Yinto engenakulawulwa, ngakumbi koomama abatsha, kubonakala ngathi ukuthelekisa abantwana nabanye yinto eza ngokwendalo. Ukuba usana oluneenyanga ezili-18 ubudala aluthethi kodwa lommelwane uyathetha, Oomama babeka izandla zabo entloko kuba into embi inokwenzeka kumncinci wabo. Kukho abo bade bacinge ukuba banokuba nohlobo oluthile lwesifo ...
Ukuthelekisa kuyothusa, kwaye ke noomama ababukela ezinye iintsana benza izinto zabo ekusenokwenzeka ukuba azikaphumeleli. Kodwa inyani kukuba usana ngalunye lunesingqisho salo sokuzivelela kwaye akufuneki ukuba siphazamisane nalo.
Awunakulindela ukuba umntwana aqale ukuthetha kwiinyanga ezili-12 kuba umntwana wabamelwane bakho sele eyazi indlela yokuthetha nokuphindaphinda amagama. Hayi, isingqisho sendaleko yabantwana asihambi ngoluhlobo. Iintsana zifuna ixesha labo lokufunda okutsha, okuyizinto ezintle kubo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho akathethi okwangoku, musa ukuthelekisa, kuya kufuneka umvuselele ngokwaneleyo ukuze kancinci kancinci afikelele kwiinjongo zakhe. Kuphela xa uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho unokuba nengxaki, njengokungajiki xa esiva igama lakhe okanye ilizwi likanina, ukungalungisi amehlo akhe, ukungafuni ukudlala, ukungacholi zinto okanye ukungancumisi ... luluvo olulungileyo lokuba umse kugqirha wabantwana ukuze azi ukuba yonke into ihamba ngokuchanekileyo kwindaleko yakhe. Kodwa musa ukulindela ukucinga ukuba nantoni na enokwenzeka emntwaneni wakho ukuba ayiqinisekiswanga ngugqirha wabantwana kuqala. Nangona unayo nayiphi na imibuzo onayo, soloko uye kugqirha wabantwana.