Xa sicinga ngokuhonjiswa kwabantwana, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ucinga ngezinto ezithandwa ngunyana okanye intombi yakho yokuhombisa, ngemibala efanelekileyo yomoya okhululekileyo, kumalaphu athambileyo nakulungeleyo, ukuze ungasweli nayiphi na ifanitshala yokugcina ukuze ubenayo yonke into icocekile ekunene ... kodwa kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba kukho indawo esisiseko kwigumbi lakho lokulala: ibhedi. Kwaye ukuba une ezimbini abantwana ekufuneka babelane igumbi elinyeNgaba ukhe wacinga ngeebhedi zebhedi?
Iibhedi zebhedi ziyindlela entle yokonga indawo xa abantwana kufuneka babelane kwigumbi lokulala: Ezi bhedi zimileyo zinceda ukugcina indawo efunekayo kwigumbi ukuba amakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana banokuba nendawo yabo kwigumbi lokulala, ukuze bakwazi ukuhamba ngokukhululekileyo kwaye bonwabele ukulala kwiibhedi zebhedi, yeyiphi inkwenkwe okanye intombazana engathandiyo ukulala kwiibhedi?
Kodwa iibhedi zebhedi azisetyenziselwa ukugcina indawo kwigumbi lokulala ekwabelwana ngalo, olu hlobo lwebhedi lunokuba ngaphezulu kakhulu kubantwana. Iibhedi zebhedi zinokuhombisa igumbi lokulala kwaye zitshintshe umhombiso ngokupheleleyo. Ngokwesiqhelo ibhedi ephezulu yeyona ifunwa kakhulu ngabancinci, kodwa kuthekani ukuba umbhinqo osezantsi ujikwe waba yindawo enkulu enamalaphu nezibane? Ngokuqinisekileyo eyona bunk ifunwayo yabantwana iya kuba yeyona ingezantsi ...
Ungajonga njani ukuba iibhedi zebhedi ukongeza ekubeni iluncedo kumagumbi okulala (kwaye ke thintela iibhedi ezimbini ezahlukileyo ezihlala kwigumbi lonke kwaye ungavumeli igumbi lokulala liphefumle) inokuba yindawo yomlingo ebantwaneni.
Ukongeza kwiibhedi ezime nkqo zebhedi eneebhedi ezimbini, unokufumana iibhedi ezintathu kunye neebhedi ezinqamlezileyo ukuze abantwana babonane ngcono kwaye banxibelelane nabanye.
Ngaba unayo iibhedi zebhedi ekhaya? Ngaba abantwana bakho bayakuthanda ukuzonwabisa?