Ngandlela thile kufuneka ubengumntu onolwazelelo ukuze wamkele umntwana. Ingakumbi kwiimeko ezithile ezinje ngezo zicetywayo ziintsapho ezifudukayo. Bangabantu abakhetheke kakhulu, abakulungeleyo ukunika uthando nokhathalelo besazi ukuba, kungekudala okanye kamva, lo mntwana uya kumka kubo ayokuzifunela usapho. Okwangoku, ezi ntsapho zibakhulisa njengezabo, zibanika uthando kunye nokulungiswa. Uyazibuza mhlawumbi ukuba ngumama nokuba ngumondli, njengotata owamkela inkwenkwana engenathemba ...
Kukho ilaphu elininzi lokusika ukuze uzenzele ngokwakho njengentsapho ekhulisa abantwana. Bafumana abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eli-18 ubudala abathi, ngenxa yeemeko zobuqu zosapho, bakwimeko yokungabikho koncedo. Okanye bohlulwe kwiintsapho zabo zemvelaphi. Nokuba kukugcina ukhuseleko lwabo okanye ngenxa yokuba belahliwe. Umhlaba wokwamkelwa uboniswa ngemiphetho emininzi kwaye phakathi kwabo oomama abangenabani Zezinye ezizezinye xa usondela emntwaneni kwaye umjongile.
Yintoni oomama abangabondli
Ngenjongo yokukhusela abantwana, iintsapho ezikhulisayo ziyazalwa. Nokuba bakwimeko yokulahlwa, ingozi okanye ukuba bohlulwe kumakhaya abo ngenxa yeemeko ezithile, zihlala zinxulunyaniswa nobundlobongela. Uluntu ngalunye oluzimeleyo lwaseSpain lunenkqubo yolawulo yoluntu. Oku kulungiselela uthungelwano lweentsapho ezikulungeleyo ukubamkela aba bancinci kwaye zibakhathalele ixesha elithile.
Ezi oomama abangenabani Bazinikela ekubakhathaleleni nasekukhathaleleni aba bantwana okwethutyana. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana babuyela kwiintsapho zabo emva kokuba iingxaki zosapho zisonjululwe. Kwamanye, bahlala kwiintsapho ezikhulisa abantwana bade kude kugqitywe isigaba sokugqibela sosapho olukwinkqubo yokwamkelwa komntwana ngumntu ongamzelanga ibengowakhe.
¿UnganguMama okhulisa njani? Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka uhlangabezane neemfuno ezithile. Abo banomdla -yiphi banokuba ngabazali- kufuneka ube ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-25 ubudala kwaye ubuncinci iminyaka eli-14 ubudala kunomntwana okhulisayo. Ukongeza, kufuneka bawasebenzise ngokupheleleyo amalungelo abo oluntu. Kwimeko yokhathalelo lokugcina abantwana ngaphezulu komntu omnye, kuvunyelwe kuphela xa bengamaqabane okanye amaqabane azinzileyo. Kwelinye icala, ezinye iimfuno ezinje ngokuba nemeko elungeleleneyo yokuchaphazeleka, ukuba nexesha kunye nesimo sengqondo esiguquguqukayo semfundo kunye nolungelelwaniso lwendalo kusapho ziyavavanywa.
Faka isicelo sokuba ngumzali okhulisa umntwana ongengowakho
Ukuba unomdla kwi yiba ngumama okhulisa umntwana ongowakhe okanye usapho olundwendwe kwaye uneemfuno ezifanelekileyo, kuya kufuneka uye kwiqumrhu loluntu elijongene noluntu lwakho ukuya kwenza isicelo. Uya kungena kwinkqubo yobhaliso kwaye kuya kufuneka uhambe kwinkqubo yovavanyo kunye nokukhetha. Inyathelo elilandelayo kukwenza iiseshoni zoqeqesho. Okokugqibela, usapho okanye umntu ukhethwe kunye nomntwana. Ukuba uyamkela, ubudlelwane buqala ngoncedo lwezixhobo zokusebenza kwengqondo kunye nabasebenzi abafanelekileyo.
Ukuba ufuna yiba ngumama okhulisa umntwana ongowakheKufuneka uyazi ukuba kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokwamkela:
- Ingxamiseko kunye noxilongo: ivumela umntwana ukuba aphile nosapho ngelixa imeko yomntwana ifundwa, yeyabantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-6 ubudala.
- Ixesha elifutshane: ukwamkelwa kweminyaka emibini ukuze umntwana abuyele kusapho lokuqala.
- Ixesha elide: ukhathalelo lokugcina abantwana ngaphezulu kweminyaka emibini ngelixa usapho lwemvelaphi lusombulula iingxaki zalo.
- Iiholide kunye neempelaveki: kubantwana abangaphezulu kweminyaka eli-9 abakumaziko okuhlala kwaye kufuneka bonwabele usapho.
- Intshukumo yezemfundo: yabantwana abaneemfuno zemfundo ezizodwa, izifo ezinganyangekiyo kunye / okanye ukuphazamiseka kokuziphatha kunye namaqela abantakwenu.
- Esisigxina: xa ukushiya kuqinisekile kwaye ulondolozo lwangaphambi kokutholwa lungajongwa njengelungileyo.
Amalungelo omntwana aquka ukuba wonke umntwana unelungelo lokukhulisa iintsapho kwaye uMbuso kufuneka uziqinisekise. Oku kusekwe kwinqaku le-19.1 leNgqungquthela yeZizwe eziManyeneyo ka-1989 kunye noMgaqo-siseko VI wesibhengezo samalungelo omntwana.