Xa iintsana ziqala ukukhasa linqanaba elinomdla, apho zinokuhamba khona ukuze zifumane ilizwe elibangqongileyo. Iintsana zihlala ziqala ukukhasa phakathi kweenyanga ezintandathu ukuya kwezili-6, nangona oko kuya kuxhomekeka kumntwana ngamnye. Abanye baya ngqo ekuhambeni ngaphandle kokurhubuluza kuqala, kwaye abanye baqala ukukhasa kwangoko kwaye bathathe ixesha elide ukufunda ukuhamba. Umntwana ngamnye wahlukile kwaye kufuneka uwahloniphe amaxesha abo. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ufundisa njani umntwana ukukhasa.
Ukurhubuluza
Enkosi ngokukhasa, iintsana zinenkululeko engakumbi yokuhamba kwaye zinokuhamba ngokukhawuleza okukhulu kuzo zone iinyawo. Bafunda ukukhasa emhlabeni ukuze bafumane inkululeko kwaye abanye bayenza ngandlela thile. Nazi iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokukhasa njengoko sikuxelela ngaphakathi Oku kubhaliwe. Kukho umgxobhozo, isitayela sokuhlala, ukujikeleza okuphezulu, i-croquette, inyoka, ukukhasa okuqhelekileyo kunye nebhere.
Es linyathelo ekukhuleni kwengqondo kwiintsana, yinto elungileyo nefanelekileyo kubo. Ngokukhasa ikwayindlela yokunxibelelana ngaphambi kokuba ukwazi ukuthetha, kwaye ikwathanda unxibelelwano lwe-neural phakathi kwezi hemispheres zimbini. Ukuphucula umbono, izakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto, kunye ne-vestibular kunye neproprioceptive system.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kukho ezinye iintsana ezingakhasanisiyo okanye ekunzima ukuzenza. Ukungarhubuluzi akuthethi ukuba kwenzeke into embi kuye, ukude nayo. Umntwana ngamnye unesingqisho sakhe kwaye kufuneka umlinde ukuba afumane ukukhula okuyimfuneko kwemithambo-luvo kunye nomzimba. Nangona ukhumbula ukuba ukuba unayo nayiphi na imibuzo okanye inkxalabo unokuqhagamshelana nodokotela wezilwanyana kwaye uya kukwazi ukuvavanya ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle. Ekhaya singabakhuthaza, sibavuselele kwaye sibancede bakhase.
Ungamfundisa njani umntwana ukukhasa
Fundisa ngokufanelekileyo, asinakufundisa umntwana ukuba akhase. Kodwa sinokukhuthaza kwaye sikhuthaze ukukhasa ukubanceda ukuba bakufezekise. Makhe sibone ezinye iingcebiso zokuyifumana:
- Mnike inkululeko emhlabeni. Shiya indawo eyaneleyo ukuba ayenze ngokukhululekileyo.
- Yibeke kumphezulu ongatyibilikiyo. Umzekelo ikhaphethi okanye umgangatho werabha we-eva apho ungatyibiliki. Ukuba izihlangu okanye iikawusi zakho zityibilika zingcono zisuse.
- Beka phantsi. Ukuze bakhase, abantwana kufuneka basebenze ibhalansi yabo kwaye baya kuba nakho ukuyenza ngelixa besesiswini.
- Beka iithoyi zakhe kuye kodwa ungafiki kuzo. Beka izinto ezi-flashy okanye iithoyi zabo ezizithandayo phambi kwabo kodwa kufuneka bajikeleze kancinci. Ke usana kuya kufuneka lolule isandla ukuze lubabambe okanye lurhubuluze ukuya kubo. Kwakhona sebenzisa ibhola. Kuyinkuthazo kubo kwaye ukufikelela kubo liqela.
- Khasa ujikeleze. Sondela kufutshane nosana lwakho ngalo zone. Ke usana lwakho luya kubona ukuba ngale ndlela kulula kakhulu kwaye luyashukuma ngokukhawuleza ukuba alusixhasi isisu. Eli nyathelo lidla ngokuba nzima kwabanye abantwana.
- Ngenisa kakuhle izandla zakho kwiinyawo zabo. Ngale ndlela izandla zakho ziya kuyeka, kwaye kuya kuba lula kubo ukuguqa ngamadolo ukuzityhalela phambili.
- Ukurhubuluza kufana nomdlalo. Sele uyazi ukuba abantwana bafunda ngcono ngokudlala, ukuba yinto emnandi leyo. Musa ukumcinezela okanye umthethise ukuba akaphumeleli. Ngokuchasene noko, mvuyiselele ngempumelelo yakhe kwaye ukuba akakwazi ukufikelela kwiithoyi zakhe kwaye akhathazeke, ungamnika zona.
Khusela indlu
Xa abantwana befunda ukukhasa, kufezekisa into ekukhuleni kwabo kodwa kukwakho neengozi ezingakumbi ekufuneka bezazi. Khusela iiplagi ukuze zingakwazi ukubeka iminwe yazo okanye nayiphi na into. Kuya kufuneka ulumke ngeedrowa kunye neekhabhathi eziphakamileyo, kunye neengcango. Kukho iindawo zokumisa kunye nokuvalwa kokukhuselwa kwintengiso ukukhusela i-handymen ekubanjweni xa uzama ukuyivula.
Kuba khumbula ... wonwabele lo mzuzu ubaluleke kakhulu kubomi bomntwana wakho kwaye musa ukuxhonywa kuwo ukuba akakabikho.