Ukusuka zincinci kwaye iminyaka emininzi oomakhulu nootatomkhulu bethu bebesebenzisa ukuphawula a umahluko phakathi kwamantombazana namakhwenkwe. Umahluko kwiindlela zokuziphatha ababefanele babe nazo, njengebinzana elithi "Abantwana abakhali", ngokuqinisekileyo siye sakuva ngaphambili, apho iimvakalelo zibangelwa ngabasetyhini kunye nokuqina kunye nesibindi kuthiwa kubantwana.
Kubaluleke kakhulu kula maxesha ukuba singavumeli olu hlobo lwento lungene imfundo yabantwana, yenza a ihlabathi elilinganayo nangaphandle iiyantlukwano zesini apho amantombazana abelwa khona, ngokomzekelo, umsebenzi wawo xa ekhulile uya kuba kukunyamekela ikhaya nokuba nabantwana. Kubonakala ngathi yinto eshiywe ngasemva, kodwa siya kumangaliswa kukubona inani leentsapho ezisanyanzelisa le yantlukwano.
Ukusuka ekhaya kunye nesikolo sinomsebenzi waso fundisa kumakhwenkwe namantombazana ngokulingana. Kunzima kakhulu ukungangeni kwiiyantlukwano zesini kuba oko sasisengabantwana uthotho lwemithetho yamiselwa kuthi. iimpawu ukuba bangamantombazana okanye amakhwenkwe. Kuxhaphake kakhulu ukuba xa uthenga a yokudlala Kumakhwenkwe, imidlalo yokulwa, iibhola, iimoto zikhethwa ... kwaye xa kumantombazana, oonodoli, iimoto zabantwana, iikhitshini zithengwa ... njengokuba kwenzeka ntoni ngemibala, esiye sathi i-blue, eluhlaza kumakhwenkwe kunye ne-roses. , ii-lilacs kumantombazana.
Kungenxa yoku kungasentla ekufuneka sinikele sisuka ekhaya a imfundo engakhethi cala ebantwaneni, akuqhelekanga ukuba intombazana icele ibhola okanye imoto yookumkani okanye inkwenkwe ukuba idlale noonodoli ukususela phakathi kwabo kwaye xa ingenayo nayiphi na indima eyahlula ngokwesini esekiweyo, imoto inokusetyenziswa ngabo bobabini. omnye nomnye.
Ukuhanjiswa kwe umsebenzi wasekhaya Yindlela elungileyo kubantwana abadadlana ukuba baqalise ukungayimiseli le misebenzi yamantombazana kuphela, ukusuka besebancinci bobabini kufuneka baqhube imisebenzi. imisebenzi efanayo, njengokucoca igumbi, ukuhlamba izitya okanye ukufundisa amakhwenkwe namantombazana (amadala) indlela yoku-ayina impahla.
Konke oku kunjalo Bueno ukuze ngomso amantombazana, umzekelo, angavumeli ukuba "asetyenziswe" yinkwenkwe ethile apho ifanele iyenze ukutya, icoceke ... kodwa kunokuba sibe nesizukulwana apho ezi ziphathamandla zokuziphatha. ngesini hlala ngasemva