Njengabantu abadala, kungothusa ukuba kutheni abantwana bekwazi ukubukela imovie efanayo kaninzi kwaye bahlala be spellbound ngalo lonke ixesha nangona besazi ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni. Banokubona ukuya kuthi ga kwikhulu lamaxesha ukuba bayayithanda kakhulu, ngenqanaba elifanayo lokuqwalaselwa njengexesha lokuqala ngaphandle kokuyazi ngentloko. Phantse ngaphandle kokuqhwanyaza.
Indlela abantwana abalahlwe ngayo banokuhlala phambi komdlalo bhanyabhanya ofanayo kaninzi. Bahlala behleka amahlaya afanayo kwaye bafunda imigca, kodwa ukonwaba kwabo ukumbona akupheli. Kutheni le nto abantwana bekwazi ukubukela imovie enye kwakhona?
Abantwana bafunda ngokuphindaphinda
Iingqondo zabantwana zingunobangela. Umsebenzi wayo ulungiselelwe ukufunda ngokuphindaphinda. Abantwana bafaka ulwazi olufunyenwe ngokuphindaphinda. Kungenxa yoko le nto befuna ibali elinye ngokuphindaphindiweyo, imovie efanayo, imifanekiso efanayo kunye nengoma efanayo.
Ukuphindaphinda kuphucula ukufunda nokuqonda. Yindlela yabo yokukhula nokukhula. Ibavumela ukuba bakhulise izakhono zabo zobuchopho, ezinje ngeelwimi, ukucinga ngengqiqo, kunye nokubalisa. Abantwana ababona imovie efanayo amatyeli aliqela banokufunda okungcono kunokubukela amabali amatsha.
Abayiqondi yonke into okokuqala
Kubo, kwiimuvi okanye kwikhathuni izinto ezininzi zenzeka ngaxeshanye, kwaye into enokubonakala ilula kubantu abadala kunzima ukuyilandela. Zininzi izinto ezikhuthazayo ngelixa ubamba umdla wakho, kodwa kunzima kubo ukuba bahlangane kunye: iincoko, amagama amatsha, iimvakalelo, abalinganiswa abohlukeneyo, imibala, umculo, imidaniso ... Yonke into yenzeka ngokukhawuleza kwaye abakwazi ukuzibamba okokuqala kwaye zininzi izinto abangaziqondiyo.
Ngalo lonke ixesha beyibona, bathimba ulwazi kunye neenkcukacha ezintsha ababengazifumananga ngaphambili. Ukuqwalaselwa kwabo kunye nokuqonda kuyaphucuka kwaye banokuqhubekeka nolwazi ngakumbi. Ibavumela ukuba baphucule ukucinga kwabo okunengqiqo, bafunde ubudlelwane beziphumo, indibaniselwano phakathi kwezinto, bafunde izijekulo kunye namagama, ... bonke bakwimbali efanayo yosapho.
Bayathanda ukuthatha inxaxheba
Bafunda iingxoxo, iingoma, ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni, ... ebavumela ukuba bathathe inxaxheba ngakumbi kwifilimu kwaye babenze bayithande ngakumbi. Banokunxibelelana ngokuphinda amabinzana, ngokwenza imidaniso yabo okanye ukucula iingoma zabo. Indlela yakhe yokubhiyozela impumelelo yakhe kukuyijonga ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Abantwana bayakuthanda ukuqikelela ikamva
Ukwazi okuza kwenzeka emva koko bayayithanda. Ubomi bokwenyani abunakulindelwa kwaye bunesiphithiphithi kubo ukuba "baxele kwangaphambili ikamva" kwaye bazi ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni emva koko ubanika ukhuseleko kunye nokuzithemba.
Ngemihla yabo bafumana ulwazi oluninzi abangalwaziyo, kwaye nokuba nolwazi lwento ethile kubenza bazive befanelekile, kwaye ivumela ukuba bafumane ilizwe labo kwinduduzo. Ibenza bazive ngathi banokulawula isiqwenga sehlabathi labo kwindawo eqhelekileyo. Kubanika ukwaneliseka okuninzi, bayonwabele kwaye kuyabonwabisa.
Kwenzeka ntoni xa sele sibadala?
Njengabantu abadala sikruqukile kwaye sidiniwe ukubona into enye kaninzi-ninzi, kumdlalo bhanyabhanya ngokwawo. Sifumana ulonwabo kuphela ukuba kukho into ebangela iimvakalelo emva kwayo: into esikhumbuza ngobuntwana bethu okanye inqanaba esilijonga ngcono okanye elilula kubomi bethu. Kungenxa yoko le nto izinto ezintsha zisidina ngokukhawuleza, kwaye endaweni yoko imovie okanye ingoma evela kwixesha lethu elidlulileyo ayisidinisi. Akunjalo ngenxa ye-movie ngokwayo kodwa ngenxa yento emele imvakalelo.
Ukuphumla sifuna ukubona izinto ezintsha, sive amava amatsha. Izinto ezaziwayo ziyasidina kwaye sijonga ngaphaya.
Ke ukuba umntwana wakho ukubuza kaningininzi ngemovie efanayo, uyazi ukuba kutheni. Yibeke kwaye uyonwabele, ingqondo yakho isebenza ngelixa enexesha elihle. Khumbula iingenelo ezikulethela zona.
Kutheni ukhumbula ... ubungumntwana nawe, kwaye nokuba awukhumbuli, uyenzile nawe.