Amaziko abantwana ukusukela kwiminyaka emi-0 ukuya kwemi-3 ubudala ekwabizwa ngokuba zii-nursery. Xa abantwana beqala kula makhulu ngelitye ngexesha, banokuba nexesha elibi kakhulu, ngakumbi xa besiva uxinzelelo lokwahlula kubazali babo. Kuqhelekile, kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukuba abazali lihlabathi labantwana kwaye ngequbuliso bazifumana bekwiklasi enabantwana abaninzi nangaphandle kwabazali.
Abazali nabo kunzima xa bebona abantwana babo beshiyeke belila eklasini kwaye obanika ixhala elininzi kangangokuba abanye bade bagabhe. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana baziqhelanise kakuhle kwaye nabazali kufuneka babeyinxalenye yale nkqubo.
Ukuba awazi ukuba wenzeni kwaye umntwana wakho ulungelelwaniso olubi kwiziko lokukhathalela abantwana, landela ezi ngcebiso:
- Yitsho ngokukhawuleza. Sukuhlala umwola umntwana wakho nokuba uyalila. Mange kwaye umxelele ukuba uza kuza kamva uzomlanda. Ngale ndlela uya kuziqhelanisa kwaye uyakuqonda ukuba awumshiyi, kuba uya kuhlala umfuna ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
- Linda. Musa ukulinda umntwana wakho ukuba ahlengahlengise ubusuku bonke, kuba yindawo entsha nengaziwayo kwaye, kungathatha iiveki ezininzi ukuziqhelanisa nemeko entsha.
- Ukuze abantwana bakho baqhelane neziko labantwana kwakamsinya, iinkqubo zibaluleke kakhulu. Ezi nkqubo kufuneka ziqale kubusuku obungaphambili nakusasa kusasa phambi kokuba uphume ekhaya, kuya kufuneka wenze kwaezi ndlela zintsha ukuze umntwana wakho azi ukuba ngoku lixesha lokuya esikolweni. Ukubeka ubhaka ngaphambi kokushiya ikhaya kunokuba yindlela elungileyo kuye ukuba aqale aqonde ukuba lixesha lokuba aye kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci.