Ngelishwa, ikhona. Baninzi abantu basetyhini abathi, kuba bekhulelwe, 'bayamenywa' ukuba bashiye okanye bangabuyeli emisebenzini yabo kuba ukuba ngumama kubonisa umngcipheko kwinkampani ... Umngcipheko ongeyonyani, kucacile ngoba umfazi ongumama uyakwazi ukuba ngumama, umfazi, umsebenzi nokuba yintoni na eyenye ebekwa phambi kwakhe. Kodwa olu luntu kubonakala ngathi alukafundi oku.
Omnye umzekelo wocalucalulo lokuba ngumfazi okhulelweyo ngulowo kaBlanca Manchón, othe ukongeza ekubeni ngumama kwimbaleki ebalaseleyo, ongakhange achaphazeleke nakancinci ngocalulo kwaye wafundisa wonke umntu isifundo. Xa wayekhulelwe, wasala engenabo abaxhasi, kodwa nangona kunjalo, wakwazi ukuphumelela ubuntshatsheli behlabathi kwiinyanga ezisixhenxe kuphela emva kokubeleka umntwana wakhe.
UBlanca kwafuneka ahlawule uhambo kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba, uqeqesho njengoko inguye yedwa owaziyo ukuba angenza njani. Kwiintsuku ezimbini ngaphambi kokuzalwa, umxhasi wakhe ophambili akazange amhlaziye kwaye iimveliso ziyeke ukumxhasa. Umzimba wakho awusafani nakuqala ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe, njengabo bonke abantu ababhinqileyo abakhulelweyo. Kunzima ukuphola, kuthatha okungenani unyaka ukufezekisa, kwaye yena, kwiinyanga ezi-7 emva kokubeleka, sele ephumelele iNdebe yeHlabathi.
Kodwa ucalucalulo kwezemidlalo aluchaphazeli kuphela abasetyhini abakhulelweyo, ikwachaphazela ngokuthe ngqo abasetyhini kuba bengabafazi. Kwaye kubonakala ngathi kuninzi ekusafuneka kusetyenzwe kolu luntu, ukuba ayiqondi ukuba abasetyhini, ngenxa yento yokuba banye, sele befanele ukunqulwa. Kuba siyakwazi ukwenza yonke into esizimisele ukuyenza, ngokufana nomntu. Ayingombuzo wokuba ungcono okanye umbi, ngumbuzo wengcinga eyoyikisayo. Singabantu kwaye umntu akanamida. Ungaphoswa yile vidiyo ilandelayo yokucalucalulwa kwabasetyhini kwezemidlalo ... Kufuneka sazi ukuba masingavumeli okuninzi ukuba kwenzeke, nokuba kwezemidlalo, okanye nakweyiphi na enye indawo.