Khawufane ucinge xa iqabane lakho liphulukana nolawulo kwaye likungxolisa. Ngoku khawufane ucinge ukuba iqabane lakho liphindwe kane kunawe kwaye ukukhala kwabo kunamandla kakhulu kunokwakho. Kwakhona cinga ukuba uxhomekeke kuye ngokupheleleyo ukuze uphile: ukutya, indawo yokuhlala, ukhuseleko nokhuseleko. Kwakhona, khawufane ucinge ukuba lo mntu ngowona mthombo uphambili wothando kunye nokuthembela kunye naye okubonelela ngalo lonke ulwazi malunga nehlabathi. Ngoku, Cinga ngeemvakalelo obusenazo kwaye uziphindaphinde ngo-1000. Le yindlela avakalelwa ngayo umntwana wakho xa umngxolisa.
Ewe, sonke siyabanomsindo abantwana bethu, ngamanye amaxesha sinokuba nomsindo. Umceli mngeni kukucela ukukhula kwethu ekulawuleni ukubonakaliswa komsindo, kwaye ke sinciphise ifuthe elibi kubantwana.
Umsindo woyikisa kakhulu ebantwaneni. Ukuthukwa okanye ukuthukwa, ukuthetha ngokungabahloniphi abantwana, kwenza abantwana bazive besoyika kwaye kushiya uphawu olubi kubuntu babo. Abantwana abahlangabezana nobundlobongela ngokwasemzimbeni, kubandakanya nokuqhwatywa ngempama, babonakalisiwe ukuba baneziphumo ezihlala ixesha elide ezingalunganga ezifikelela kwikona nganye yobomi babo abadala.
Ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci akabonakali esoyika umsindo wakho, luphawu lokuba uwubonile kakhulu umsindo wakho kwaye uzenzele izikhuselo kuwo, nakuwe. Iziphumo ezingathandekiyo ngumntwana ongazukuziphatha ekholisa wena kwaye uya kuba kufutshane nefuthe elibi kumakhwenkwe namantombazana alingana naye. Oku kuthetha ukuba kuninzi ekufuneka ukwenzile, umzekelo, yeka ukukhwaza abantwana bakho kwaye ungasebenzisi naluphi na uhlobo lobundlobongela kubo, kwakhona. Umsindo woyikisa abantwana kwaye baya kujonga iindlela zokuzikhusela ngokweemvakalelo kuwo, nokuba oko kuthetha ukurhoxa kuwe ngokweemvakalelo.