Utywala bukho kule mihla yethu. Kuthekani ukuba ibhiya yasemini, iwayini enesidlo sasemini okanye isiselo sokuphumla xa ushiya umsebenzi. Ukusetyenziswa kwayo kuqhelekile kangangokuba ukuba ukhulelwe, abafazi abaninzi bayaqhubeka nokuyisebenzisa, kuba, "kwisiselo esincinci akukho nto izakwenzeka."
Kwaye siyaqhubeka nokucinga ukuba ukusela kotywala ngamanye amaxesha akuchaphazeli ukubunjwa kosana konke konke. Akukho nto inokuthi iqhubeke nenyaniso. Ingaphezulu kokungqina ukuba utywala bunqumla umqobo kwi-placental kwaye bufikelela kwinkqubo yokujikeleza komntwana, ukuvelisa iziphumo ezibi kuphuhliso lwayo. Ngokucacileyo, ayifani nokusela utywala yonke imihla kunokuselwa kakhulu amaxesha ngamaxesha, kodwa kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba akukho mvumelwano yokuseka isixa esikhuselekileyo sotywala ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ke ngoko, xa uthandabuza, kungcono ukuyiphepha ngokupheleleyo.
Utywala buchaphazela njani umntwana wakho?
Xa usela, nosana lwakho lusela. Utywala bufikelela ngokukhawuleza kwinkqubo yakho yokujikeleza kwegazi ngokusebenzisa iplacenta kunye nentambo. Kananjalo, umzimba wakho awukwazi ukudibanisa i-ethanol, ngenxa yoko ayinakunciphisa iziphumo ezinobungozi.
Zeziphi iingxaki anokuba nazo umntwana wam xa ndisela utywala?
- Ngexesha lokuqonda kwangaphambili kunye nekota yokuqala, umngcipheko wokuphuma kwesisu kunye nokungalunganga kuyanda.
- Ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha.
- Ukusilela kokukhula okunokufunyanwa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kuyekwe kwaphela.
- Ukuphazamiseka kuphuhliso lwenkqubo ye-nervous central enokubangela iingxaki zokuqonda ezinje nge-hyperactivity, ukungakhathaleli kunye nokuphazamiseka kokufunda.
- Ukungasebenzi kakuhle emathanjeni obuso nakwizitho zomzimba ezahlukeneyo.
- Isifo sokufa kweentsana ngesiquphe.
Kuzo zonke iingxaki ezibangelwa butywala, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu yiFus Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS). Oku kuphawuleka ngokubangela ukonakala ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni kwiintsana ezinomama abasele utywala ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Abantwana abane-APS baneentloko ezincinci kunye nengqondo, iimpawu zobuso ezingaqhelekanga, iingxaki ngokumunca nokulala, mfutshane kunesiqhelo, i-IQ ephantsi, ukungasebenzi kakuhle, kunye nobunzima bokuthathela ingqalelo. Inokudityaniswa neengxaki zentliziyo, zezintso okanye zethambo.
Njengoko ubona, eyona ilungileyo yile thintela utywala ngexesha lokuqonda kwangaphambili, ukukhulelwa kunye nokuncancisa. Awubekanga umda wokusebenzisa onokuthi uthathwe njengekhuselekileyo. Ke ngoko, xa ungathandabuzeki, ukusetyenziswa zero. Ukuba ukhulelwe kwaye uziva ungakwazi ukuyeka, cela uncedo kugqirha okanye umbelekisi wakho.