Namhlanje sibhiyozela usuku lwehlabathi lokuncamisa. Kungenxa yoko le nto sithatha umzuzwana ukuba sichaze ukubaluleka kokwanga kwabantwana bakho. Zizimbo zomzimba ezilula ezingabizi nto kuthi kwaye zibaluleke njengokutya kwabo.
Ukwanga sisenzo sonxibelelwano esisiseko ukubonisa uthando lwethu. Xa umntwana wethu ezalwa, unezidingo zeemvakalelo ezifanayo nezomntu omkhulu. Nangona kunjalo, awukabi nakho ukulinganisa iimfuno zakho, ke kuya kufuneka uzivakalise ngenye indlela. Ukwanga nokwangana yindlela yakhe yokubonisa imfuno yakhe yothando.
Imvelaphi yokwanga
Ngokwenyani, zonke izilwanyana, ngakumbi izilwanyana ezanyisayo, zivakalisa ngokwanga kwazo. Abanye bayakhothana, abanye bayakhonkotha okanye babambe, baphuzana ngokukhethekileyo, kodwa bayamanga ekupheleni kosuku. Kungenxa yokuba zonke izilwanyana zinesidingo sokubonakalisa uthando lwethu, singabantu basekuhlaleni.
Kwimeko yezinja, ezi "ukwanga" yindlela yazo yokubonisa, kungekuphela nje uthando, kodwa nembeko. Bayakubonisa ukuba baya kukulandela naphina. Uyinkokeli yepakethi yabo kwaye bayikhombisa kakuhle.
Kumgca wokuzivelela kwee-hominids, ukwanga njengoko sisazi ukuba kunemvelaphi yesidingo sokuhlafuna ukutya kwabaselula. Oko kukuthi, xa bezalwa bengenawo amazinyo, oomama kuye kwafuneka bahlafune ukutya abakunika abantwana babo. Ukwanga kwasekuqaleni kwakusisiphumo sentswelo yomzimba njengokutya. Le kiss iye yavela ngendlela yokubonisa uthando esilwaziyo namhlanje, ngeendlela zalo ezahlukeneyo.
Ukwanga kwangoku
Namhlanje ukwanga kuye kwaba luhlobo lokubonisa, olunokubandakanya amanqaku amaninzi. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bakho bangafundi ukunika nokufumana ukwanga okuvela kuwe. Ngamanye amagama, kulula ukuba umntwana wakho afunde ukuba ngumntu onothando ukuba, ukongeza ekunikezeni okanye ekwanga, uyabona ukuba uyenza nalo lonke usapho, ngakumbi notata wakhe.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubonakalise kakhulu kwaye ugone kwaye uphuze lonke ixesha. Nangona kunjalo, Kusempilweni ukuba umntwana wakho akhulele kwimeko apho uthando lubonakaliswa khona ngokwemvelo. Kuyimpazamo ukwenza ukwanga into yokufihla, kuba inokubhidekisa kwaye uyiqonde njengento engamanyala. Kucacile ukuba ukwanga okuvela kubahlobo akufani nokwanga kubazalwana, usapho okanye abathandi. Ixesha elingaphezulu, umntwana wakho uya kufunda ekukhuleni kwakhe ukuze abahlule, ungangxami. Kodwa ezokuqala oza kudibana nazo ngoomama notata abancamisayo, ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ubeke umzekelo.
Sele sichazile ukuba ukwanga kuzelwe oomama be-hominids ukondla abantwana babo. Namhlanje, bakhonza ukondla umoya wakho. Xa usemncinci, ukwanga kukanina enxebeni kuyaphilisa. Ukumanga kumama ebunzini kunyanga nayiphi na intlungu nakweyiphi na iminyaka. Akukho nto ithuthuzelayo kwaye isinika uxolo olungaphezulu kokuncamisa kukamama.
Ukubaluleka kokumanga yonke imihla
Sele uyazi imvelaphi yokwanga kunye nokuba injani namhlanje. Ngoku uyazi ukuba kutheni kubaluleke kangaka emntwaneni wakho.
Umntwana wakho, njengoko besesitshilo, ufuna uthando lwakho kwasekuzalweni, kodwa akakwazi ukuluchaza. Usana lwakho alunakukuxelela Mama ndiyakuthanda, kodwa wolula imilebe neengalo zakhe, ebabaza "Mama." Ngalo mzuzu xa ekhala okanye ehleka, uyakudinga, ufuna ukuba umange kwakhona. Kungoko kuphela anokuqonda ukuba umhlaba wakho unje, njengokuba ungowakhe.
Kulo lonke ukukhula kwakhe, umntwana wakho uya kuhlala eneemeko ezimchaphazelayo, ezimenza buhlungu kwaye kufuneka aphile. Kulapho kuya kufuneka usebenzise elona yeza libalaseleyo emhlabeni, olo lwanga lunikwa ngumama kuphela.