Ukuba umntwana wakho uyoyika ukubhabha, mhlawumbi ungomnye wabo Babonisa ukuxhalaba okukhulu kunye nexhala nangeentsuku phambi kokuthatha inqwelomoya. Ukuthetha nje ngokubhabha sele kubenza ukuxhalaba kunye nokuxhalaba ngabazali Kuba ixesha liyeza kwaye abakwazi ukukhwela, kuyakhuthaza ngakumbi.
Uninzi lwabantwana Basabela ngendlela efanayo xa besoyika ukubhabha. Ukuze bancede bangabandezeleki, kufuneka kusetyenzwe iinkalo ezimbini: inxalenye yeemvakalelo, uloyiko, nenxalenye esengqiqweni, apho kuyimfuneko ukuchaza indlela esebenza ngayo inqwelo-moya.
Kutheni kuphakama uloyiko lokubhabha?
Uninzi lwezi ntlobo zoloyiko Zidluliselwa ngokuthe ngqo kwaye zingekho zingqondweni ngabantu abamngqongileyo. Nangona kwiimeko ezininzi olu hlobo lwemeko luyinto eyoyikisayo okanye eyenza uloyiko ngokubanzi, kwezi meko Asiyazi ngokuyifihla kwaye siyidlulisela kubo singaqondanga.
Enye indlela yokoyika ukubhabha kukukwazi Cinga ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukukhwela inqwelomoya kwaye ubone ukuba wahluliwe kumhlaba omkhulu, nethuba lokuwa kunye nesiphumo sokubona umxholo wokufa. Baqala ukuqonda ingcamango yokufa ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-6 kwaye apho banxulumanisa uloyiko lokuhamba uhambo kunye noloyiko kwingozi yentlekele eyenzekayo.
Iingcebiso zokunceda umntwana wakho
- Ukulindela kwangaphambili imeko yokuhamba. Kufuneka wenze isicwangciso ukusuka apho uza kuthatha inqwelomoya ukuya kwindawo oya kuyo. Kuya kufuneka ucwangcise kwaye ube nemincili ngendawo oza kuyindwendwela ukuze uqale ukucinga kunye nokwenza iphupha malunga neenkcukacha.
- Umfanekiso wenqwelomoya oyilayo. Unokuthatha umzuzwana wokucamngca ukuze sonke sibe nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wokuba unjani ngaphakathi kwinqwelomoya, ukuba yindawo ekhuselekileyo, ukuba Awuyi kuqaphela nantoni na eyahlukileyo naphi na apho unokuba ukuyo ngaloo mzuzu.. Kodwa yindawo ekufuneka uhlale kuyo ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukutsiba okanye ukubaleka. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka umnike inkohliso yokuba unokuzoba, ufunde, udlale ngamathoyizi amancinci okanye imidlalo yevidiyo okanye ubukele iimuvi.
- Mgcine onwabile kwaye ezolile kwinqwelomoya. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokugcina umntwana onwabile ngexesha lohambo: sinokuzisa amathoyizi amancinci, imidlalo yokuzonwabisa, iincwadi zokupeyinta, iipakethi ezincinci zeempawu kunye neepeyinti, iincwadi zokufunda, iteknoloji encinci ukuze badlale ngesicelo okanye babukele bhanyabhanya okanye uchungechunge oluthandayo, okanye ukuzisa iilekese ... konke kuya kuxhomekeka oko umntwana ngamnye anokukwamkela ngokufanelekileyo ngokuphathelele ubuntu bakhe.
- Menze azive ekhuselekile kuhambo. zama ukwenza ukuba kwenzeke hlala phakathi kwabantu abadala ababini kwaye hayi ecaleni kwefestile yenqwelomoya, ukuze ungaboni ukuba ubhabha kangakanani na kwaye ube novalo ngakumbi. Kwabona bantwana banesibindi, ukuma ecaleni kwefestile ngamava amnandi.
- Ukuba ngexesha lohambo ucinga ukuba uya kuphuma iinyembezi. Kufuneka ube nohlobo oluthile lwengxabano olulungiselelwe ukuzola le meko. Ngaphezu koko kufuneka udlulise uxolo lwengqondo kwaye ungathuki kuba umntwana uyakhala. Ungavumeli naziphi na izimvo okanye izikhalazo ezivela kwabanye abakhweli zikuchaphazele. Phucula ngezinye zezinto ozilungisileyo ukuze umzuzu ulibaleke. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba umcinezele ngalento ayivayo. kodwa kunokuba ahambe nomntwana ngexesha lakhe lokubandezeleka kwaye amqinisekise.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho uba nesiyezi, Kuhlala kukho iindlela ezilungileyo zolu hlobo lwemeko, ezifana nezacholo ezichasene nesiyezi okanye amayeza okunciphisa oku kuphazamiseka.
- Qhagamshelana nogqirha wengqondo ukuba imeko iyaphuma esandleni. Ukuba ucinga ukuba akukho mathuba okusombulula le nkxalabo, unokuhlala udibana neengcali.