Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo besithetha nge ukukhulelwa ngokwesondo. Namhlanje sifuna ukuthetha ngento ezakwenzeka kwikota ukuya kwikota, ithathela ingqalelo ukukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo nokungaqondakaliyo.
Kwiinyanga ezili-9 zokukhulelwa, isini sethu siya kwahluka njengoko iinyanga zihamba. Ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala kufuneka uphile kweli nqanaba ngokukhululeka nokuzola, ungoyiki ukwenzakalisa umntwana. Nayiphi na imibuzo onayo, sihlala sicebisa ukuba udibane nengcali yokubelekisa.
Ngexesha lekota yokuqala yokuqala:
Utshintsho olukhulu lwehomoni luqala ukwenzeka emzimbeni womfazi. Ukudinwa kunye nobucaphucaphu, kunye nezinye iimpawu zokukhulelwa kwasekuqaleni, kunokwenzeka ukuba zehlise inqanaba lesini. Oku kuhlala kwenzeka kuninzi lwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo, nangona kukho ipesenti yabasetyhini abavakalelwa kukuba bafuna isondo ngeli nqanaba kwaye bonwabele ngakumbi ngenxa yokuziva bakhulu kwindawo yesini. Ezi zinto zomzimba zinokwenza kube lula kumfazi ukufikelela kwi-orgasm kweli nqanaba. Nangona, ngokuchaseneyo, izinto ezibonakalayo ezinxulunyaniswa neempawu zokuqala, kunye nezinye izinto ezibangela iimvakalelo, zinokwenza kube nzima okwethutyana ukuba umfazi afikelele kwi-orgasm.
Lixesha elilungileyo lokujonga iishedyuli ezingqongqo zokwenza uthando, ukhetha la maxesha omhla xa umama wexesha elizayo eziva eneempawu ezingasokolisiyo (ezinje ngesicaphucaphu, esivame ukukhawulelwa kumaxesha asemini okanye nangaphezulu) okanye ukuphumla ngakumbi.
Ukuba amabele amabhinqa anovakalelo olugqithisileyo, inkuthazo inokuhanjiswa ukuze ingabangeli zintlungu, nangona kukho abantu basetyhini abanokuthi babonelele ngakumbi ngalo. Kwakhona, ekusebenzeni nasekuvumelaneni, ibhalansi iya kufika kwisibini ngasinye.
Iimfihlo zesini sowasetyhini zinokuqala ukutshintsha (kwaye ziya kutshintsha kulo lonke ixesha lokukhulelwa) ngokuhambelana, umbala, isixa kunye nevumba. Zihlala zininzi, ke ukungena kulula, okanye banokutshintsha ivumba labo kwaye bomelele, nto leyo inokucaphukisa indoda. Kwimeko apho, ukulinda de emva kokuhlamba okanye ukusebenzisa ioyile yomzimba kunokuba yinto onokukhetha kuyo.
Ezinye iinkcukacha-manani zibonisa ukuba, ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa, malunga neepesenti ezingama-40 zabasetyhini abakhulelweyo bafumana ukwehla komnqweno wesini, iipesenti ezingama-50, ngokunjalo, phantse, abanamava obalulekileyo kwaye iipesenti ezili-10 zinokunyuka komnqweno wesini. Kodwa la manani ahlala etshintsha kwinqanaba elilandelayo lokukhulelwa.
Kwikota yesibini yesibini:
Ngala maxesha ukungonwabi okuqhelekileyo kwiinyanga zokuqala zokukhulelwa kuhlala kunyamalala, kwaye esi sibini siye saziqhelanisa nemeko yaso entsha, ke umnqweno wesini uhlala uvela kwakhona. Lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzilolonga kwemisipha yelungu lobufazi ukuphucula ithoni yemisipha yethu ngexesha lokuhanjiswa.
Ukongeza, kwisithuba esiphakathi sokukhulelwa, ukuxinana kwemithambo kwenzeka ukuba kukhokelele ekufikeni kwegazi elikhulu kwimithambo yegazi ye-pelvic, ke kukho ubuntununtunu obukhulu obuguqula ukuvusa isondo ngakumbi, ngakumbi kwabasetyhini abazele omnye okanye ngaphezulu abantwana.
Isicaphucaphu esingaphantsi, ukudinwa okuncinci, iintlungu ezincinci emabeleni ... yonke into iya kukubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo. Ngamaxesha amaninzi, umntu usuka ngaphambi kokukhulelwa "ukuzala ngesondo" ukuya kwisondo lokuzonwabisa. Kuya kufuneka sisebenzise ithuba lokuphila kakuhle ukujongana nenxalenye yokugqibela yokukhulelwa ...
Kwaye kwikota yesithathu:
Kuqhelekile ukwehla kwamaza okwabelana ngesondo ngeli xesha ukuba kubengcono kunakwikota yokuqala. Ukuphazamiseka emzimbeni kukanina, ukungonwabi kunye nokusondela komzuzu wokuhanjiswa, okunokubangela imithambo-luvo, unxunguphalo okanye uloyiko, kunokuthintela umnqweno wesini ukuba uvele, hayi ngokunyanzelwa, kodwa nangokuba buthathaka. Kubafazi kunokuba nzima ngakumbi ukufezekisa ukonwaba ngokwesondo kwezi veki zidlulileyo zokukhulelwa, nangona kukho oomama bexesha elizayo abangabinangxaki malunga noku.
Ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo kule trimester, owasetyhini unokuvelisa umthubi ophuma emabeleni ngokukhuthaza. Ayisiyonto yakuzixhalabisa ngayo, siza kube sinceda nje ukuvelisa le nto yangaphambi kobisi. Ukuba amabele awavuseleleki, isenokungaphumi, nangona kukho abantu basetyhini abanamaconsi ecolostrum ane-orgasm.
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba ngeli xesha ubunzima kunye nokwanda okukhulu kwevolumu kunokwenza ezinye iinkqubo zesondo zibe nzima, xa ukuzala kusondela, ukwenza uthando kuluncedo kakhulu ngokunjalo. Umsebenzi wokwabelana ngesondo ngoomatshini uvuselela umlomo wesibeleko, ngendlela yendalo kunye neyonwabisayo, ethanda ukwanda kwayo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kungakhokelela ekusebenziseni izihlunu zangasese, uzigcine zomelele kwaye ziguquguqukayo.
Ukongeza, incindi yobudoda inenani elithile leprostaglandin, into enokuthi ikhuthaze ukusikwa kwesibeleko. Ke ngoko, ukuba neentlobano zesini ngaphambi kokubeleka kungasinceda sithambise umlomo womlomo wesibeleko, oya kuthi wenze umsebenzi ube lula kwaye uthomalalise iintlungu.
Lixesha elilungileyo lokucinga ukuba ngoku, ngaphezulu kwabathandi, esi sibini siza kuba ngabazali, sikhangele kwaye sonwabele umlinganiso omtsha kubudlelwane, kubandakanya ukusondelelana okutsha ebhedini. Ayizukubaluleka kakhulu ubuninzi bobudlelwane njengomgangatho wezi, kunye nokunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo okuphunyezwe kunye nabo, into efumaneka kuphela emva kokuziqhelanisa, umonde, ukuqonda kunye nencoko.
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