Sivame ukunxulumana notyelelo kugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini njengento ekude ngexesha, apho amaxesha amaninzi bengathathwa benoluvo lokuba baya kuhamba bodwa xa sele bebadala. Njengokuba siya kwabanye oogqirha ukuya kuhlola (oogqirha bamazinyo, oogqirha bamehlo ...) Kuyimfuneko ukuba neemviwo zesibeleko ngaphandle kokulinda ukuba ube seminyakeni esemthethweni. Namhlanje siza kuthetha xa kucetyiswa ukuba uthathe intombi yakho uye kugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini ukuze ayokuvavanywa.
Ngaba ukufika kwexesha lixesha lokuba uye kugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini?
Abanye oomama ngokufika kweentombi zabo exesheni, bakhawulezisa utyelelo kugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini. Ngamanye amaxesha yeyakho Ingcali ichaza utshintsho olwenzekayo emzimbeni wakho kwaye uphendule yonke imibuzo yakho. Ungathetha naye ukuba uphendule yonke imibuzo yakhe (ukuba uya kuba nayo), kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka abe neentloni zokuthetha nawe ngayo, ungamsa kugqirha wamazinyo akuchaze ngokuya exesheni, ucoceko, ukukhuselwa kubudlelwane, utshintsho emzimbeni wakhe ... Ngu ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqala utyelelo lwezifo zababhinqileyo ukufumana uvavanyo, nangona abanye oomama bekujonga kusekutsha.
Abantwana kunye nolutsha ngokubanzi baziva belahlwa ngoogqirha, ke kuyacetyiswa Chaza ukuba iqulathe ntoni. Musa ukumoyikisa ngeemvavanyo ezenziwayo (abanye abantu basetyhini abonwabanga ngokuqokelelwa kwesampulu okanye nge-ultrasound yelungu lobufazi, ngelixa abanye bengenzi) ukuze musa ukoyika. Nokuba udliwanondlebe lokuqala aluhlolisisi (ngakumbi ukuba khange kwabelwana ngesondo). Imibuzo iyabuzwa, iyalinganiswa kwaye iyalinganiswa, kuvavanywa amabele, kunye nenye into encinci.
Mxelele ukuba uyingcali, loo nto Bangamthemba kwaye le nto ukuxelela yona iyimfihlo. Isinceda ukuba singaboni nje kuphela izifo ezinokwenzeka, kodwa ikwacacisa indlela umzimba wethu osebenza ngayo kunye nendlela yokuphucula impilo yethu. Ungayithatha uye nayo kolunye uphononongo lwakho ukuze izuze ukuzithemba. Ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-16 banokungena bodwa ukuba bayathanda, ukuze ubukho boomama babo bungathinteli iimpendulo zabo. Ukongeza, iintombi azithandi ukuba nogqirha ofanayo noomama babo ngenxa yokoyika ukuxelelwa oko kubonakalisiwe kuthethwano. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ufumane omnye ugqirha.
Kufuneka nini ukwenza utyelelo lokuqala lwabasetyhini?
Akukho minyaka ibekiweyo. Into ekucetyiswa ukuba (ukuba ayithathiwanga ngokufika komgaqo) izakuba ivela qala ngesondo sokuqala. Ngumxholo obuthathaka ukuba uthethe ngawo nabantwana bethu, kuba benqabile ukuthetha ngawo nathi. Kodwa ukuba sikrokrela ukuba sele beqalisile okanye ukuba bacinga ngokulalana, eli lixesha elifanelekileyo. Kananjalo ukuba kukho nayiphi na ingxaki kwindawo enkulu okanye ebeleni, okanye iintlungu.
Iingcali zeGynecologists ukucebisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokucwangcisa yintoni phezulu yintoni izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo zikhona kunye nendlela yokuzikhusela. Uya kubuza malunga nembali yosapho lwakho, ukugula kunye nokusebenza, ubudala bexesha lakho lokuqala, ukuba kuye kwakho ukukhulelwa kunye nomhla wokuya esikhathini okokugqibela.
Eli xesha liza kubakho ukuhlolwa kwamalungu esini kuthethwano, ukubona ukuba yonke into ilungile. Inokucaphukisa kodwa ingabi buhlungu, kwaye iya kuphela kungekudala. Ukongeza, i ukubetha kwebele ukufumanisa ukuba akukho siqhuma na. Ukuba uyayichazela intombi yakho ukuba ilindele ntoni kutyelelo lwakho lokuqala, iya kuzola kwaye ikhululeke ngakumbi, ingoyiki kwaye inxunguphale. Kuqhelekile ukuba nexhala okokuqala, emva koko uloyiko luyanyamalala.
Kufanele ukuba icoceke kwaye icoceke, kwaye kunye nempahla engaxinenanga kakhulu ukuze isuswe ngokulula. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba wenze uphononongo ubuncinci kube kanye ngonyaka ukujonga ukuba konke kulungile.
Kuba khumbula ... awunyanzelekanga ukuba uye kwagqirha xa kukho ingxaki. Ukufumanisa kwangoko kubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye kunokwenziwa kuphela ngokuhlolwa rhoqo.