Abantwana abancinci banokuba sengozini kumakhaya abo, kuba ilizwe labantu abadala ligcwele ukungazithembi kwabancinci! Cinga ngekhitshi ... nayiphi na into efika engqondweni yakho iya kuba yinkxalabo yokhuseleko kubantwana bakho. Iimagnethi zembiza akufuneki zifikeleleke, iiglasi ezishushu kufuneka nazo zingabikho endleleni, ungaze ushiye izixhobo zixhunyiwe, iintambo zingabonakali, jonga iikhemikhali kwaye ulumke kakhulu ngeemela kunye nezixhobo zasekhitshini ezibukhali!
Lo ngumzekelo nje omnye weengozi ezinokuthi zifumaneke ekhaya, kodwa kunjalo, zininzi kakhulu ... izinyuko ngaphandle kocingo lokhuseleko, iikona ezibukhali zefanitshala ethile, iidrowa okanye iingcango ezivulekileyo kwaye zivale, indawo yokufikeleleka egqithisileyo njl. Kodwa, Zeziphi ezinye iinkalo zokhuseleko lwabantwana ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo?
Igumbi lokuhlambela
Gcina isihlalo sangasese phantsi kwaye utshixe xa ungasisebenzisi. Beka iqhaga okanye umnyango wokhuseleko ukuthintela abantwana bakho ukuba bangene ngokukhululekileyo xa ungabajonganga. Ungaze ushiye amayeza ngeenxa zonke; kuya kufuneka uzigcine endaweni evaliweyo kwaye zingafikeleleki. Gcina iimveliso ezinjengokuhlamba umlomo, intlama yamazinyo kunye nezinye izinto ezingafanelekanga kubantwana.
Igumbi lokulala labantwana
Ngabantwana ekhaya, nini kungekho zinto phantsi? Kuya kufuneka ugcine ulwaziso oluhlala luhleli lwezinto zokudlala ezincinci ezinokubangela ubungozi, iibhetri, iimali, iimabhile, kunye nezinto zokudlala zakudala (amavili, izihlangu zodoli, njl.
Gcina iintambo zombane zingafikeleleki kwaye usebenzise iziciko zeplagi. Iintambo zonyango lwefestile ezinobungqina bomntwana. Khusela iithelevishini kunye nezinye izixhobo ze-elektroniki ukunqanda nayiphi na into enokwenzeka ukuba iwele phezu komntwana. Sebenzisa amasango ezokhuseleko kwizinyuko. Susa izilingo zeetafile.
Igumbi eliphambili
Izibane, amakhethini, iiragi kunye namakhandlela zizinto ezongeza kubume begumbi lokulala, kodwa banokuba yindawo eyingozi kubantwana abancinci.
Izibane zetafile kunye nezitulo ezinyikimisayo ebezixabiseke kakhulu kwigumbi lomntwana ngoku zinokupela intlekele xa umntwana esukuma esihlalweni okanye anokuthi afikelele kwisibane asibambe ngendlela eyingozi. Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba imifanekiso inyuswe ngokuqinileyo ezindongeni kwaye Iibhokisi zeencwadi nazo zilungile ziqhotyoshelwe ezindongeni.
Kwiyadi okanye egadini
Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukunciphisa umda ukufikelela ngaphandle kwabantwana kwaye nangaliphi na ixesha onokuthi ubeke ngalo iminyango. Iiseti zangasemva kweeseti kunye neendawo zokudlala ziyamangalisa, kodwa kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba zikhuselekile ngokuba nomphezulu ongaphantsi. Ukuba iyadi yakho ibiyelwe, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ivalwe ngokukhuselekileyo.
Ukuba unamachibi okuqubha, ijacuzzis, amachibi ... soloko ubeka ucingo lokhuseleko phakathi kwawo nawuphi na umthombo wamanzi kunye nendlu. Gcina amachibi abantwana engenanto xa ungasetyenziswa. Izixhobo zamandla nezixhobo zegadi kufuneka zitshixiwe kwaye zingafikeleleki; Kukwanjalo ke nakwizinambuzane okanye nayiphi na imveliso yemichiza.
Emotweni
Imoto yindawo apho abantwana kufuneka bakhuseleke khona, ke kubalulekile ukuba babe nesihlalo esivunyiweyo ngokobungakanani, ubunzima, nobudala babo. Gcina iifestile neminyango yemoto itshixiwe ukuze abantwana bangavuli xa bechukumisa amaqhosha. Ukuncediswa lilanga ngokuthuthuzela abantwana abancinci kuhambo lweemoto. Ukuseka iinkqubo zokhuseleko ngokuvula / ukuvala Iingcango zemoto ukunqanda ukwenzakala kweminwe.
Kumakhaya abanye abantu
Ikhaya lakho linokuba bubungqina bokuhamba, kodwa abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho basenokungabi nayo loo mfuno. Oku kuthetha ukuba abazali bafanele bakulumkele ngakumbi xa betyelele amakhaya abanye ukuze babakhusele. Iikhabhathi zamayeza, iidrowa, kunye nezinye iindawo "ezingakhuselekanga" zinokuba sisilingo kubantwana abancinci, kwaye kuthatha umzuzwana nje ukuzibeka engozini. Ukuba kuyenzeka, yiza nosapho lwakho ukonwatyiswa kwaye uchonge "igumbi elikhuselekileyo" elinokudlalwa ngumntwana wakho. Njalo, umkhaphe aye kwigumbi lokuhlambela, nokuba sele eyazi indlela yokwenza izinto yedwa.
Xa uhamba esitratweni
Olona loyiko lukhulu lwabazali kukhuseleko ngamanye amaxesha kuxa behamba nabantwana babo esitratweni, phakathi kweemoto ezimileyo, nakwiindawo ezixineneyo, kwaye benesizathu esihle. Abantwana abancinci bathambekele ekuhambeni kwaye banyanzelisa ukuhamba ngokuzimeleyo.
Abantwana kufuneka baxelelwe ngemithetho yokuqhuba kunye namanye amanyathelo okhuseleko, kwaye abazali kufuneka bayinyanzelise loo mithetho ngazo zonke iindlela. Kwiivenkile ezixineneyo, cinga ukubopha ibhaluni esihlahleni ukuze ubone umntwana wakho kwimeko yokwahlukana ngengozi.
Izinto zokudlala
Xa umntwana wakho ekhwele ibhayisekile, kufuneka eze nezixhobo zakhe zokhuselo. Izinto zokudlala onazo kufuneka ukhuseleke kwaye udlule kulo lonke ulawulo lomgangatho. Kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukuba yonke imidlalo kunye nezinto zokudlala onazo zilungele iminyaka. Lumkela iithoyi ezinokuba mnandi kodwa zibe yingozi njengezithuthuthu. Ukuba uyamthengela enye, Kuya kufuneka uxoxe ngezindululo zokhuselo kunye nomntwana wakho kwaye ubeke esweni ngokusondeleyo.
Kwezemidlalo
Imidlalo ingumbono olungileyo kwaye ikhuthaza impilo ebantwaneni. Inkqubo yemidlalo efanelekileyo yobudala yomntwana wakho inokuba yindlela elungileyo yokutshisa amandla akhe kunye nokonwabela imithambo yemihla ngemihla. Kuya kufuneka ulumkele kuphela iinkqubo zemidlalo ezingathatheli ngqalelo umda womntwana omncinci, njengoko oku kungakwenzakalisa.
Ukhuseleko ebantwaneni lubalulekile, kwaye kufuneka uqaphele ngalo lonke ixesha ukuze bakhule besazi ukuba kukho iingozi ezibangqongileyo kwaye kufuneka babakhathalele!