Uninzi lwabazali, oomalume, nootatomkhulu banomkhwa ombi wokubhenela ekwenzeni abantwana bathobele. Kuqhelekile ukuva "ukuba awukutyanga ukutya, icuckoo iza kuza kuwe", "ukuba awuyi-odoli iithoyi zakho ziya kuba nomsindo", ndikukhangele "," inkosi yengxowa izakukusa ». Onke la mabinzana angangabalulekanga kubantu abadala kodwa ebantwaneni bakhohlakele kakhulu.
Kuya kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ii-psyche zabantwana zisakwimo kwaye ukuba bakhuliswe benoloyiko baya kuphelela ekubeni ngabantu abangazithembiyo nabanexhala. Indima yabantu abadala, ngakumbi abazali, kukuqinisekisa abantwana ngokungafaki uloyiko kubo. Ke ngoko, umntwana kufuneka aqonde ukuba kufuneka azi-odole izinto zakhe zokudlala kuba kulungile ukuba enjenjalo hayi kuba ingcuka izokumtya. Ukuba ufuna into enyanzelekileyo, ungaya "ukuba awuyenzi uya kwi-penance okanye awubukeli umabonwakude" kodwa ungaze umoyikise ngemifanekiso eyoyikisayo emenza angakhuseleki.
Kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba kude kubudala bokuba abantwana bakholelwe ukuba i-fairies, i-monsters kunye neziporho zikhona, ke akufuneki usebenzise iingqondo zabo ngezisongelo eziya kuphakamisa inqanaba labo loxinzelelo, zibenze babe namaphupha amabi kwaye bazenze bazive bengakhuselekanga.
Ifoto nge: Ngobubele