Kuqhelekile ukuba abazali babantwana abamkelweyo babenamathandabuzo malunga nendlela yokunxibelelana nabantwana babo ukuba babamkele. Ixesha lokuthetha inyani kubantwana bakho liba ngumthombo omkhulu woloyiko kunye nexhala. Uloyiko lokwaliwa lunokuphakamisa imibuzo malunga nokuba uyayithetha okanye hayi, kwaye yeyiphi indlela ebalaseleyo yokwenza. Yiyo loo nto namhlanje sifuna ukuthetha ngesi sihloko sibalulekileyo sithetha ngaso nini kwaye njani ukuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba wamkelwe
Kuhlala kungcono ukuthetha inyani
Es isifundo esibuthathaka ukuthathwa ngokungathí sina. Abanye abazali bazama ukunqanda ukuza nomxholo ukuphepha iingxaki, kodwa oku kuya kukhokelela kwiingxaki ezininzi. Uloyiko lokuphendula komntwana, malunga nokuba ubudlelwane buya kutshintsha njani okanye ukuba buza kuchaphazela njani ukukhula kwabo kunokusikhokelela ekukholelweni ukuba kungcono singathethi nto.
Kodwa inyani kukuba izifundo zikhomba ngokuchasene. Eyona nto ilungileyo yabantwana abamkelweyo kukufumanisa kubazali babo yenyaniso. Akukho nto igwenxa ngokwamkelwa, ngaphandle kokuba kukho umngcipheko wokuba baya kufumanisa ngenye indlela kwaye ukungabathembi abantwana kubazali babo kunokudala umsantsa omkhulu phakathi kwabo. Bayakukholelwa ukuba baxokisiwe ubomi babo bonke, kwaye abantu ekufuneka bebathande kwaye babahloniphe kakhulu khange banyaniseke. Intlungu kula matyala yomelele kakhulu kunokwazi imvelaphi yayo.
Uza kumxelela nini umntwana wakho ukuba ukhulisiwe
Iingcali zicebisa mayenziwe ngokukhawuleza, ukuze umntwana adibanise ulwazi. Malunga neminyaka emi-3-5 ubudala sele beqalisile ukubuza ukuba bavela phi abantwana, kwaye singathatha eli thuba ukucacisa imvelaphi yabo ngokobudala bomntwana. Bona abaliqondi igama lokwamkelwa okanye ukwamkelwa, kodwa singasebenzisa amanye amabinzana anjenge "siye sayokukhangela okanye ukuba nawe." Ke baya kuyidibanisa nesenzo sothando, into entle.
Eyona nto iphambili kukwenza ifayile indawo yonxibelelwano apho abantwana banokubuza imibuzo kwaye bathethe ngesihloko ngaphandle kokuba babeyintoni na. Le yindlela esiya kuyenza imeko ibe yeyoqobo ngayo. Kufuneka silihloniphe ixesha lomntwana lokufaka ulwazi, kuba luya kuxhomekeka kwizinto ezininzi.
Ungamxelela njani umntwana wakho ukuba ukhulisiwe
Akukho ndlela ifanelekileyo yokuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba ukhuliswe ngabanye abantu. Kodwa into icace gca kukuba mayibe ngu Inkcazo elula, ethembekileyo nengqalileyo. Yenza inkcazo ibe lula ngangokunokwenzeka kwaye ngaphandle kokongeza iinkcukacha ezininzi. Unokubuza imibuzo ayifunayo, kodwa aphendule ngokokukhula kwakhe kwaye athethe naye amaxesha amaninzi njengoko kufuneka.
Ukuba unayo iifoto kunye neenkumbulo zelo nqanaba Ungambonisa yona ukuze abone ukuba uyifumene kangakanani uthando. Mxelele ukuba ubufuna kangakanani ukuba eze ebomini bakho nayo yonke into oyifundileyo kunye naye. Yiyo loo nto umntwana enokuphinda ayenze kwakhona kwaye ayakhe kwakhona imeko yakhe yangaphambili kwaye oyise usizi losapho lwendalo.
Ukuphendula kwabantwana abamkelweyo
Wonke umntwana lihlabathi kwaye basabela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo xa befumanisa ukuba bavela phi kanye kanye. Impendulo yakho iya kuxhomekeka ekukhuleni kwakho, kubudala, kwiimvakalelo, nakwindlela othetha ngayo ngokwamkelwa ekhaya. Abanye abantwana banokucinga ukuba babemiselwe ukukhuliswa ngenxa yokuba babembi okanye bengathandeki. Kodwa ukuba sithetha nawe ngokunyanisekileyo nangothando ngalo mbandela, ibonisa icala eliqaqambileyo lokwamkelwa ezi nkolelo azizufane zibenazo.
Kulo Ukufikisa sele kudlula kwintlekele enkulu yesazisi, nokwamkelwa kwabanye abantu kunokongeza amathandabuzo akho. Unokuba nomdla wokudibana nosapho lwebhayoloji ngeli nqanaba, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, akufuneki uyithathe njengeyona nto imbi kuwe. Kulungile ukunika inkxaso ngeli nqanaba, kwaye ukuba kukho imfuneko cela uncedo kwiingcali ukuba kunzima kuwe ukwenza le nkqubo.
Kuba khumbula ... ukwamkelwa ayisiyonto imbi, kodwa ngumboniso wothando olungenasiphelo.