Nika umntwana wakho ithuba lokuzenzela izigqibo. Mnike ithuba lokuba kwiimeko ezingonwabisiyo apho anokusombulula ingxaki. Mvumele ukuba enze iimpazamo kwaye azilungise. Njengomzali, umsebenzi wakho UKUBA ubekho kumntwana wakho, kodwa hayi ukumsusa ebomini bakho. Yiba ngumntu ozithemba kuye nelizwi lobulumko. Mncede aphumeze iingcinga zakhe kwaye umncede afumane ezakhe izisombululo.
Nazi ezinye zeendlela zokunceda ukukhuthaza inkululeko, ukucinga nzulu, kunye nesiseko sokuzithemba. Ungalahli iinkcukacha.
- Iintsana, iintsana, abantwana abahamba isikolo: babekhona ngokwasemzimbeni ukubakhusela ngaphandle kwengozi, kodwa baqale ukubayeka bathambe kwaye basebenzise ukuzimela nokuzimela kwabo; ukukhetha iimpahla zabo, ukuphendula imibuzo xa abantu abadala bethetha nabo, bejonga kwilayibrari, njl.
- Abantwana besikolo samabanga aphantsi: Biphatha iiodolo zabo zokutyela, babuze izihlobo zabo ixesha lokudlala, kwaye ngokubanzi babavumele ukuba basombulule ezabo iingxaki ezivelayo. Umzekelo, ukuba benze into engalunganga okanye bangena engxakini esikolweni, bacele basombulule ingxaki emva kwabacebisi kwaye ubancedile ukuba bacinge nzulu kwaye bafumane isisombululo.
Zininzi iindlela zokunceda abantwana bakho ngaphandle kokususa yonke imiqobo yobomi. Njengabazali, umsebenzi wethu kukukhulisa ubudlelwane obulungekileyo obunothando nobomeleleyo. Mhloniphe umntwana wakho njengomntu owomeleleyo nonobuchule. Banike ithuba lokuzicingela ukuzikhulisa, unyamezelo kunye nokuzimisela okuya kubanceda babe ngabantu abadala abaphumelelayo.
Endaweni yokunciphisa imiqobo ubomi obuphosela abantwana bakho, bancede babakhokele kwinkqubo yokuzikhethela. Xa umzali we-mower ethintela umntwana ukuba afumane ubunzima, uyamxelela ukuba akanalungelo okanye akakwazi ukucinga nzulu. Masakhe abantwana bethu ukuba bancede ukukhulisa isizukulwana esizayo esinengcwangu, esifanelekileyo, nesibindi.