala ukukhasa kufuna ukulungelelaniswa kweengalo nemilenze, kwaye oko kubalulekile kwingqondo yomntwana wethu omncinci, ngaphaya koko kuya kumenza alinge kwaye azifumanele umhlaba. Ke ngoko ukurhubuluza kuneemoto, ukuqonda kunye neemvakalelo.
Izinto eziluncedo zokugaqa
Vumela umntwana akhase ikhuthaza ukukhula kwemisipha, iingalo nemilenze yakho zifumana amandla ngakumbi, nto leyo eya kuba sisiseko sokuvuka kamva.
Kwakhona ikhuthaza ukulungelelaniswa phakathi kwento ebonwa liliso kunye nento eyenziwayo sisandla nonyawo. Ngamanye amagama, iyakunceda ukulungelelanisa kwakho. Nangona oku kunokubonakala kuyinto encinci ayisiyiyo. Izifundo zamva nje ziye zafumanisa ukuba inkqubo yokuhamba-hamba kamva inxulumene nokusebenza kwengqondo, into ebalulekileyo yokufunda ukufunda nokubhala. Kule nkqubo yokufunda nokubhala, isandla neliso kufuneka zilungelelaniswe kwaye oku kuphunyezwa kukukhasa.
Izibonelelo ezingakumbi: njengoko intloko nomzimba zikwiindiza ezahlukeneyo kwaye umntwana kufuneka afunde ukungahambi ecaleni okanye phambili. Ke kufuneka izinze. Ukulinganisela kwayo kubalulekile.
Ngokwasemoyeni linqanaba elibalulekileyo, kuba "woyisa kwaye ufikelela" apho acebisa khona, ubala umgama kwaye aqale ukwahluka kunina noyise. Sisenzo sakho sokuqala sokuzimela. Usana luya kuzifumanela imeko-bume yalo, uburhabaxa balo, imibala yalo, amavumba alo, unxibelelwano lwengqondo luzele ngokupheleleyo.
Abazali bangalithanda njani eli nqanaba
Xa uqala ukuqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uqala ukufuna indawo engaphezulu, Mfumanele indawo anokuhamba kuyo ngokulula. Musa ukumnyanzela ukuba aphakame, uya kuthi xa kufika ixesha lakhe kwaye azive eqinisekile.
Ndiyakuncoma vala iingcango zamagumbi, ubeke iiplagi kwiziseko, ulungelelanise iikona zefanitshala. Kwakhona cinga ngempahla oyinxibileyo emntwaneni wakho, uqala ngokukhasa kwaye kufuneka azive ekhululekile. Kungcono unganxibi zihlangu.
Ekuqaleni umntwana unokukhasa "ngokungaqhelekanga" ngomlenze omnye uphakanyisiwe kwaye omnye awenziwanga, esenza i-croquette kwaye emva koko aphakame, ayishiye yedwa, uyafunda. Ungamnceda ngokumbamba ngazo zone kwaye uxhase izandla zakhe phambili, okanye xa ekubona ukhasa. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba izihlunu zakhe ziyadinwa kwaye kufuneka zomelezwe, ke musa ukumcinezela ngepaseji yeemitha ezi-5, uya kuyigqitha, njalo njalo. Siyakuqinisekisa.
Imidlalo kunye nemisebenzi yokukhuthaza ukukhasa
Kukho ezinye Ukuzivocavoca ngaphambi kokukhasa onokukwenza nosana lwakho. Umzekelo xa umtshintsha okanye kwigumbi lokuhlambela, ungolula kwaye uguqule imilenze ngokungathi wenza ibhayisekile. Yile ndlela ifumana ngayo amandla okukhasa.
Lo mdlalo wenzelwe phuhlisa izihlunu zesisu kwaye iya kukunceda ukuba uphucule ingqalelo yakho. Beka usana lwakho ngengubo phambi kwakho uze ubeke into yokudlala etsala amehlo phambi kwakho, phambi kwakho. Ke xa enayo, ubeka ezinye ezothusayo ngokulinganayo kwaye uzibeke mgama kancinci kude nesandla sakhe, kude kufike ixesha lokuba ukungayami ngaphambili kungafiki. Unokuba unomdla wokubamba kangangokuba uphela ujonge ezantsi, okanye kuzo zone. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ilungelelaniswe ukomeleza izihlunu zayo.
Las iibhola ezinengxolo okanye iithoyi zezilinda zilungile kweli nqanaba, kuba banyanzela umntwana ukuba abaleke. Enye into ethandwa ziintsana kukuba zirhubuluza ecaleni kwazo, nawe ujikeleze indlu ngeenyawo ngokungathi yeyona nto iqhelekileyo emhlabeni.
Ndiyathemba ukuba zonke ezi ngcebiso zikuncedile, ukuba ufuna ukufunda ngakumbi malunga neendidi zokukhasa ungazenza apha.