Xa umntwana elila yenye yezona meko zinzima kubazali. Inkqubo ye- ndilila yindlela abantwana abavakalisa ngayo iimvakalelo zabo kunye neemfuno zabo. Abakwazi kuyichaza ngenye indlela kwaye asinakho ukubaqonda. Kwaye saqala apho yiba novalo, Kwenzekani? Ufuna ntoni? uyabanda? Oluvalo alungoyena ulungileyo. Kuba emva koko inokubangela ukwanda apho usana luba novalo.
Ke ngoko, ukongeza ekuzameni ukuveza iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso malunga nokulila kosana lwakho, Sifuna ukukucebisa ukuba usondele njani kwaye uzikhathalele.
Ukulila kusana olusandul 'ukuzalwa
Iingcebiso koomama abatsha: iintsana zikhala kakhulu, Umyinge weeyure ezimbini ngosuku, ubuninzi bawo ebusuku Kukho izifundo ezithi kwiiveki zokuqala ezintandathu zobomi bafikelela kwezona zililo kwaye baphumle, masithi bayayamkela inyani yabo entsha ngaphandle kwesibeleko, ke ngoko Ngokubanzi, bayayeka ukulila kakhulu. Impendulo yethu yokuqala kufuneka ibe kukujonga ukuba ulambile, ufuna ukutshintshwa kwe-diaper, okanye ukumwola. Ukuba yena ukukhala kuyaqhubeka, Kulapho siqala khona ukuba novalo kwaye le ngxwabangxwaba idluliselwa emntwaneni ngokulandelelana.
Uninzi lweentsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa luyazola, luzive lukhuseleke ngakumbi, kwaye luthuthuzelekile ukuba kunjalo Songa ngokuqinileyo ngengubo okanye ngeshali. Le mvakalelo yokufudumala kunye nokurhoxa yile nto ubuyiva esibelekweni kwezi veki zimbalwa zidlulileyo, kwaye ukubuyela kolo luvo kufanele kukuthomalalise.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyalila, jonga xa esenza oko, ukuba iiyure ziyaphindaphindwa, ukuba ngumzuzu wokutshintsha kweqondo lobushushu, jonga iintshukumo zakhe, kunye nokuqina, ubude kunye nokukhala rhoqo. Olu lwazi lubalulekile kwi- ugqirha wezingane.
Ukuzikhathalela wena ngelixa umntwana elila
Kukho abantwana abathi akukho lula ukuthuthuzela Kwaye bavavanya umonde kamama (kunye nabamelwane) Ukuva ukukhala kosana kunokuba yinto enomdla, kwaye yenzelwe loo nto, ukuze lonke ingqalelo yethu igxile kuyo. Emva kweenyanga ezi-4, ukuba akunjalo ngaphambili, umntwana wakho uya kuyazi indlela yokusebenzisa ukukhala ukuze ufumane ingqalelo yakho. Oko kuya kuba yimfuno yabo, ukuze usabele kwisikhalo sabo. Usana luya kufunda oku Isiphumo, "xa ndikhala, beza" kwaye uya kulindela ukukhathalelwa ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuba ubona ukuba ukukhala kosana lwakho kukwenza uzilahlele, sukuziva ngathi ungunina ombi, Thatha ikhefu, umzekelo, shiya umntwana nesizalwane, ummelwane okanye umntu ogcina umntwana uphume uhambe uyokuhambahamba. Ngamanye amaxesha kuba nzima ukwamkela uncedo abasinika lona.
Gcina kangangoko kunokwenzeka iinkqubo zakho, kunye nezomntwana, kodwa unganikezeli. Yitya impilo, uhleli etafileni, kunye neeyure eziqhelekileyo, hamba yonke imihla, uthathe ixesha lokuzihlambulula. Kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, thatha ithuba lokulala xa umntwana elele.
Iingcebiso zokuthomalalisa umntwana okhalayo
Nokuba kutheni umntwana wakho elila, ezi zikhokelo ziya kukunceda phantse kuzo zonke iimeko. Ekuqaleni qinisekisa ukuba ilweyile licocekile, iqondo lobushushu lanele, awubilo kakhulu okanye kuyabanda. Qiniseka ukuba iimpahla azixinekanga kakhulu kwaye iiseyile, iilebhile okanye amaqhina awaphazanyiswa.
Into yokuqala ukulala phantsi esifubeni sakho kwaye mamela ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho okanye uthambise umqolo wakhe ngelixa uhamba. Ngamanye amaxesha iintsana ziyalila kuba zifuna ukufunqiwa kancinci nokuncanywa. Sicebisa ukuba uyonwabele loo mizuzu.
Kwimeko apho uncancisa isifuba siya kuhlala simzolile, nokuba andilambanga. Yiyo loo nto, ukuhamba ngokuncancisayo kwinto efana ne-pacifier, okanye into yokudlala, kunokunceda.
Los iintshukumo ezinesingqi Baye bafika ngokufanelekileyo, njengoko kubamamele. Mgaxe embhedeni okanye kwisitulo esihambahambayo. Dlala umculo othambileyo, okanye ucule iingoma. Apha Unenqaku malunga nezibonelelo zokuba nesisa.