Iqhawe labantwana bakho akufuneki libe nekapa kunye namandla amakhulu. Hayi kangako! Iqhawe liya kuba ngumzekelo obalaseleyo wokulandelwa abantwana bakhe kwaye, ewe, kufuneka abe neempawu ezithile ezenza ukuba bahluke kwabanye. Ziziphi iimpawu okanye iimpawu ezenza umntu abe ligorha? Ungaligorha elibalaseleyo kubantwana bakho? Unokuba ligorha lokwenyani.
Umntu owenza isenzo sobukroti esenzeka kube kanye ebomini, njengokubaleka ungene kwisakhiwo esivuthayo, ayingawo amaqhawe.. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, abantu abazinikele ekubeni ngamagorha emihla ngemihla njengabongikazi esibhedlele abathuthuzela abagulayo yonke imihla, banoluhlu lweempawu ezibalulekileyo zobuntu ezinje ngovelwano, isondlo, isidingo sokuphila ngothotho lwexabiso ...
Iimpawu zeqhawe
Abantu bangafunda ukuba ngamagorha, ke nina nibe ngamagorha abalaseleyo kubantwana babo. Apha ngezantsi uzakufumana ezinye zeempawu eziphambili ezinxulunyaniswa namagorha… Ungaphoswa! Kungenxa yokuba ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuba ligorha elibalaseleyo kubantwana bakho, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuba nezi mpawu ... kwaye ubenze babe yinxalenye yakho!
Amagorha ayikhathalele intlalontle yabanye
Uvelwano nemfesane kwabanye zezona zinto ziphambili ezinegalelo ekuziphatheni kobuqhawe babantu. Kukho abo bakhawulezayo ukunceda abanye xa bejamelene nengozi kunye nobunzima eya kuthi ibenze babakhathalele ngokwenyani ukhuseleko kunye nentlalo-ntle yabanye abantu.
Abantu abanotyekelo lobuqhawe baya kuba nenqanaba eliphezulu kakhulu lovelwano. Abantu ababandakanyeka kwizenzo zobuqhawe banenkxalabo ngabo babangqongileyo okanye ngoobani Bayakwazi ukuziva ukuba abantu abafuna uncedo baziva njani.
Amagorha ayakwazi ukuqonda imbono yabanye
Amagorha anemfesane kwaye ayakhathala kwaye anakho nokubona izinto ngokwembono yabanye. Bayakwazi ukuvelana nabantu kwaye xa bejamelene nemeko apho umntu eswele, ungaziva kwangoko ukule meko inye ukuze ubone ukuba unokubanceda njani abanye.
Bangabantu abazithembileyo
Kuthatha ubuchule kunye nokuzithemba ukukhawulezisa apho abanye boyika ukunyathela. Abantu abenza izinto zobugorha bathambekele ekuziva bezithembile ngokwabo nakwizakhono zabo, xa bejamelene nengxaki, banokholo lwangaphakathi lokuba bayakwazi ukujongana nomceli mngeni kwaye baphumelele nokuba zithini na iingxaki zokuba unayo okanye hayi.
Oku kuzithemba kunokuvela kwizakhono zokulwa uxinzelelo olungaphezulu kunye nezakhono zokulawula uxinzelelo.
Banokuziphatha okuhle
Amagorha aneempawu ezimbini ezibalulekileyo ezibahlula kubantu abangengawo amaqhawe. Baphila ngokwexabiso labo kwaye bazimisele ukuthatha umngcipheko wokuzikhusela. Oku Baza kukunika isibindi sokuzimisela ukuthwala umngcipheko kwanengozi yokubambelela kwimigaqo yekhampasi yakho yokuziphatha.
Nangona unokuba bhetyebhetye kwezinye iimeko, kunyanzelekile ukuba abazali babe neempawu ezicacileyo zokuhambisa abantwana babo kwaye bababone abazali babo njengemizekelo.
Amagorha anobuchule kunye namandla
Ukuba namandla omzimba okujongana nengxaki nako kubalulekile ukuba abantu babe ngamagorha. Kwiimeko apho umntu omnye afuna ukuhlangula omnye kodwa engenawo amandla okanye izakhono zokwenza njalo, baya kubanamathuba ambalwa okuba bakwazi ukunceda omnye ngokukuko. Inyaniso, Abantu abathi ngokungakhathali baziphose kwimeko eyingozi banokubonisa ubunzima ngakumbi kubo nakumntu abazimisele ukumnceda.
Kwelinye icala, abantu abanobuchule ngakumbi kwaye abanakho ngokwenyani, njengabantu abanamava kunye noqeqesho kuncedo lokuqala, baya kulungela ngakumbi kwaye baya kuba namandla amakhulu okunceda xa kufuneka izakhono zabo.
Amagorha aqhubeka nokuba ayoyika
Umntu ongena kwisakhiwo esivuthayo ukuze asindise omnye unesibindi esingaqhelekanga, kodwa unakho namandla okoyisa uloyiko. Abantu abanobuntu bokuba ngamagorha bacinga ngokuqinisekileyo ngendalo kwaye baya kuhlala bebona kwezinye iimeko ezimbi iimeko ezininzi ezintle. Oku kuyakwenza igalelo kumandla okujonga ngaphaya kwengozi yangoko kwimeko ngokufumana kuloo meko, nantoni na, isiphumo esinethemba ngakumbi.
Aba bantu banokuba nokunyamezelana okuphezulu komngcipheko, uninzi lwabantu abanenkathalo, abanobubele, kunye nabantu abanqwenela okuhle abanokwazi ukoyisa uloyiko kunye nokubuya nanini na xa besiva ingozi kufutshane. Endaweni yoko, Abantu abatsiba amanyathelo badla ngokuthatha umngcipheko omkhulu kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi babo.
Balandela iinjongo zabo
Amagorha aya kuqhubeka nokusebenza kwiinjongo zawo, nokuba kuye kwafunyanwa ingxaki apha endleleni. Bangabantu abaphikelelayo kwaye oku kwabelwana ngawo onke amaqhawe. Abantu abanezi mpawu bathambekele ekuboneni iziganeko njengezintle abanye bazibona njengezingalunganga. Xa bejamelene nesifo esibulalayo, abantu abanotyekelo lobuqhawe banokujonga kokuhle okunokuvela kwimeko, njengombulelo ohlaziyiweyo ngobomi okanye ukusondela ngakumbi kubathandekayo.
Isigqibo sokusebenza ngobuqhawe lukhetho lomntu siqu olugcina abantu beqhubela phambili ebomini babo. Abanye, kwelinye icala, kuloyiko oluncinci banokukhetha ukubuyela emva kwaye bahlale kwindawo yabo yokuthuthuzela, Ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba ngokuyishiya banokuba nethuba elingcono lokonwaba buqu kunye nokuphuculwa kwangaphakathi.
Awahlukanga kangako ...
Ngokwenyani, amaqhawe awahlukanga kubantu abajongwa 'njengesiqhelo'. Endaweni yoko, kukho izakhono ezinokukunceda ukuba uphucule iimpawu zakho ukuphucula iimpawu zakho zeqhawe. Ukuba novelwano, ukuba nobuchule kunye nokukhangela izakhono ezitsha, ukongeza ekuzingiseni xa ujamelene nobunzima ziimpawu abantu abanokuzisebenzela zona ebomini babo. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ukuba uyakuthathela ingqalelo konke oku, uya kuba ligorha elibalaseleyo kubantwana bakho.