Iintsana ezisanda kuzalwa ziyakhala kwaye zenza ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo: indlala, ukulala, ukushisa, isithukuthezi, i-diaper engcolileyo okanye i-colic. Into esimele siyikhumbule kukuba ukukhala kwezi nyanga zokuqala akuze kube yinto ephazamisayo, kodwa ihlala ibonisa isicelo sokunceda ukuba saneliswe.
Nangona kunjalo, ye qonda ukuba usana olusandul’ ukuzalwa lulambile, kukho “amaqhinga” abanokuthi bonke abazali bahlale bewakhumbula ukuze balindele intswelo yomntwana. Enyanisweni, i izalamba ezisanda kuzalwa bafika kungekabikho nesikhalo ngokwaso, esithi xa sisenzeka kube sele kusemva kwexesha.
Umntwana osandula ukuzalwa kufuneka atye kangakanani?
Inani lokutya kwemihla ngemihla kwiintsuku zokuqala kunye neenyanga zobomi ziphakathi kwe-8 kunye ne-12 (ngamanye amaxesha nakwi-14), isixa sobisi esidla ngokucetyiswa ziitafile inyanga nenyanga kufuneka sithathelwe ingqalelo njengesalathiso, ekubeni imeko yosana ngalunye olusandul’ ukuzalwa yahlukile. Ukukhathazeka ukuba umntwana wakho akafumani ukutya okwaneleyo yenye yezona zinto zixhaphakileyo phakathi koomama abatsha, nokuba bayancancisa okanye batyiswa ubisi olungumgubo.
Ukuba umntwana uzuza ubunzima, ukuba ubonisa iimpawu zokuhlutha ekupheleni kokutya, akukho sizathu sakukhathazeka kwaye, ngaphantsi, ukuzama ukwandisa iibhotile ezimbalwa ezongezelelweyo ngobisi olungumgubo ngenxa yokoyika ukuba akayi kuthatha ngokwaneleyo ukusuka ebeleni.
Olu qheliselo, ngelishwa abanye oomama abaluzamayo, alulunganga; kufuneka kwenziwe kuphela ukuba ugqirha wabantwana ucebisa ukuba ngesizathu esivakalayo kufuneka siphunyezwe. Kwenzeka ntoni ngokwenene? Usana, nangona lugqibile ukutya, luvavanya esi sisombululo sitsha, luzalisa ngaphezu koko luyimfuneko kwaye lutsibe ukondla okulandelayo okanye luphinde luphinde luphinde luphinde lubisi. Ngelixa ubisi lwebele lutshintsha ngexesha lokutyiswa, luba lutyebe ngakumbi kwaye luzalise, ubisi olungumgubo luyafana ukusuka ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni;
Ukubaluleka kokuncancisa kwimfuno
Ewe ewe, umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa unokulamba ngaphambi kweeyure ezi-3 ze-canonical, njengokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba alale ngoxolo ixesha elide ngaphandle kokufuna ubisi. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokungalandeli ngokungqongqo iishedyuli, enyanisweni iya kucetyiswa ngakumbi ukuncancisa ngokwemfuno, eneenzuzo ezininzi: umntwana uhlakulela indlela yokutya enempilo kunye nokuziphatha okuzilawulayo malunga nokutya, kunye nomngcipheko omncinci wokutyeba kwabantu abadala. Kwakhona akukho loyiko lokutya okuninzi, ngokuchanekileyo kuba, ngakumbi ngokuncancisa, usana olusanda kuzalwa luyabona ukuba luyeke nini.
Zeziphi iimpawu zokulamba ezenziwa lusana olusandul’ ukuzalwa?
Siye sathi ukulila linyathelo lokugqibela elizama ukusenza siqonde ukuba lilambile. Ngaphambi kokufikelela kulo mzuzu, umntwana uthumela uluhlu lwezibonakaliso, ezenziwe ngeentshukumo kunye nezandi, ezilandela umyalelo othile. Apha sikubonisa indlela yokuxelela ukuba umntwana wakho ulambile
- Ekuqaleni umntwana usazolile, kodwa ngokuthe ngcembe uye aqaphele kwaye anikele ingqalelo, ajonge macala onke
- ke umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa uqala ukwenza ukunyakaza ngomlomo: unamathele ulwimi, kubonakala ukuhlafuna, ukugwinya
- umntwana ke udla ngokujikela emacaleni akhangele ibele ngobuso bakhe. Kukwakho nethuku nemvelo ekwaziyo ukuzicingela emntwaneni, ethi xa ichukumisa isidlele emlonyeni, usana lubeke imilebe kwicala ekuvele kulo uvuselelo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, esi sigaba sinokubhidaniswa nokusabela okuqhelekileyo komntwana osanda kuzalwa kwinto ethe yamchukumisa.
- Usana, emva kweempawu zokuqala, ngoku luhamba ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza; Yolula, yolula izandla zakho ezincinci. Sikwinqanaba lokusebenza ngokupheleleyo. Usana olusandul’ ukuzalwa, lungekawuboni umahluko phakathi kwakhe nonina, luyamkhangela kumda walo, luyolulela ukumfumana.
- kwinqanaba elizayo, umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa uya kuthatha izandla zakhe ezincinci emlonyeni wakhe, ukuhlafuna kubo, njengokungathi ufuna uhlobo oluthile lokuthuthuzela.
- ngaphambi nje kokukhala iinyembezi, okokugqibela kwe izalamba ezisanda kuzalwa zizikhalo eziqala ukuphuma, zihamba novalo kunye nebala elibomvu elikhulayo
Umntwana ukhalela indlala
Kuphela emva kokwenza konke okusemandleni ukuba usazise ukuba ulambile usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa luya kuqala ukukhala. Ngokucacileyo akusoloko kusenzeka ukugcina imiqondiso kwangethuba, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba bexakekile belungisa ukutya. Kwakhona, umntwana ngamnye uhlukile: asingabo bonke abantwana abenza amanyathelo ngesantya esifanayo kwaye oku kuxhomekeke kubuntu babo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, kumnandi ukufunda ukutolika unyana wethu, ngaphaya kwephysiology.
Yintoni enokwenziwa ngeli xesha? Okokuqala, ulambile ukhala umntwana udinga ukuzola . Ngale ndlela, uya kuqonda ukuba sizimamele iimfuno zakhe kwaye akayi kuba naxhala malunga nokondla. Umngcipheko, enyanisweni, kukuba uzifumana usitya ngomdla omkhulu, kuba ufikelela kwinqanaba apho ungasakwazi ukulawula indlala oyivayo.
Kwenzeka ngoko oko Utya ibele ngokungonelanga, ngenxa yokuba usela ubisi lokuqala (olungenasondlo) aze adinwe; ngelixa uya kuzifakela ibhotile, ngeengxaki ze-colic, ngenxa yokuba umntwana osanda kuzalwa uginya umoya, kunye ne-reflux, ngenxa yokuba isisu-esincinci kakhulu- sigcwalisa ngephanyazo. Ukufumanisa ukuba umntwana uyondla ngokwaneleyo, jonga nje kuye: unokubona ngokucacileyo umntwana owanelisekileyo, wanelisekile, amehlo akhe avaliwe, ekhululekile. Umntwana ongakwaziyo ukufumana ubisi lwebele olwaneleyo okanye ofumanisa kunzima ukulukhupha ebhotileni akayi kuphuma ezolile.