Ukufikisa linqanaba elinzima kubo bobabini abazali nabantwana babo abadlula kweli nqanaba. Unokuzama ukukwenza uzive unetyala ngokugxeka ukuba awumqondi okanye nokuba ungathetha amazwi anjengokuthi uyakucaphukela okanye awuyonto kuye. Ngokucacileyo, Ngamagama nje eemvakalelo abangazaziyo ukuba bangahambisa njani ngokufanelekileyo kwaye awufanele uthathe njengesihlaselo sakho.
Xa umntu okwishumi elivisayo ekuhlasela, ayisiyiyo into enento yokwenza nawe, ziimvakalelo zabo, ubunzima babo bokuzilawula, ukungakhuli kwabo ukuqonda nokubonisa iimvakalelo zabo. Bakudinga kakhulu kunakuqala, bafuna ukuba ube sisikhokelo sabo ... Nokuba bayaphika ngokuthe ngqo okanye bazama ukwenza ukuba ubone ukuba abakudingi konke konke.
Ukuba uthatha olu hlaselo ngokobuqu, uyakumnika amandla kuphela kwaye umenze ukuba acinge ukuba awunakho ngokwaneleyo amandla okanye ukuzeyisa kuwe ezakwenza uzive ungakhuselekanga kwaye umlo ekhaya uqinisekisiwe. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufikelwa ngumsindo, nawe unawo… Kuya kubakho iingxaki kuphela ekhaya. Ukuba awufuni ukuthatha uhlaselo lwabakwishumi elivisayo, kufuneka ukhumbule oku kulandelayo:
- Thatha umphefumlo onzulu
- Vumela intlungu yamazwi abo ihambe, khumbula ukuba ayingomagama ajolise kuwe
- Khumbula ukuba kufuneka ufunde ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakho
- Sukungxola kuye okanye ube neempendulo ezigwenxa
- Zama ukuvelana nomntwana wakho kwaye uzibeke endaweni yabo, khumbula ukuba kunjani ukuba ngumntwana okhathazekileyo kwaye ongazi ukuba angasabela njani ngokufanelekileyo
- Cinga ngendlela oza kuphendula ngayo uzolile kwaye wakhe ngendlela eyakhayo
- Beka imida kwithoni ezolileyo
- Yazisa umntwana wakho ukuba usecaleni kwakhe kwaye awuchasani naye
- Yenza ngothando nentlonipho