Uyakhumbula ukuba kwiveki ephelileyo sabelana ngeeNethiwekhi zeNtlalo iphulo elikhuthazwe nguMbutho kaZwelonke woKhuseleko lwaBantwana noNgxamiseko 112, sisenzo sokwazisa Ukhuseleko lomntwana esitalatweni, kwaye kugxile kwi isidingo sokujonga ngaphambi kokuwela kwaye udlulise ukukhanya okuluhlaza. Ezi zinto zimbini zilula kwaye zisebenza ngokulula, zikwalula nokuzisebenzisa, nangona kunjalo… amaxesha amaninzi silibale ukuba “abantwana benza oko bakubonayo”.
Kwaye ekubeni besenza abakubonayo, ukuba sibanike umzekelo ombi ngokuya kude kwindlela yokuwela abahambi, okanye ngokuqhuba irobhothi, kukho umngcipheko wokuba baya kuphinda baziphathe kakubi xa sele bebadala, okuthetha ukhuseleko Abanye abantu. Kwaye kunjalo kukwakho nengozi kuwe, eyindalo kwezi ndlela zokuziphatha, ingozi enokuthi ibe ingozi enesiphumo esibi kubantwana bethu. Ukongeza kokukuxelela ngeli phulo, sifuna ukuthatha ithuba lokuphendula nayiphi na imibuzo onayo malunga nalo "Kulunge nini ukuba amantombazana namakhwenkwe aye esikolweni esitalatweni", ndedwa okanye nabahlobo.
Iphulo endikubalisele lona malunga nalo linje Eyona njongo iphambili yokwazisa ngokwasentlalweni, kwaye ijolise ukufikelela ikakhulu kwiintsapho. Kufuneka sifumane imikhwa ekhuselekileyo yokuqhuba, kwaye siqonde indlela esenza ngayo xa abantwana bekho. Kwangokunjalo, kwenziwe iinzame zokufumana inkxaso yeziko kunye neendaba ukuze kusasazwe ulwazi. Ibhlog yethu sele ithathe inxaxheba kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, kodwa sisihloko esibaluleke kakhulu ukuba sifuna ukunikezela imigca embalwa kuyo.
Ukhuseleko ezindleleni: abantwana abahamba ngeenyawo.
Ngamanye amaxesha siyalibala ukuba uKhuseleko eziNdleleni lukwabandakanya zonke izikhokelo Uthintelo lokonzakala okungenanjongo ngelixa uhamba esitalatweni, kwaye ayisiyiyo kuphela enxulumene neemoto. Khumbula ukuba "ukwenzakala ngabom" yingxaki yezempilo ebangelwa kukuvezwa kwezinto ezibonakalayo, kwaye iyathinteleka ngokuchanekileyo ngenxa yokungazi kwayo.
Ngokutsho kwe Isikhokelo sokuthintela ukonzakala okungenanjongo epapashwe ngoDisemba ophelileyo yiMapfre Foundation kunye neSpanish Association of Pediatrics: "ukubhubha kwabantu abangaphantsi kweminyaka eli-14 ubudala kwiindlela zasezidolophini nasezidolophini kwehlile phakathi kuka-2010 no-2013, nokuba ngabahambi ngeenyawo, abakhweli okanye abaqhubi." Kwigalari encinci yemifanekiso engezantsi ungayibona indaleko.
Akukho khuseleko ezindleleni ngaphandle kwemfundo yomqhubi.
Injalo loo nto, ukuba asibakhokeli abantwana, ukuba thina ngokwethu siziphatha ngokungenankathalo, abancinci baya kuxelisa ezo ndlela zingafanelekanga zokuziphatha: Ukugqitha kwisitalato ungajonganga, uwele naphi na, uphephe iimoto ezimileyo erobhothini ukuya kwelinye icandelo lesitalato, njl.. Nangona kunjalo, iimpawu zendlela ziyinto ethile: ayisiyonjongo yolawulo kuphela, kodwa ikwayindlela yothintelo nokhuseleko.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezivela kwesi Sikhokelo sikhankanywe apha ngasentla, ezinxulumene neMfundo yoKhuseleko eziNdleleni xa uhamba esitalatweni:
- Misela umzekelo: unqamle iindlela zokuwela, jonga emacaleni, linda ukukhanya okuluhlaza.
- Abantwana abanomntu omdala ukuya kwiminyaka emi-6 okanye esi-7 ubuncinci. Bakhokele ngesandla, mabahambe nathi bangashiywa ngasemva.
- Abantwana bahamba bebambene ngezandla nomntu omdala nangaphakathi kwendlela.
- Ukubeka iliso ekuphumeni kwegaraji, ukuba iimoto ziyahamba.
- Bafundise ukuwela iindlela ezinqamlezayo, jonga omabini amacala ngaphambi kokuwela, kwaye uhambe uluhlaza.
- Kuphephe ukubaleka ecaleni kwendlela nokuwela isitalato.
- Ukudlala, fudukela kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo: izikwere kunye negadi.
Ndibayeka kweliphi ixesha ukuba bahambe bodwa?
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo uphando lwasixelela oko Iipesenti ezingama-70 zabantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka esi-8 neli-12 ubudala zange baye esikolweni bodwa, Iipesenti ezingama-70! Ndikufumanisa kothusa ukuba sizibandeze oko kuzimela, nangona kuyinyani, yonke into iya kuxhomekeka kumgama osuka ekhaya uye esikolweni, ukuba bakhule kangakanani abantwana, imiqondiso, kunye nobukho bamanye amanyathelo okhuseleko kufutshane nesikolo. isikolo: amagosa ezendlela, irobhothi, iindawo ezithile zokupaka izithuthi, zishiya iindlela zendlela zikhululekile, njl.
Bayayidinga, nawe ke uyayifuna, kodwa lusapho lwakho ekufuneka luthathe isigqibo: kukho abantwana abaneminyaka esi-7 abakulungeleyo ukuya esikolweni bodwa (Uhambo olumalunga nemizuzu eli-10 lwamkelekile kuloo minyaka) nangaphezulu ukuba badibana nabantu ofunda nabo esitratweni, abanye baya ngokwamaqela (abakubudala obahlukeneyo), kukho abantwana abali-9 abakhetha ukuhamba nomama wabo kuba abasayi kuphinda ndimbone de kube ziiyure ezili-17. Nangeyiphi ndlela kuyacetyiswa ukuba uqiniseke ukuba uyazi indlela, ukuba bayawakhumbula amanyathelo othintelo kwaye bayayazi indlela yokuziphatha (ukungabaleki, ukungaphazamisi abanye abahamba ngeenyawo, ukwala ukubonelelwa ngabanye abantu abadala bebamema ukuba babaqhube, njl.njl.).
Asifuni kwaye asinakongeza ezi ngcebiso kuba njengoko ndibekile abekho abantwana ababini abafanayo kwaye akukho zintsapho zimbini ezifanayo. Kwaye ukuba kuyinyani ukuba abantwana bakho banqwenela ukufumana loo nxalenye yokuzimela, kungcono ukuba ngaphambi kokuba bayifumane bazilungiselele. Oo, kwaye ekubeni usapho ayisiyiyo kuphela iarhente, buza kwaye ubango nanini na xa ufuna ukutshintsha izinto (akukho mapolisa akwinyathelo elikufutshane nesikolo kwaye kukho nezithuthi ezininzi?, Ngaba iimoto zingena ezindleleni?). Ukulungiselela oko, ulawulo (amaBhunga esiXeko) kunye namanye amaqumrhu (i-AMPAs) anokujongana neenkxalabo zakho okanye akuncede uzenzele amanye amatyala.