Sonke siyazi ukuba ukukhokelela kubomi obunempilo kubalulekile kwimpilo yethu nakwintlalo-ntle yethu. Ke ngoko, njengoomama nootata, sinoxanduva sifundise abantwana bethu ukufumana uthotho lwemikhwa esempilweni besebancinci. Ubuntwana lixesha apho abantwana babonisa umdla kwaye bafunda ngehlabathi elibangqongileyo. Kungelo xesha ngelixesha baya kuthi baqale ukufumana imikhwa kunye namasiko aya kuthi abeke isiseko sempilo yabo kunye nokuziphatha kubo bonke ubomi.
Ukufunyanwa kwemikhwa yokuphila esempilweni ukususela ebuntwaneni kunokunceda ekuthinteleni iingxaki kubantu abadala njengokutyeba kakhulu, ukutyeba kakhulu, isifo seswekile, isifo sentliziyo okanye umhlaza. Ukufundisa abantwana ngemikhwa esempilweni kwasekuqaleni lelona nyathelo lokuthintela ukukhathalela impilo yabo. Oomama nootata kweli nqanaba banethuba legolide lokufundisa abantwana bethu iziseko zokonwaba impilo yomzimba nengqondo kubo bonke ubomi babo.
Kutheni le nto kubalulekile ukufundisa imikhwa esempilweni ebantwaneni?
Okwangoku Amanqanaba okutyeba komntwana ayothusa. Indlela yethu yokuphila isenza ukuba sibuyele kukutya okucutshungulweyo okunomxholo wekhalori ephezulu ukonakalisa ukutya okusempilweni okufana neziqhamo, ukutya okuziinkozo, iimbotyi okanye imifuno. Ukongeza, ukungabikho kwexesha kunye nokudinwa kuthetha ukuba asisoloko senza imithambo kwaye abantwana bachitha iiyure phambi komabonwakude, ividiyo yomdlalo wekhonsoli, iselfowuni okanye ithebhulethi.
Kwelinye icala, iiyure ezinde zokusebenza zabantu abadala, zibangela ukuba abantwana bachithe ixesha elininzi nangakumbi kwii-nursery okanye ezikolweni, bevinjwa ubukho babazali babo, kangangeeyure. Abantwana banamhlanje baneeshedyuli ezixakekileyo kangangokuba maxa wambi baye babe noxinzelelo, babone ukuphumla kwabo kunye nempilo yeemvakalelo ichaphazelekile.
Ke ngoko, ukufunyanwa kwemikhwa enceda ukuphucula impilo yomzimba nengqondo yabantwana bethu lelona lifa lilungileyo sinokubashiya ukuze bonwabe ubomi obude nobusempilweni.
Phakathi kwezibonelelo ezininzi zokufumana iinkqubo ezisempilweni zisencinci, kufanelekile ukuqaqambisa:
- Ukuthintelwa kwezifo ezinxulunyaniswa nokutya okungafanelekanga, ukungabikho kococeko okanye ukuhlala phantsi.
- Uthintelo lweengxaki zokulala okanye zokutya.
- Impilo entle yeemvakalelo iyaziphepha iingxaki ezinje ngoxinzelelo, ukungasebenzi kakuhle okanye iziyobisi ezinokubakho kwixesha elizayo, icuba, utywala okanye iziyobisi.
- Iziseko zibekelwe ukonwabela impilo entle kubo bonke ubomi.
Indlela yokubethelela imikhwa esempilweni ebantwaneni bakho?
Ithiyori icacile, kodwa ngoku lixesha lokuba uyisebenzise. Ngamanye amaxesha kuba nzima ukufumanisa inkcazo ngqo ukuba yeyiphi le mikhwa isempilweni, njengoko kuya kuxhomekeka kwimfundo nakwamasiko ethu. Nje, Xa sithetha ngobomi obusempilweni, sihlala sicinga ngokutya, ucoceko kunye nemidlalo. Kodwa kukho eminye imikhwa enxulumene nempilo yengqondo, njengokuphepha iimeko zoxinzelelo okanye ezibuhlungu, ukuthanda ukuphumla ngokwaneleyo okanye ukuseka ubudlelwane boluntu.
Abantwana bafumana imikhwa ngokujonga abantu abadala ababangqongileyo kunye nokuzibandakanya kwiinkqubo zabo zemihla ngemihla. Ke ngoko, ukuba sifuna abantwana bethu bafunde ukuphila ubomi obusempilweni, kufuneka siqale ngalo khokela ngomzekelo kwaye uziqhelanise nezinto esifuna ukuzifaka kubo.
Ezinye iimbono zokufundisa imikhwa esempilweni ebantwaneni
- Cwangcisa amaxesha okutya amiselweyo nge iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokutya. Xa bebadala ngokwaneleyo, bandakanya abantwana bakho ekulungiseleleni nasekulungiseleleni iimenyu.
- Yenza ivenkile veki nganye kunye nabo. Ke ungabachazela kubhabho ukuba ukhethe njani okona kutya kunempilo.
- Ukuthengwa thenga ukutya okusempilweni. Ke, xa befuna ukutya, into abayifumanayo iya kuba yimveliso eya kubanceda ukuba baqhele ukonwabela ukutya okuluncedo kwimpilo yabo.
- Lungelelanisa ezemidlalo okanye imisebenzi yangaphandle nosapho. Zama ukuba umdlalo awunyanzelekanga, kodwa yinto emnandi eyonwabelwa ngumntu wonke. Amava anomvuzo kulula ukuwafaka njengomkhwa.
- Yenza i usuku nosuku ukuhlala kancinane. Ukuthatha inja uyikhuphe, uhambe kancinci, uhambe uye esikolweni okanye uyeke ukuma kancinci phambi kwebhasi, zizinto ezincinci ezibandakanya umzamo omncinci kunye nokubonelela ngenzuzo enkulu yezempilo.
- Zibekele usukelo olusengqiqweni. Awufuni kutshintsha imikhwa yakho ngobusuku obunye. Kungcono ukucebisa utshintsho oluncinci kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe uzibandakanye kubomi bakho.
- Thatha ithuba lokufuna kwabantwana ukudlala, ukucebisa ukudlala izinto ezihambisa ulwazi kunye nezixhobo eziyimfuneko ukuzikhathalela kwaye babe sempilweni. Kule nto, sinokusebenzisa imidlalo yokomfuziselo, iingoma, imibongo, imidlalo yokudlala indima okanye iindlela zokumamela ezijongana nemikhwa esifuna ukusebenza kuyo ngamaxesha onke.
Ukufunyanwa kwemikhwa esempilweni ukusuka ebuntwaneni kutyalo-mali kwimpilo yabantwana bakho. Ubuntwana, kunye nomnqweno wabo wokuzalwa kunye nokukwazi kwabo ukufunda, lelona nqanaba libalaseleyo lokubafundisa ukuba baphile ubomi obunempilo nolungeleleneyo emzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Yisebenzise!