Ixesha lokufikisa lixesha lotshintsho, inqanaba phakathi kobuntwana kunye nokuba mdala elizisa isiphithiphithi ngandlela zonke. Amanani ekubhekiswa kuyeke ukuba ngumama notata, kwaye babe ngabahlobo. Abazali bahlala bekuziva oku kuhamba ngokudabukisayo, nangona kufanele ukuba kubonwe njengenxalenye yenkqubo yendalo yabantwana bethu kunokuba ikukulahlwe ngumntu. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ukubaluleka kobuhlobo kwinqanaba lokufikisa.
Ukufikisa
Nangona kunokubonakala ngathi linqanaba elikude, sonke sidlulile kulo. Abanye bethu bayigqithile ngentlungu enkulu okanye ngozuko, kodwa awungekhe uyibaleke. Ngumzuzu obaluleke kakhulu wentlalo kunye nophuhliso olunomdla kubomi bomntu, apho kuchazwa khona ubuntu bethu kunye nokukhangela indawo emhlabeni. Kule nkqubo usapho luthatha isihlalo esingasemva, Kwaye ufuna ukuba kunye nabalinganayo, bahlobo.
Kubahlobo, abakwishumi elivisayo bafuna iziqu zabo njengabantu. Usapho alusekho apho ukuba luthi wenzeni okanye ungenzi, nokuba unjani okanye uyeke ukuba yintoni. Abahlobo liqela lakho loontanga, oziva ulungile nabo. Ufuna ukwazi ukuba ngoobani, udibane nabantu, ujonge umhlaba kunye nenethiwekhi. Ngoloyiko oluninzi kunye nokuntsonkotha, kunye ne-hormone ehlaziyiweyo kodwa ngengcinga yokuba ulutsha kuphela olunayo.
Baqala ukubuza imibuzo yabantu abadala kwaye bazame ukugcina umgama kude nabazali babo. Kodwa basengabantwana aboyikayo abafuna uthando nothando lwabazali babo, Ukwazi ukuba bakhona kubo, nangona ngoku bekude kakhulu ukuze bafumane ilizwe ngokwabo.
Ukubaluleka kobuhlobo kwinqanaba lokufikisa
Abahlobo ngexesha lokufikisa babaluleke kakhulu ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi:
- Ubume. Njengoko sibonile ngaphambili, ngaphakathi kweqela nokuba badibana kunye nabalinganayo, kulapho bafumana khona ubuncwane babo. Nangona bevela ngaphandle kunokubonakala ngathi bonke banxibe iilokhwe ezifanayo okanye iinwele ezifanayo, ngamnye kubo ufuna umahluko wabo kodwa ngaphakathi kweqela elibanika ukhuseleko.
- Ukwamkelwa. Ixesha lokufikisa lixesha lokungazithembi, utshintsho lomzimba kunye nehomoni engahlali ithathwa ngokwamkelwa. Ukujonga iqela labantu abakubudala bakho abahamba kwinto enye ngelo xesha kubanika ukhuseleko kunye nokwamkelwa. Ungomnye weqela, ungaziva ulilolo kwisiphithiphithi sabo. Oku kubenza bakwazi ukuziqhelanisa notshintsho kunye nokunyusa ukuzithemba kwabo.
- Ubudlelwane bakho bokuqala bokuthembana. Ulutsha olufikisayo ludla ngokuhlangana ngokudibana, kwaye kulapho baqala khona ukudala amakhonkco abo okuqala okhuseleko kunye nokuthembana nabantu abangaphandle kosapho.
- Inkxaso kwiingxaki ezifanayo. Iitshomi zihlala zikwiminyaka efanayo kwaye zihamba ngokufanayo okanye ezifanayo, eziluncedo kakhulu. Ungumntu oqondayo kwaye obancedayo, kwelinye icala abazali babonwa njengomntu okude ngakumbi abangazichazanga kangako kwiingxaki zabo.
Impembelelo yabahlobo
Uxinzelelo loontanga kwinqanaba lokufikisa lukhona, kwaye inokuba kokulungileyo nokubi. Le yeyona nto inokubakhathaza kakhulu abazali xa abantwana babo befika kwinqanaba lokufikisa, ukuba badibane nabantu ababi.
Ukuphepha ezi nkxalabo kungcono faka abantwana bethu kumaxabiso amancinci kakhulu akhokela indlela abaziphethe ngayo ukuze zingabinampembelelo. Ukuze bazi ukwahlula okuhle kokungekhoyo, kwaye baphembelele izigqibo zabo ngokufanelekileyo. Musa ukujonga abahlobo babantwana bakho njengotshaba, kungenjalo baya kuphambuka. Eyona nto ilungileyo yile Gcina unxibelelwano oluhleBazise ukuba bangathetha nawe xa benengxaki ngaphandle kokugwetywa kwaye uya kuba lapho xa bekufuna.
Kutheni ukhumbula ... ubuhlobo kulutsha lubaluleke kakhulu ukuze bakhule ngendlela esempilweni.