Bekusoloko kukho inani elibalulekileyo lokunceda abasetyhini ekuzaleni nasekuzalweni. Ufumene amagama ahlukeneyo, umbelekisi, umbelekisi kunye nombelekisi okwangoku.
Lo mzobo, ibalulekile, ayenzelwanga iinjongo zonyango kuphela. Ngokwenene umbelekisi (okanye umbelekisi, okwangumsebenzi wamadoda), ngumongikazi okhethekileyo kubelekiso nasekubelekeleni. Kodwa Kukwintlalontle kwinqanaba lentlalontle, elihamba nathi kwiinguqu ezibonakalayo zomzimba nezengqondo ezenzeka nokuba ngumama.
Isidingo sokomzimba sombelekisi ekuncedeni xa kuziswa
Ngenxa yesikhundla somntwana kunye nomzimba womama, akunakwenzeka ukuba umfazi azale yedwa. Ufuna umntu oza kunceda umntwana wakho aphume kumjelo wokuzalwa. Ngaphandle koncedo ngekhe uyenze ngaphandle kokugoba umqolo wakho kwaye usebenze emngciphekweni wokophula.
Kuyinyani ukuba indaleko inzima ekubelekeni. Oku kungenxa yotshintsho lomzimba oluye lwenzeka kwiinkulungwane zabantu.
Isazi nge-paleobiologist uJuan Luis Arsuaga uyangqina ukuba zimbini iimpawu kulo mba ezonyusa iintlungu zokubeleka. Enye bubungakanani bengqondo kwaye enye ngumjelo wokuzalwa. Oko umntu wema ngenyawo, yatshintsha, yenza isibeleko kunye nelungu lobufazi kwi-angle ye-90º. Yiyo le nto eyenza ukuba kube nzima ukuba umfazi azale ngaphandle koncedo.
Konke oku kuyanzima nangakumbi yimilo yesilinda ejijekileyo yomjelo othethiweyo, owenza ukuhambisa kube nzima nangakumbi. Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto, unikwe ubungakanani bentloko yomntu, nangona ingqondo ingekakhuli. Ukuba ubuchopho bethu bukhule baba lixesha ngaphambi kokuzalwa, bebungayi kulunga ngomsele wokuzalwa.
Eminye imisebenzi yombelekisi
Nangona eyona ndima isisiseko necacileyo yombelekisi kukunceda ekuzalweni komntwana, ayisiyiyo kuphela indima athe lo mntu ubaluleke ngayo ekuhlaleni okanye anayo kwimbali.
Kumaxesha amandulo, Wayekhathalela ukunceda abafazi, kungekuphela nje ngexesha lokubeleka, kodwa nangexesha lokuncancisa nokukhulisa usana. Umsebenzi abaqhubeka nokuwugcina kwaye oko kuyafuneka. Zininzi iinguqu emzimbeni nasengqondweni abazali abatsha abadlula kuzo, kubalulekile ukuba nenkxaso elungileyo.
Babenayo ne umsebenzi wezomthetho, ubalulekile njengeengcali kwezomthetho kumatyala elifa, ndinikela ubungqina ngokuthandabuza ukuba ngubani olizibulo. Baye baqinisekisa ubunyulu babafazi abacele ukurhoxiswa komtshato. Njengakwimeko zodlwengulo okanye ukukrexeza, ibingabo abagqibe ukuba ngaba zenzekile, ngoviwo. Le misebenzi yenziwa ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo kunye neenkolo ezahlukeneyo. Nangona abo bebhekisa emtshatweni bebexhaphakile kumaXesha Aphakathi, kwinkolo yobuKristu.
Kwakhona Babekhathalela yonke into enxulumene nempilo yesini yabasetyhini, ubabonise iioyile okanye izinto zokuthambisa zokubanceda, iindlela zokuthintela ukukhawula okanye ukuqhomfa. Umsebenzi ophindwe kaninzi ubazisela iingxaki ngeNkundla yokuNcina Amakholwa kwaye bathunyelwa esibondeni.
Abazalisikazi okanye ababelekisi, babedlulisa ulwazi lwabo ngomlomo, njalo babenomsebenzi wokufundisa. Babengafane bafunde, kuba kumaxesha amandulo kwakuxhaphakile ukungafundi. Nangona kunjalo, ngokutsho kokumkani wangoku, ngeXesha eliPhakathi, kunokuba yimfuneko ukupasa uviwo. Oku kutshintshile ngenkangeleko yeeyunivesithi. Kwakuxa inkqubo yoqeqesho olusesikweni esinayo namhlanje yaqala ukuyilwa.
Indima yentlalo yombelekisi namhlanje
Okwangoku, umbelekisi kufuneka aqale agqibe isidanga sobugqirha okanye isidanga emva koko afunde i-EIR (njenge-MIR yoogqirha). Emva koko, kuya kufuneka wenze ukuhlala iminyaka emibini engaphezulu.
Lowo ngumahluko omkhulu phakathi iidola nabazalisikazi, uqeqesho olusesikweni. Zombini ezinye kunye nezinye, Ngabantu abaza kukuxhasa kulo lonke utshintsho olwenzekayo xa ukhulelwe kwaye ukhulisa umntwana wakho. Ubuncinane kwiminyaka yokuqala. Umahluko kukuba ngenxa yoqeqesho lwabo, umbelekisi uya kuba nakho ukucebisa nangaliphi na ingcebiso kwezonyango. Banokukucebisa ngcono ukuba ungalusebenzisa nini ulawulo lokuzalwa emva kokubeleka. Kwakhona malunga nexesha lakho emva kwe-puerperium.
Kwinqanaba lentlalontle, zingumthombo obalulekileyo wenkxaso kutshintsho oluveliswa ngumama ebomini bethu. Bona ayincedi nje abantwana bethu ukuba bazalwe, bayasinceda sibakhulise njengoko bekhula besempilweni. Basinceda ukuba sibe sempilweni kusapho lwethu.