NgoMvulo uJoey Salads uthumele olunye ulingo kwezentlalo kwaye bendicinga ukuba ufuna ukwabelana nawe; UJoey 'yinkwenkwezi ye-youtube', okanye into esiyaziyo macala onke njenge 'youtuber'. Kunye noEmily wazimisela ukubona i ukuphendula kwabantu abohlukeneyo kumama oncancisa esidlangalaleni; Kwaye kukho yonke into: ukusuka kwindoda evuka ecaleni kwayo kwaye ishiye icatshukiswa yile ntombazana 'inesibindi', iye kumfazi omncinci ozivumelayo ukuba aphikisane malunga nokulunga kokubonisa amabele akhe kwindawo kawonkewonke, edlula umntu oqolileyo umntu ongakhathaliyo kwaphela okutyiwa lusana. Kutheni le nto: Iminyaka emithathu edlulileyo, Ikomiti yokuncancisa ye-AEP ukhuphe inqaku elichaza ukuba iintsana kufuneka zibenjalo bondliwe 'kwimfuno'.
'Kwimfuno' kuthetha ukuba ibele kufuneka linikezelwe xa umntwana elifuna, kunye nexesha elide afuna ngalo, ayikho enye indlela yokulungisa imveliso yobisi kwiimfuno zakho; Kusengqiqweni ukuba ndikufumanise kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba kudala ingxabano. Oogqirha babantwana bekomiti bongeza ukuba 'ukuncancisa esidlangalaleni akufuneki kubonwe njengokungcola okanye ngokwesondo; okanye kufuneka azifihle / azinqande, kuba ezi zimo zingumqobo ekuqhubekeni kokuncancisa, kwaye ziyabatyhafisa oomama bangomso. ' Oku kulandela kwezi ngxelo zoomama akanyanzelekanga ukuba angene kwelona gumbi libhetele okanye lixhotyiswe kakubi ukondla iintsana zabo; Kwaye akukho nkampani okanye ziko kufuneka lithintele isenzo sendalo, malunga noku, ndingathanda ukuqaqambisa inyathelo laseBrazil ukuhlawulisa nakuphi na ukuthintela ukuncancisa esidlangalaleni, nangona kwangaxeshanye kundenza buhlungu ukuba kufuneka siye kwezi zinto zigqithisileyo.
Nantsi ividiyo kaJoey Salads, kodwa kuqala ndikubhekisa kumfanekiso owubonileyo kwintloko yeposti: Yisampulu yesimo sengqondo sokuhanahanisa esimangalisayo esakhelwe luluntu lwasentshona malunga nokuncancisa oomama. Akukho mntu uthandabuzayo nokuba amabele kufanelekile ukuba aboniswe kwintengiso, kwi-cinema, okanye phantsi kwaso nasiphi na isizathu ... ngokobuqu andothuki xa ndibona intengiso yempahla yangaphantsi apho umfuziselo wakhe ubonakalisa umzimba wakhe kwimizobo yeemarike ibhasi (ndingathandabuza ukuba kunyanzelekile, ewe, okanye ukuba kuyanceda ukumelwa kwabafazi); Kodwa andizukuyikhanyela ukuba yonke le mifanekiso inegalelo kuxhatshazo emzimbeni womfazi, kwaye iphele isenza ukuba samkelwe.
Kodwa, ngokwembono yokwamkelwa, kwenzeka njani ukuba kusikhathaze ukubona umama encancisa?
Kutheni le nto umama kufuneka azigqume ngokuncancisa esidlangalaleni?
Emva kokukhangela kwimithombo emininzi yolwazi ukuze ndikwazi ukuzichaza ngokwam izizathu zokuba umntu angazikhathaza ngokubona umntu obhinqileyo ofunyenweyo, ndiye ndafumana izizathu ezahlukeneyo njengokucinga ukuba oomama bafuna ukuba liziko lokuqwalaselwa (impazamo) Kukho nabo bangengomama / utata okwangoku kwaye abayiqondi (iya kuza), ngaba kungenxa yomona? (mhlawumbi ikhona into yalonto), ... Nayiphi na impikiswano ethiwe thaca kum, Ukuswela ukungaguquguquki, kwaye xa ndithetha ngemigangatho emibini Singqongwe, uya kuqonda.
Kwelinye icala, umama ngamnye uncancisa esidlangalaleni njengoko efuna / anakho: ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uphakamise ihempe yakho kancinci ukuze umntwana ongaphezulu konyaka asuse ibra kunye ne-latches, ngamanye amaxesha, umntwana mncinci kakhulu kwaye kufuneka uzifumanise ngakumbi; Ngamanye amaxesha iimpahla zanele ukuze isifuba singabonakali kakhulu, ezinye zingabonisi, kwaye kukho namaxesha esingakhathaliyo kuba sikuthatha njengesenzo sendalo, ... Ingxaki kukuba abanye abantu bayifumene imbono engeyiyo, kunye nokudideka ngendlela yabo yokubona izinto zintle kangaka.
Phambi kokuba uqhubeke, ndifuna ukuqaphela inyani yokuba (ngokophando luka-2013), Isizathu sesibini sokuba kungaphazamisi ukuba oomama bancancise kufuneka bayenze esidlangalaleni; Ngokucacileyo, esi simo sengqondo sivela ekugatyweni eluntwini, kodwa ukuba ukuncancisa kuluncedo kakhulu (kwaye kunjalo), senza ntoni ukuba asincedi oomama kwaye sizishiya sinocalucalulo oluninzi?
Kwaye kutheni ufanele ukufihla kwigumbi lokuncancisa okanye kwigumbi lokuhlambela ukuze uncancise umntwana wakho?
Wakhe wambona umntu ethatha ipleyiti yesuphu okanye ihambhega ukuya esinkini ukuze atye ikhuselekile ekujongeni / nakwiilwimi ezimbi? hayi? Ewe sele unayo impendulo: akukho sizathu. Kukwakhona ukuba amagumbi okuncancisa awekho kuyo yonke indawo, kodwa nakweyiphi na imeko ngumama ogqiba ukuba ayisebenzise okanye hayi; Kubonakala kum ukuba kuyacalucalula, kuba asibathumeli abantu abadala kwindawo efihlakeleyo ukuze singababoni, kwaye asikuthinteli (kuya kuba yimfuneko ngakumbi!) Ubukho babantu abanobunzima bokuhamba, ngokuchaseneyo : Sibalungiselela ukuba babelane ngezithuba ezifanayo nathi.
Kodwa ukuba ubukho babanye abantu buyakukhathaza, kwaye ufuna ukuyenza ngokwahlukileyo ...
Ke sikunika ezinye iindlela, kodwa ke kucace ukuba nguwe ogqibayo: kukho iimpahla zokuncancisa emarikeni ezinokufihla kuba lonke ibele alibonwa, ungazogquma kancinci nge-gauze (into endingazukuyenza kukucebisa ukuba uzogqume ngesikhafu esikhulu kuba oko kuyasoyikisa baby, kwaye Kubonakala kuyingozi kum), okanye ukukhetha iindawo ezinabantu abambalwa; nabantwana abancinci kakhulu kwaye usebenzisa abathwali babantwana Ukuncancisa kukhululekile, kwaye abanye abayazi loo nto. Kwaye okokugqibela, ukuba omncinci sele enenyanga ezingaphezulu kwe-18/24 ubudala, ungazama ukuxoxa ngetithi, kwaye uyihlehlise de ubuyele ekhaya.
Ukufunyanwa yimigangatho emibini
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo: I-eroticism ijongelwe phantsi, ukuncancisa akunjalo, kwaye nangona uxanduva kwabelwana ngalo, ndingathanda ukubonisa ukuba uthungelwano lwasentlalweni lukhuthaza le ngcinga: umzekelo, ngaphandle kwento yokuba kwimigaqo yoluntu, uFacebook uthi ayizukujonga imifanekiso yoomama abancancisayo, ngesikhalazo esincinci, imixholo icinyiwe kwaye kuvaliwe iiakhawunti. Singahamba ukuba ufuna imvelaphi yombuzo ngomnye umbuzo, zithini amabele xa ungancancisi? Kwenzeka ntoni kukuba ngenxa yezinto ezahlukeneyo baye bagqiba ekubeni babonakalise inkanuko yesini (ndikubhekisa kwi-cinema ye-porno ukuze uyiqonde), kwangaxeshanye umbono wokuncancisa into engcolileyo uyakhuthazwa.
Nangona kunjalo, kwaye awuyazi, kukho iinkcubeko apho kungenzeki khona: awujongi intombazana encancisayo ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kwaye akukho namnye obonisa 'intiyo' ngesenzo esihle nesendalo. Kwirekhodi oza kuyibona apha ngezantsi, le migangatho iphindwe kabini ibonakalisiwe kwimifanekiso embalwa, omnye wabalinganiswa abaphambili ngumlingisi uAlyssa Milano, ongazange athandabuze ukukhusela ukuncancisa emva kwengxabano yemifanekiso yokuncancisa kwakhe umntwana wakhe. Kwenzeka ntoni kuthi? Ngaba uMyley Cyrus onesiqwenga selaphu eliqaqambileyo phezu kweengono zakhe angakwi-TV kunye no-Alyssa (okanye nabani na) angabinakho ukuthumela imifanekiso yakhe kwi-Instagram? Ukuba akunyanzelekanga ngaphezulu kokuhlalutya ngokweenkcukacha uhlobo olukhoyo lokucinga, ukuqonda indlela esihlekisa ngayo.
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Ngaba ungomnye wabo bacinga ukuba oomama baneentsana ngenjongo yokufumana ii-boobs zethu naphi na?
Kulungile ke, ulahlekile kakhulu kunenaliti kwisitokhwe sefula, uxolile ukuyithetha ngokucacileyo
Umbuzo ulayishwe ngokungathandekiyo, yindlela yam yokubonisa ukuxakeka kwam kulo mgangatho mibini ndithetha ngawo. Ukuba besicacile lonto siqala kwisidingo seentsana zokuncanciswa, mhlawumbi ayisayi kusikhathaza, Okanye iya kuqhubeka nokwenza njalo? Ukuzekelisa, umzekelo (ubuxoki kodwa ubufana neemeko zokwenyani) Ndikubonisa olunye uvavanyo oluye lwenza utyelelo oluninzi kunevidiyo yeeSalads, kwaye yapapashwa kwiveki ephelileyo. I-Trollstation, 'idlale' kunye nabakhweli bomnye wemizila engaphantsi komhlaba eLondon, ukubona indlela abasabele ngayo xa bebona indoda ekhathazeke kakhulu, ethi iziphathe gadalala nomama oncancisayo. Okokugqibela inkwenkwe ithatha isigqibo sokuhlala phakathi komfazi kunye nomhambi ohamba nomsindo, ngelixa lo mva ephindaphinda ephindaphinda ukuba wayengenamdla kuluvo lwabanye, kodwa ekwenzeni umdlali weqonga nomntwana wobuxoki abone ukungaziphathi kakuhle kokuziphatha kwakhe.
Ndijonge ngoncedo abanye abakhweli abajikeleze indawo leyo Bazama ukukhusela umama (ongeyonyani), ngelixa bezama ukuthomalalisa iSlattery (Eli ligama lomdlali weqonga), ngaphandle kwempumelelo enkulu inyani. Ndithe kum 'Ndiyathemba ukuba sinalo ixesha lokuguqula le mibono mibi kakhulu yokuncancisa'. Nayi ividiyo:
Ngaba ukuncancisa kusuke ekubeni sisihloko esamkelweyo saza savelisa imbambano? Ndicinga njalo, kodwa siqala nakwinkcubeko, okanye indlela yokwenza izinto kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo malunga nokuba ngumzali. Ke ngoku kufuneka ndiphinde: ukondliwa lilungelo lalo naluphi na usana, ukuncancisa yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza, iingcebiso ezixhaphakileyo zibandakanya ukuyenza kwimfuno, kwimfuno kunokuthetha ukuba kufuneka uhlale ebhentshini lepaki ukuze usana ludle, kwaye kwangaxeshanye, kufuneka uzifumanise kancinane (okanye okuninzi, kuxhomekeke kwindlela ozibona ngayo).
Okokugqibela, kunye nokubeka uburharha, ndikushiya nale meme E Cards ebonisa uluhlu olupheleleyo lweendlela apho ukuncancisa kuchaphazela wonke umntu ongancancisi; amanzi acocekileyo.
Umfanekiso - (Ikhava) YekaDavid Horsey, umzobi weemifanekiso zeLos Angeles Times, (okokugqibela) Amanye amakhadi e-E
Ndiyayithanda le nqaku. Yimpikiswano evulekileyo eluntwini kwaye ibangela iingxoxo ezikrakra. Ngaba singatya kwindlu yangasese? Uvavanyo olukhulu.
Molo Nati, le ngxoxo kunye notshintshiselwano ngezimvo kufanele ukuba zigcinwe; kuba kweyona ndlela iphosakeleyo sibona ukuba oomama abancancisayo babekwa bodwa (kwamanye amazwe ngaphezulu kwamanye), kwaye andinakucacisa ukuba, ekubeni sisenzo sendalo kwaye singenazinjongo zimbi, ivelisa kakhulu impikiswano.
Imibuliso kunye nombulelo ngokuphawula.
"UKUCHAZWA KWENKCAZO YAMAPOLISA ENTSHA NGOMZEKELO"
Ngale Khowudi intsha yaMapolisa, kukubona kwepolisa ukuba wena njengomama uphazamise abanye kwaye awuzokwazi ukuncancisa umntwana wakho kwindawo kawonke-wonke, kuba ungabanjwa ngenxa yesenzo esingafanelekanga indawo yoluntu.
Wow Janeth! Ngokwenene? Luluphi usizi ntar ukuncancisa isenzo sokungathozami? Andenzi tyala!
Enkoso ngokwabelana.
Molo uJaneth, yeyiphi ikhowudi entsha yamapolisa ekutshoyo? Ndayifunda ukuze ndithethe ngokuchanekileyo malunga nomxholo kwaye andizange ndifumane. Ukuba ungandinika olu lwazi, ndiyaluxabisa.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, iyamangalisa indlela abantu abacinga ukuba ukuncancisa sisenzo esicaphukisayo, kwaye singenakwenziwa esidlangalaleni, ukuba ngabantu "abanamandla okuqiqa" babonisa ukungazi ngokupheleleyo, ngokungathi zange baphinde bancanciswe ngoomama babo. intlonipho efanelekileyo, ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukuba bayenza le nto kwabanye oomama, ndiziva ndinenzondo okanye ndala u-mama wabo, umyeni wabo kunye nonina wabazukulwana babo. ... Bafumanisa ukuba esi senzo asihlambulukanga ngezizathu ze-X okanye ze-Y, endaweni yokugxila kwabo badlwengulayo, babulala, beba, baphatha gadalala, njl.
Ke bayadikwa kukuba ngaphezulu kwezilwanyana, kuba umntu ongenako ukuzithetha ngamazwi unolwazi ngakumbi ngobomi, ngobuhle kunaba bantu baziziyatha neengcinga ezimbi.
Enkosi ngokuphawula u-Yesari 🙂
Ayililo ilizwe elinobuyatha njengam; EColombia, ukuzama ukulinganisa ama-gringos ngale ndlela; ayisiyiyo kodwa bayanyanzela ukuba banxibe i-burqa. Ndiyifumanisa le ngcamango ingacingeki kangangokuba indikhokelela kukucaphuka kokuhlala kuluntu olungqongqo ngobusuku obubodwa: Wowisa umthetho kurhwaphilizo lwezopolitiko kunye neejaji. Ngeliphandle, kufanele ukuba kubekho ukuququzelela okuthandwayo ngokuchasene nolawulo olungqongqo lwemithetho echaphazela abafazi kunye neentombi zethu.
Ubethe isikhonkwane entloko, ingxaki esisiseko yimachismo, umdla wentengiso emzimbeni womfazi yiyo ekhokelela kwisikrelemnqa xa sizibonisa ukuba sincancisa.
Enkosi ngezimvo.