Umdla woku-odola yinto esinokuyifaka ebantwaneni besebancinci. Abanye abantwana sele bezelwe benomgangatho wokuchola izinto kodwa ukuba akunjalo kubantwana bakho, yazi lonto kungasetyenzwa ukwenza umkhwa. Ukuba udiniwe ngabantwana bakho bashiya yonke into ngaphandle kokuchola kunye nokuphuma kwigumbi njengesixakanxaka, ungaphoswa yile post.
Izibonelelo zocwangco
Ukuba yikhompyuter akuvumeli kuphela ukuba uhlale kwindawo apho isiphithiphithi singalawuli. Umyalelo uzisa izibonelelo ezininzi zabantwana:
- Inika izixhobo zokumelana nobomi babantu abadala.
- Ukuphucula ukuhlala kunye.
- Ibenza babenoxanduva lwezinto zabo.
- Bazimela ngakumbi kwaye bazimele.
- Ziya kuba nocwangco ngakumbi ebomini bakho nasengqondweni yakho.
I-odolo ngokwayo ayisiyonto yanelisayo kakhulu ekuqaleni, ke Kuya kufuneka sichaze zonke izibonelelo eziziswa lolo cwangciso emakhaya, indlela yokufumana izinto kakuhle, ukwenza izinto zihlale ixesha elide, ukunqanda ukuhamba nokuwa, ...
Ukwenza lo mkhwa ukuba umiselwe kweyona incinci indlu, kufuneka silandele uthotho lweengcebiso zokuyifezekisa kwaye siphephe nolunye uthotho lweendlela zokuziphatha eziqhele ukwenziwa ngabazali kwaye bajike kuthi. Makhe sibone ukuba zeziphi iingcebiso zokufundisa incasa yoku-odola abantwana.
Ungayifundisa njani incasa yoku-odola kubantwana
- Misela umzekelo. Akukho nto inamandla kwaye ikhuthazayo. Ukuba izinto zakho zilungile, bakuthumela umfanekiso wendlela izinto ekufuneka zenziwe ngayo.
- Sukuthatha izinto zakhe. Ngaphandle kokuba zincinci kakhulu kunjalo. Njengoko bekhula sinokubanceda bathathe iithoyi zabo kodwa singazenzeli zona. Ngaphandle koko baya kukuqhela kuhlala kunjalo kwaye abayi kuba nakho ukufunda umkhwa woku-odola.
- Mnike uxanduva ngokweminyaka yakhe. Kuxhomekeke kubudala kunye nobuchule bomntwana, kuya kufuneka simnike umsebenzi wasekhaya ukuze bakwazi ukusebenzisana ekhaya. Kwinqaku "Ungabafundisa njani abantwana bakho ukuba basebenzisane ekhaya" Sikunika ezinye iingcebiso zokwenza ngokobudala bomntwana. Unokwenza itafile apho ibonakala intle kunye nemisebenzi eyabelwe ilungu ngalinye losapho.
- Beka izinto kwinqanaba lakho. Ukuze zilungelelaniswe, kufuneka ukuba iindawo apho iincwadi zakho, iithoyi, oonodoli ... zigcinwa zikwinqanaba labo. Chaza ukuba yonke into iya phi kwaye ngoba, unokukhetha ukuyenza ngokwahlukileyo. Kodwa xa isiza sinikezelwe into nganye, akufuneki itshintshwe. Ekuqaleni kuya kuthatha ixesha, kufuneka ube nomonde. Sinokukunceda ngokubeka ifoto okanye isitikha kwifenitshala eyahlukeneyo ukuze wazi apho yonke into ihamba khona. Ixesha elingaphezulu baya kuyenza ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukuba usebenzisa into eza kuyibuyisela endaweni yayo. Mkhuthaze ukuba abeke izinto emva kokuzisebenzisa. Ixesha elingaphezulu liyakwenza oko ngokuzenzekelayo.
- Sebenzisa ukucinga kwakho. Abantwana bayakuthanda ukudlala ukuze bafunde, ungaziqambela imidlalo efana nokubona ukuba ngubani othabatha iithoyi ngokukhawuleza, uhlela ngokweemilo okanye imibala, udlala umculo ...
- Nika iiodolo ezilula nezithe ngqo. Endaweni yokuthi "lungisa igumbi lakho" ngumgaqo obanzi, cacisa ngakumbi. Mxelele "Beka amabali akho eshelufini", "gcina oonodoli bakho kwidrowa". Kuya kuba lula kuwe ukwamkela ulwazi.
- Iintsomi. Ukubalisa amabali apho aboneleli abaphambili bexhamla kulungelelwano, emva kokuba bengalunganga kwaye befumana imiphumo emibi.
- Yamkela impumelelo yakho. Mvuyise xa sele eyenzile, usebenze kakuhle kakhulu!
Masibe pacient
Kuthatha ixesha ukuyifumana kwaye kufuneka ungaguquguquki. Yi kungcono uhambe kancinci kancinci, Zibekele iinjongo ezincinci kwaye njengoko uhlangana nazo usete ezitsha. Akungombono olungileyo ukuba nesimo sokugqibelela kunye nawe okanye nabanye, okanye ulindele izinto ezingenakwenzeka. Kuya kufuneka ubenenyani, ngabantwana kwaye kufuneka bafunde ngothando amaxabiso abaza kuwafuna ebomini babo.
Kuba khumbula ... Njengakuwo nawuphi na umkhwa, kufuneka ube nomonde.