Ngokutsho kwe Umbutho waseSpain woNgxamiseko lwabantwana, spasms yokukhala (Ngamanye amaxesha sithetha ngosana 'luba mpunga') “Ezi ziqendu ezenzeka emva kovalo, ukuwa, ukubetha okanye ukungxoliswa. Umntwana uyeka ukuphefumla kabukhali kwaye uqala ukujika abe mfusa okanye umbalaOkokugqibela, uhlala ekhala. Ukubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo kugqityiwe kwaye kuyakhawuleza, kungaphantsi komzuzu, nangona enokozela noko ”. Kwenzekile kwintombi yam amaxesha ama-3 okanye ama-4 xa yayilusana, kwaye ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba awuyazi ukuba ingantoni, iyothusa kakhulu kuba ucinga ukuba unengxaki yokuxinana kwaye unoxanduva buyisela umva imeko.
Kuhlala kwenzeka kwiintsana ezisempilweni phakathi (malunga) neenyanga ezintandathu ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka emi-6, nangona ukusukela kwiminyaka emi-4/5 baya kudlula; Eminye imithombo yolwazi ibonakalisa ukuba banokubakho kwiipesenti ezi-5 ukuya kwezi-7 zabantwana kule minyaka. Ukwandisa ulwazi kancinci, cacisa ukuba ayisosiganeko sokuxhuzula, nokuba ngequbuliso, kwaye ayibandakanyi iingozi zempilo, usana oluchaphazelekayo lubuyela ezingqondweni nasekuphefumleni kwimizuzwana nje.
Olona hlobo luxhaphakileyo ngokubhekisele kwinjongo yalo, ityhila ukuba umntwana akayicaphukisi ngabom "ukumcaphukisa"; sithetha ngenene ngabantu abancinci kakhulu abaneengqondo ezingakhulanga, ngubani Ngayiphi na imeko baphulukana nolawulo ekubonakaliseni uvakalelo lwabo. Masingakulibali ukuba baseneminyaka emininzi yokuphulukana nobumsulwa babo, ngamafutshane: kuyathandabuzeka ukucinga ukuba bafuna ukusikhathaza.
Ukuqonda ispasm sokukhala.
Unobangela unokuba kukucaphuka okanye "woyike," njengokuthi "ungxoliswe" ngumama okanye utata, okanye ukhathazwe ngumntakwenu omdala. Ngomthamo othile wokujonga, sinokulindela nokubona kwangaphambili ukubonakala kwesikhala esibuhlungu, ukusondela emntwaneni, sithethe kamnandi kuye, nokuba (ukuba akakaqalisi ukubandezeleka) bambambe ezingalweni zethu ..., nangona ezi ziqendu ziqala kwaye ziphele, akukho mntu uthanda (okanye ndicinga njalo) ukubukela usana lwabo luqala ukukhala kakhulu Lujika lube bomvu, lube mfusa, kwaye luyeke nokuphefumla.
Iindidi ezimbini ze-spasms zokulila zichongiwe: bumhlophe (ubuso obumhlophe) kunye ne-cyanotic (ukugruzuka)Kuzo zombini kukho ukuphefumla nokungabikho kwengqondo (nokuba yeyomzuzu, kwaye oku kuninzi kwabo bangakwaziyo). Kwiimeko ezinzima ukuxhuzula kuyenzeka, ngaphandle kokushiya naluphi na uhlobo lokwenzakala: kodwa ulumke kakhulu! kuba ukuthathwa okungaphezulu kwemizuzu engama-60 kufuneka kujongwe ngugqirha wabantwana, nokuba iyaphela.
Ungaze uyenze le nto ngexesha lokukhala.
- Musa ukuphulukana nokuphola, ukungxola, okanye ukukhwaza umntwana.
- Musa ukuyishukumisa, musa ukuyishukumisa.
- Musa ukubeka iminwe yakho emlonyeni kuba akaminxeki.
- Ungazami ukuwumisa xa sele uqalile.
- Yigcine kude kwizinto ezinokubetha kwaye zikwenzakalise.
Ukuthathela ingqalelo iminyaka, Andizukungxolisa (ngamava am) umntwana okwelo xesha nokubaNangona kukho iingcebiso ezininzi malunga nokukhalimela umntwana, kuthiwa "ngokuzithetha" ngaloo ndlela, ndiyakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba asinomonde ukuze bakwazi ukukhula nokulawula iimvakalelo ngenye indlela. Ewe, ukukhwaza ngokungalawulekiyo ngokwenzekayo, emva koko ndimkhalimele, kungandixelela ngakumbi ngokungakhuli komntu omdala kunosana.
Usana lwam lune spasm ekhalayo, ndenzeni?
Ungathetha nogqirha wabantwana ukusombulula nawaphi na amathandabuzo onokuba nawo, kodwa khumbula ukuba "abanyangeki"; kwaye nangona ithiyori ayinakuthintelwa, ngokwenza kukho imiqondiso esivumela ukuba silindele kwangaphambiliKwakhona (kwaye oku kubalulekile) i-spasm ekhalayo iya kubonakala rhoqo emva kwemini, ngexesha apho umntwana ediniwe, isisombululo iya kuba kukuzama indawo ezolileyo xa ucinga ukuba inokumchaphazela.
Khumbula ukuba nokuba ulusana, ungathethela phantsi kwaye umxelele ukuba uza kumnceda ngeziqendu. Ndwendwela ugqirha ukuba umntwana ungaphantsi kweenyanga ezintlanu ubudala okanye uxhuzula (kwaye ngakumbi ukuba ezi zihlala ngaphezulu komzuzu). Ulandelelwano yile: Ukuba sisifo esibuhlungu sokuba umntwana wakho ahlupheke, awunazo izizathu ezininzi zokukhathazeka, kodwa unokuziqonda (kwaye mhlawumbi uziphephe) kuxolo lwengqondo lomntu wonke. Ndenze njalo.
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