Nangona inokubonakala ngathi iyakhusela ngokugqithileyo, ukongeza kwincoko yokuthandana okunempilo nentombi yakho yeshumi elivisayo, ayikaze ibenzakalise ngokwazi iqabane lakho kwaye uthethe nalo. Ngale ndlela uya kuqinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukuba kunjani kwaye ukuze ukwazi ukubala iinjongo anazo nentombi yakho. Ukuba umntu othandana naye uyakuthanda ngenene, ngekhe abe nangxaki yokudibana nawe.
Abazali kufuneka badibane neentombi. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ihlazo kangakanani intombi yakho, kodwa kufuneka yenziwe. Ingabonakala ngathi indala, kodwa awufuni ukuba intombi yakho ekwishumi elivisayo ihlangane nomntu ongamaziyo. Maninzi kakhulu amabali ayoyikisayo phaya, ngelishwa.
Xa umhla ufika ekhaya, cima ifowuni yakho, ucime umabonwakude, kwaye unike lowo ulutsha ingqalelo emfaneleyo: xhawula isandla somyeni, zazise, mbuze ukuba uyafuna na amanzi, kwaye ngethemba lokuba uya kukunika ingqalelo Ufanele ukubuyela. Ukwafuna ukuba ayazi ukuba uyikhathalele kakhulu intombi yakho, kwaye uya kuyigcina ngelixa umbonisa ukuba unomdla ngobomi bakhe, iinjongo zakhe kunye nomdla wakhe. Kukunika kwaye uthathe.
Yiba nolindelo olucacileyo malunga nesoka
Thetha nentombi yakho ngexesha elibekelwe ukuba ubuye ngalo ekhaya, yinyanzelise ukuba ibalulekile kuwe kwaye kufuneka uyazi ukuba iza kuba phi xa kunokubakho imeko kaxakeka. Buza kwakhona ukuba uza kudibana nabani na ngaphandle komhla wakho, kwaye ubazise ukuba ukhe uzive ungonwabanga ngexesha lomhla nesoka lakho okanye nabani na ongomnye.Konke okufuneka ukwenze ngumbhalo okanye umnxeba.
Okukhona uyihlonipha imida yentombi yakho, kokukhona anokukuthemba (ngethemba) lokuthemba kwaye uzive ukhululekile ukwaba olu lwazi. (Nangona kunjalo, qiniseka ukuba uhlala unamathela kwimida yabo.) Ewe kufuneka ubuze malunga nomhla wakho okanye iqabane lakho nanini na xa ufuna.
Intombi yakho akufuneki ikuve oku njengokungenelela kubomi bayo, kodwa njengendlela yakho yokukhathazeka ngaye kwaye kwangaxeshanye kubonisa ukuzithemba kwakho.