Ngaba umntwana wakho uyoyika kakhulu, akemi ngxi kwaye ucinga ukuba u-hyperactive? Isenokuba okanye ingangumntwana ongazinzanga kwaphela. Sikuxelela isikhokelo phakathi kwenkwenkwe, intombazana, enamandla kunye nesinye esinengxaki, kwaye akukho lula ukuthi unyana wam akaxakekanga. Kufuneka kufunyaniswe iimeko apho inqanaba le-hyperactivity lingaphezulu kwesiqhelo
Siza kuzama ukukunceda ngokukunika uthotho lwee izimvo onokuhambisa ngazo amandla abo. Kwaye khumbula, umntwana ophilileyo uya kuba ngulowo ushukumayo, engqondweni nasemzimbeni akaphumli. Ke xa umntwana wakho engenalo uluhlu lweentsuku ezimbalwa, lixesha lokuba ukhathazeke.
Ngaba umntwana wam akaphumli okanye udlamkile?
Kubonakala ngathi kule mihla nawuphi na umntwana ongazinzanga uhlelwa ngaphakathi Ingxaki yokungahambi kakuhle (ADHD). Kodwa kunokuba ngumntwana ongenakuphumla, oshukumayo, onobundlongondlongo, ongxamisekileyo, onamandla, oko kukuthi: umntwana.
Ukuze umntwana abe namandla amaninzi kulungile, kodwa ukuba akayazi indlela yokuyihambisa, kunokuba nzima, kuye nakwintsapho yakhe. Yintoni abayifunayo iindlela zokungena, ukuqonda, iidosi eziphezulu zomonde nokwenza imida icace gca. Aba bantwana, ngokubanzi, bafuna ingqalelo enkulu kunye nenkqubo ecacileyo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ufunyaniswe enengxaki yokungasebenzi kakuhle, ingcali emnyamekelayo iya kuba ikunike uthotho lwezikhokelo kunye neengcebiso zokwenza usuku nosuku. Kuba Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ayisiyiyo inqanaba lokungakhathali, kodwa bubunzima obunokubangela, zombini kwinqanaba lokufunda, kwinqanaba loluntu nakwinqanaba lokuziphatha.
Ungamnceda njani umntwana ongonwabanga
Ukuba umntwana wakho akonwabanga kwaye awazi ukuba wenzeni, siza kukunika izimvo zokumnceda. Umntwana ongazinzanga ifuna iimpendulo ezininzi kunaleyo ingekhoyo, kufuneka wazi ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni. Ukuba wonke umntu uzuza kwesiqhelo, umntwana wakho uya kuyenza nangakumbi. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba umxelele ngemini yakhe yemihla ngemihla, ukuba ugcine uqeqesho kunye nemikhwa yakhe kwaye uphinda onke amanyathelo oza kuwalandela ngothando.
Ukuba umntwana akacacanga malunga nemida, baya kuziva belahlekile, ngaphandle kokuthintela, okuya kubangela uvalo nokungazithembi. Kufuneke u gcina imithetho eqinile kodwa ebanzi; kwaye sukuhlala uzitshintsha okanye ube madolw 'anzima ukukucela ukuba uwuthobele.
Kubantwana abangenakuzola bayathanda ukuziva beluncedoNgokuqinisekileyo usibonile esi simo sengqondo kunyana wakho. Vumela loo mandla asebenze ekuncedeni ngomsebenzi wasekhaya, kuxhomekeke kubudala babo. Ewe uyise epakini, wonwabe ngaphandle nangaphandle kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukudlala imidlalo Iya kukunceda kakhulu ekusebenziseni onke amandla akho.
Ezinye iingcebiso zokudambisa umntwana ongonwabi
Akukho mntu umazi ngcono umntwana wakho kunawe. Nika ingqalelo iiflegi zabo ezibomvu. Umzekelo, ukuba iswekile iyakhuthaza kakhulu, kuphephe ukuyinika iilekese. Okanye ukuba woyika ngento ethile, itheko lokuzalwa, amanqaku, thetha naye ngalo mbandela ngendlela elula. Oku kuyakuqinisa ukuzithemba kwabo, kweli lixa usengowona mthombo wabo wenkxaso.
Un ukuhlamba ngamanzi ashushu kunye nokuthanjiswa Ukuxolisa imimoya yabo bahlala bexatyiswa, nangaliphi na ubudala. Abantwana abangazinzanga benza kakuhle kakhulu ekwenzeni izinto ezibandakanya ingqalelo yabo kunye nokukhulisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto, ezinje ngeepuzzle, ukudlala intlama, ukupeyinta umnwe, okanye imidlalo yokwakha. Nangona ekuqaleni kubabiza kancinane, ekugqibeleni baya kuhlala bejonge,
Ekhaya unako ziqheliseni ngeendlela zokuphumla kunye. Phantse abantwana bahlala bethatha inxaxheba kubo ngolonwabo, ukuba ucacisa kakuhle ukuba imalunga nantoni. Nje ukuba baqonde indlela abavakalelwa ngayo, baya kuyenza ngokwabo.