Siziqonda njengemisebenzi ekhethekileyo ezo zingaphandle kwesiqhelo. Iimvumi, ababhali, abafoti, amagcisa ngokubanzi, kwaye, enyanisweni, kuye nabani na onobugcisa obungaqondakaliyo. Abantu abanomsebenzi ofuna ukuzibophelela okukhethekileyo kunye nokuzibandakanya, njengabapolitiki, abameli okanye oosomashishini.
Zonke ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi zenziwa ngabantu abathi, ngaxa lithile ebomini babo, bafune ukuba ngabazali. Kwaye kufuneka bajongane nobunzima bokulungelelanisa umsebenzi wabo notshintsho olukhulu oluza kubakho.
Nawuphi na umsebenzi unokuba ngumsebenzi okhethekileyo
Ayisiimvumi kuphela, abadlali beemvumi okanye iimvumi abanokuthi babenobunzima boxolelwaniso losapho. Abameli bezorhwebo kunye nabaphathi bamanye amazwe bachitha ixesha elininzi kude nekhaya. Ngamaxesha amade ekunzima ukuwathwala usapho.
Zezobugcisa ezingaqondakali kakuhle sisibini, kwaye nangabantwana. Bayazibuza ukuba kutheni umama okanye utata engekho ukuze abafundele ibali okanye ukubafaka. Nangona kunjalo, Akukho mntu ucinga malunga nokuba umqhubi wetrakhi ucinga ukuba ngutata okanye umama ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe. Uthatha ukuba ngenye imini uyakubakhona kwaye akunyanzelekanga ukuba atshintshe imisebenzi. Awucingi ngobunzima boxolelwaniso, kuba ngumsebenzi oqheleke ngokwenkcubeko.
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Kukho imisebenzi ethile ekufuneka uyilinganisile kakhulu. Ngokukodwa ukuba ngaba yimisebenzi exhomekeke kumfanekiso. Ngomsebenzi oxhomekeke kuwo eluntwini, uzibeka esichengeni sokugxekwa kunye nokugweba okunyanzela uxinzelelo kuxinzelelo lokuthatha ukuba ngumzali okanye hayi.
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Awuthatheli ngqalelo kuphela imigwebo abaya kuyenza ngawe, ngakumbi ukuba ungunina. Ukongeza kwizigwebo eziphelelwe lixesha kunye nezesini onokuthi uzinyamezele, uyoyika into ezokunyamezela usana lwakho.
Inqaku liya kuza xa kuya kufuneka uzibuze ukuba olu tshintsho lufanelekile na. Kodwa uya kuqaphela ukuba ayisiyonto ifanelekileyo kuphela, kodwa nayo izinto akufuneki zitshintshe kakhulu. Yonke into ngumcimbi wokuziqhelanisa.
Yenza utshintsho ngokuthe ngcembe
Le yenye yeendlela ezikhoyo xa usombulula le mpixano. Kuquka ukujonga iimfuno oza kuba nazo xa usana lufika kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe lusenza utshintsho.
Ukuba ingxaki ngomsebenzi wakho kukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi uhambahamba, jonga ukuba ngaba kukho ukhetho olunokuhamba nomntwana wakho. Ukuba oko akunakwenzeka, kuya kufuneka uhlengahlengise umsebenzi wakho kwaye uzilungiselele ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ekhaya. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uwaxabise onke amathuba kangangoko ukuze umntwana wakho anakekelwe kakuhle, kunye nawe okanye lowo ubona kufanelekile. Akukho ndlela ichanekileyo okanye iphosakeleyo, ityala ngalinye lahlukile kwaye lelakho.
Enye yeendlela zokhuselo ezisetyenziswa kwimithombo yeendaba kukusasaza ubuso babantwana.
Kwimeko apho ingxaki kukuba woyika ukuba usana lwakho luya kugwetywa rhoqo. Lungisa umhlaba, zama ukukhusela imfihlo yakho kunye nokusondelelana. Unokuba ngumntu woluntu, kodwa unyana wakho mncinci, uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba uphi na umda. Kwaye nangayiphi na imeko, sukumamela ukugxekwa. Akukho mntu usezihlangu zakho, kananjalo abalwazi nodaka abanyathela kulo.
Khumbula ukuba kutheni ukhethe umsebenzi wakho
Uninzi lomsebenzi okhethekileyo ukhethwe ngobizo. Ulwaneliseko lokuyisebenzisa kukongezwa kumvuzo wakho. Bungcali obunzima kakhulu, kodwa ukuba ibingeyiyo le nto ufuna ukuyenza, ngekhe uqhubeke uyenza.
Akukho mntu ukhetha umsebenzi okhethekileyo, ngesiqhelo, ubomi bukhokelela kuwo. Ngamanye amaxesha kuba kwasekuqaleni ubizo lwakho lukukhokele. Abanye, uyiguqule wade wawa phantsi ngokuchasene nayo.
Inyani yile yokuba yimisebenzi echaza ngqo indlela yakho yobomi. Bakukhokelela kwindlela yesiqhelo okanye yokungabikho ngokupheleleyo okusahlula kwabanye. Kodwa ukuba ngumama, njengenkqubo yendalo yobomi, kufuneka kubekhona kuloo nkcazo. Ayisiyonto yokulahla ubomi bakho, imalunga nokuyihlengahlengisa ukuze ukwazi ukwabelana ngayo.