Ukuba kukho uloyiko olukhulu olunabazali, iwa ukusuka ekuphakameni okukhulu. Wonke umzali uyazi ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukukhusela umntwana ekulimaleni okunxulumene nokuwa. Xa umntwana elusana, ufunda ukuhamba phambi kwayo nayiphi na into kwaye ukuthintelwa kokuwa kufuna ukujongwa rhoqo. Emva kwexesha, umntwana angawa xa ekhwela ezitulweni okanye xa esofeni ... kukho ukuwa okungaphephekiyo kodwa kukwakho neendlela zokukhuthaza ukhuseleko ngakumbi ekuweni ukusuka kwindawo ephantsi, ephakathi kunye nokuphakama okuphezulu ebantwaneni.
Ukuwa sesona sizathu siphambili sokwenzakala kunyango ezibhedlele nanini na. Ukusukela oko umntwana eqala ukuqengqeleka, oko kukuthi, nangaphambi kokuhamba xa bekwazi ukukhasa nokunyuka, kukho umngcipheko wokuba baya kuwa eziphakamileyo. Ngokwendalo abantwana banomdla wokwazi kwaye bahlala benomnqweno wokunyuka baye kubona ukuba yintoni ebangqongileyo ephezulu.
Iziliphu kunye nokuwa yinxalenye eqhelekileyo yokukhula komntwana. Umzekelo, xa umntwana efunda ukuhamba, ukukhubeka yinxalenye eqhelekileyo yenkqubo. Ukuthintela ukwenzakala, injongo kukubonelela ngendawo ekhuselekileyo apho banokuziqhelanisa nezakhono zabo ezitsha.
Ukuwa okuninzi kusenokungabi kubi kwaye kunokubangela nje ukungqubana kancinci, ezinye zinokukhokelela kukophuka, ukusika okanye ukonzakala entloko… abazali kufuneka bathathele ingqalelo amanyathelo okhuseleko ukuthintela iingxaki ezinkulu.
Izinto ezintathu ezibalulekileyo ezichaphazela ubuzaza bokuwa
- Ukuphakama apho umntwana ewela khona. Okuphantsi ukuphakama kokuwa, incinci ingozi. Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emihlanu abafanele ukufikelela kubude obungaphezulu kwe-1 yeemitha. Abantwana abadala akufuneki babe nokufikelela kubude obungaphezulu kweemitha ezimbini.
- Apho umntwana awela khona. Imigangatho eqinileyo efana nekhonkrithi, iithayile zeceramic, kunye nesanti edityanisiweyo ziyingozi kakhulu kunokuba umntwana ewela kwiindawo ezithambileyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho unegumbi lokudlala, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ube nezinto ezothusayo phantsi okanye ube nezixhobo ezenza ukuba kuthambe ukuwa.
- Apho umntwana anokubethwa ngexesha lokuwa. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba izinto okanye izinto ezinemiphetho ebukhali, ezinje ngeetafile zekofu ecaleni kwegumbi, zithintelwe ekhaya. Cwangcisa ifanitshala ukuze abantwana bangakwazi ukunyuka ngefestile kwaye babhubhe.
Iwa ukusuka kwindawo ephezulu ekhaya
Ukuwa ukusuka kubude obukhulu akusoloko kufuneka ukuba kube kusentabeni okanye ngefestile, ekhayeni kunokubakho ukuwa ukusuka kubude obukhulu obuneziphumo ezibulalayo. Ekhaya, nokuba ukuwa kwabantwana kuya kuxhomekeka ikakhulu ekubeni unayo okanye awunayo imilinganiselo yokhuseleko. Kuya kufuneka ugcine engqondweni ezinye iingcebiso ukunqanda ukuwa ukusuka kubude obukhulu ekhaya-okanye naluphi na uhlobo lokuwa-.
Qaphela iindawo eziphakamileyo
- Ungaze ushiye umntwana yedwa ebhedini okanye etafileni, okanye nakwifenitshala. Nokuba ucinga ukuba yimizuzwana nje embalwa ukufumana ilweyile elicocekileyo ... loo mzuzwana ungaphezulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba usana luziqengqe kwaye luwe.
- Xa umntwana wakho ehleli esihlalweni esiphakamileyo okanye kwisihlalo seentsana, Soloko umbopha ngeentambo.
- Ungaze uvumele umntwana wakho omncinci ukuba adlale kwizinyuko, kwiveranda okanye kwiveranda. Soloko ubeke iminatha yokhuseleko ukuthintela ukuwa okunokwenzeka.
- Gcina izinyuko zikhuselekile. Kuyimfuneko ukuba unezinyuko ezingenazithintelo kwaye zihlala zikhanyisiwe. Kwakhona, ukuba umntwana wakho mncinci, ungathandabuzi ukubeka uthango lokhuseleko phezulu nasezantsi kwizitepsi ukuthintela umntwana wakho ekuweni ekuthinteleni ukufikelela.
- Gcina iifestile zivaliwe. Umntwana unokukhwela kwifestile evulekileyo ngokulula kunokuba ucinga. Kuphephe ukugembula kufutshane neefestile kwaye unezitshixo zokhuselo Khumbula ukuba ungabinanto ecaleni kwefestile enokubangela ukuba banyuke bawe ngefestile.
- Lumkela indawo emtyibilizi okanye engalinganiyo. Sebenzisa imethi yerabha ebhafini ukunqanda ukutyibilika. Xa kukho ukuchitheka ekhitshini, zicoca ngokukhawuleza, sebenzisa ii-rug ezinganyibilikiyo, ezirhubuluzayo njl.
- Gwema ukuhamba. Umntwana omncinci osebenzisa i-walker unokukhubeka aze awe ezinyukweni ngelixa esebenzisa i-walker. Kungcono ukusebenzisa iziko lomsebenzi womntwana, ke uya kumkhuthaza. Khumbula ukuba ukuhamba akuyimfuneko ekukhuleni kweemoto zosana kwaye ukuba unazo, kuya kufuneka ujongwe ngalo lonke ixesha uzisebenzisa kwaye ungazishiyi ixesha elide. I-Walker kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo njengesixhobo somdlalo kwaye ingaze ibe sisixhobo sophuhliso lwemoto.
- Amabhanti aqinisiwe. Logama nje abantwana bebotshelelwe kwizitulo zeemoto, ii-stroller okanye izitulo kwiinqwelo zokuthenga kuya kulunga, kodwa ungaze ubashiye bodwa okanye ubavumele beme kwisitulo senqwelo.
- Vavanya iindawo ezingqongileyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho usepakini okanye ebaleni lokudlala, kuya kufuneka ujonge okusingqongileyo ukuze ubone ukuba angadlala kwindawo ekhuselekileyo. Susa bonke ubungozi obunokubakho ekuweni kwaye umenze ukuba abone ukuba zeziphi iindawo eziyingozi angafanelekanga ukufikelela kuzo.
- Lumkela izinyuko ezinyukayo. Ukuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba angawi kwizinyuko ezinyukayo ukuba uhamba ngesitulo, kungcono ugqithe ilifti kwaye ukuba uhamba, musa ukuvumela isandla sakhe nanini na.
Ukugcina umntwana wakho ekhuselekile ekuweni kungaphezulu nje kokuba nethamsanqa. Kubalulekile ukuba ulandele amanyathelo okhuseleko kwaye ungaze ulahlekelwe ngumbono womntwana wakho kuba kuthatha kuphela umzuzwana ukuba izehlo ezinesiphumo sokubulala zenzeke.